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She Never Saw Herself in Children’s TV Shows. So She Created Her Own. – The New York Times

“Doc McStuffins” quickly became one of the most popular children’s TV shows, running for five seasons and viewed by millions of children, age 2 to 5. In fact, in 2016, the first episode of Season 4 reached more than four million children, according to the book “Heroes, Heroines and Everything in Between: Challenging Gender and Sexuality Stereotypes in Children’s Entertainment Media.” The show was nominated for several Daytime Emmy Awards and, in 2014, it won a Peabody Award for children’s programming.

Most importantly, the show helped shift perceptions of Black medical professionals, spurring thousands of female physicians to post pictures of themselves on social media with the caption “We are Doc McStuffins.” In a recent tweet, Dr. Rachel Buckle-Rashid, a pediatrician in Rhode Island, posted that a little girl had just jumped into her arms assuming she was “Doc.” “Maybe Disney Junior has done more for me as a Black woman in medicine than most D.E.I. initiatives,” Dr. Buckle-Rashid added.

In a 2018 survey by the Geena Davis Institute, a research organization focused on representation in film and TV, more than 50 percent of over 900 girls in school and college named “Doc McStuffins” as the show that left enough of a lasting impression on them to pursue a career in STEM.

Interestingly, Ms. Nee noted that boys were watching the show, too, pointing to data from the time indicating that they made up about 49 percent of “Doc” viewers, which exposed them to ideas of more empowered girls as well.

Ms. Nee originally wanted to be an actor. But with her shaved head and baggy T-shirts — “I was deeply queer in the old school sense, which was actually hard-core punk rock,” she explained — she didn’t know who would cast her or how she could fit in. Instead, she decided then to get into production, taking on a role as an associate producer with Sesame Street’s international arm, which took her from Jordan to Mexico to Finland. It was, as she described it, “the coolest job in the world.”

She eventually realized, though, that her greatest strength was writing. She began working on scripts for shows like “Blue’s Clues” and “Wonder Pets,” even as she continued to work as a producer (TV production was and, in large part, still is a freelance-driven business). At one point she was producing “Deadliest Catch,” a reality TV show about Alaskan king crab fishermen, during the day and writing children’s TV shows at night.

Edgewater Candle’s Pride Flag Candle supports The Trevor Project – Yahoo News

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Duchess of Sussex hid references to Princess Diana’s favourite flower in new book

The Duchess of Sussex has revealed that she hid references to Diana, Princess of Wales in her new children’s book. The Bench, which was inspired by Prince Harry’s relationship with the couple’s two-year-old son Archie, includes illustrations of Princess Diana’s favourite flower, forget-me-nots. The subtle nod to the Princess is one of numerous personal “nuggets tucked within the book”, the Duchess said on Sunday in her first media interview regarding the book. The Duchess’ debut publication topp

Euro 2020: UEFA to investigate alleged incidents of homophobia and racism during Hungary games – Sky Sports

UEFA has confirmed it is investigating potential discriminatory incidents that occurred during Hungary’s first two Euro 2020 games at the Puskas Arena.

Anti-discriminatory group Fare sent a report highlighting a homophobic banner in the stands during the defeat to Portugal in Budapest on Tuesday.

Monkey chants were also heard during Hungary’s draw with France on Saturday, with UEFA saying an ethics and disciplinary inspector has been appointed to conduct an investigation.

A UEFA statement read: “In accordance with Article 31(4) of the UEFA Disciplinary Regulations, an UEFA Ethics and Disciplinary Inspector has been appointed to conduct a disciplinary investigation regarding potential discriminatory incidents which occurred in the Puskás Aréna, Budapest, during the 2020 European Championship group stage matches between the national teams of Hungary and Portugal on 15 June 2021 and between the national teams of Hungary and France played on 19 June 2021.”

Chelsea and Denmark’s Pernille Harder has urged UEFA to reconsider moving more Euro 2020 matches to Budapest after the Hungarian parliament passed new anti-LGBT+ legislation this week.

Pernille Harder missed a number of chances during the final
Image: Pernille Harder says she is ‘devastated’ by the actions of the Hungarian government

“Devastated to see that the Hungarian parliament passed new anti LGBT+ legislation this week, criminalising education and advertising of LGBT content to young people,” she tweeted.

“We, the LGBT+ community, are people. We are human beings. We deserve the right to be treated like everyone else

“My thoughts are with the people of Hungary but especially the various LGBT communities in the country.

“The football world has another opportunity to step up. I hope that UEFA will take this seriously and reconsider moving more Euros games to Budapest. Equal game?”

Harder is one of six professional players helping to promote UEFA’s #EqualGame campaign as ambassadors.

Budapest’s Puskas Arena is the only Euro 2020 host venue to allow full crowds for games.

Hungary currently sit bottom of Group F with one point from two games, following up an opening 3-0 defeat to Portugal with a hard-fought 1-1 draw against world champions France on Saturday.

A second-half equaliser from Antoine Griezmann cancelled out Attila Fiola’s opener on the stroke of half-time.

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Controversial Tavistock centre is ‘running a conversion therapy for gay children’ – Daily Mail

The NHS’s only children’s gender transition clinic is currently running ‘conversion therapy for gay kids’ in a bid to persuade them that they are really trans, a gay psychologist who worked there has claimed.  

Dr Matt Bristow said he feared that the Tavistock and Portman NHS trust was ignoring the possibility that boys and girls who told clinicians they wanted to change their sex might simply be homosexual.

His claim has emerged in witness statements for Sonia Appleby, a psychotherapist at the clinic who is suing the trust for allegedly ostracising her after she raised concerns over the use of puberty blockers. 

The Tavistock clinic in London has been at the centre of growing controversy over its treatment of young people for suspected gender dysphoria. 

The number of children wanting to change sex has rocketed in recent years, with the number of referrals to doctors for gender treatment in England among girls under 18 rising from 40 in 2009 to 1,806 in 2017.  

Dr Matt Bristow said he feared that the Tavistock and Portman NHS trust was ignoring the possibility that boys and girls who told clinicians they wanted to change their sex might simply be homosexual

Dr Matt Bristow said he feared that the Tavistock and Portman NHS trust was ignoring the possibility that boys and girls who told clinicians they wanted to change their sex might simply be homosexual

Last year the High Court banned the use of puberty blockers without a court order giving permission on the grounds that children under 16 could not give informed consent to such treatment, which it called ‘experimental’. 

The case was brought by Keira Bell, a teenage girl who started taking the drugs to become a boy and later regretted the treatment. An appeal against the ruling in the Bell case will be heard this week.

Dr Bristow said he was one of several gay members of staff at the clinic who felt concerned that patients’ homosexuality – and the possibility that gay children were saying they wanted to change sex because they were being bullied – was ignored. 

He told staff at the clinic that they were doing ‘conversion therapy for gay kids’.

The Sunday Times reports that in an exit interview when he left the trust, which forms part of Miss Appleby’s legal case, Dr Bristow said he was especially concerned about gay children who were referred to the service having been bullied. 

Sonia Appleby, 62, claims her bosses' actions left her unable to fulfil her role as a Named Professional for Safeguarding Children at Tavistock and Portman NHS Centre

Sonia Appleby claims her bosses’ actions left her unable to fulfil her role as a Named Professional for Safeguarding Children at Tavistock and Portman NHS Centre

The Tavistock clinic in London has been at the centre of growing controversy over its treatment of young people for suspected gender dysphoria. The number of children wanting to change sex has rocketed in recent years, with the number of referrals to doctors for gender treatment in England among girls under 18 rising from 40 in 2009 to 1,806 in 2017

The Tavistock clinic in London has been at the centre of growing controversy over its treatment of young people for suspected gender dysphoria. The number of children wanting to change sex has rocketed in recent years, with the number of referrals to doctors for gender treatment in England among girls under 18 rising from 40 in 2009 to 1,806 in 2017

In his exit interview, Dr Bristow told the clinic that in his view this may have motivated some to say they wanted to change sex and that the doctor ‘tried hard not to let [them] get drawn into the service’.

Dr Bristow also told the clinic that gay staff felt they ‘had to keep sexuality on the agenda, as otherwise it was completely ignored as a topic’.  

A spokesman for the Tavistock told the Sunday Times: ‘The trust strongly refutes the claims. It will vigorously defend its position in the employment tribunal. The trust does not accept that it has penalised anyone for raising concerns.’ 

MailOnline has contacted the trust for further comment. 

The employment tribunal continues. 

The ‘Gay Village character’ who was never the same after a police dog attacked him in Gorton – Manchester Evening News

Ian Bradley was walking with a friend in the early hours when he was caught short.

The medication he was on due to a heart condition included water tablets and he needed to urinate.

He did so in the seclusion of a cemetery near Sunnybrow Park in Gorton, Manchester.

The decision would have consequences for the rest of his life.

Moments later a dog’s teeth were ‘ripping’ into his leg, he would later recall.

He had thought it was pit bull type loose in the area.

But he then realised it was a German Shepherd and it had a handler, with a torch – a police officer.

Ian suffered multiple injuries in the attack at 3am on August 31, 2016, and spent two months in hospital.

His family say he never walked again unaided.

Last year Ian died from gangrene, aged 59, four years after the incident.

His brother says after being ‘viciously’ mauled by the dog Ian’s health deteriorated.



Ian Bradley’s bandaged legs after he was attacked by a police dog in Gorton in 2016. Now his family are demanding an apology from the force

At the time he made a formal complaint to GMP on Ian’s behalf which was referred to the then Independent Police Complaints Commission.

The upshot was that no grounds for misconduct were found regarding the dog handler, who was given ‘management advice’ by the force.

Ian, who lived in Haworth Road, less than half a mile from the scene of the attack was gay and at the time alleged the officer had been homophobic towards him.

His twin brother, Mark, said: “He was taking a short cut in the early hours. He stopped for a wee as he had a medical condition. At that point he was viciously attacked by a police dog. Apparently there had been a burglary in the area and a police dog had been deployed but mistakenly picking up my brother’s scent.

“The dog handler refused to call his dog off, calling by brother ‘a dirty b…..d’. He had seen my brother and his friend and put two and two together coming up with six.



Injuries to Ian Bradley’s legs after being bitten by GMP dog

“A year after the officer wrote a statement claiming my brother was committing an act of indecency, yet bite marks to his legs and clothing prove he was fully clothed. Despite this allegation being a criminal offence no arrest or caution was given. My brother vigorously refuted the allegation.”

Due to Ian’s heart condition it was considered too risky to carry out surgery on the bite injuries, which took many months to heal.

The family member said: “I am not a doctor and Ian had medical issues. Ian’s body was riddled with gangrene which I believe may have developed over a number of years. But the attack definitely changed his life and his ability to walk again.

“I fully accept this was a case of complete mistaken identity. The police dog picked up the wrong scent, but what followed was an assault which in any other circumstances would have ended up in court.



Mr Bradley suffered agonising wounds

“I would love the chance to question the officer in a court of law. Ian walked into a park on a public footpath, and through no fault of his own never walked unaided again.

“I’m not looking for anything more than an apology. Compensation will not help him now.

“If a member of the public allowed their dog, let alone instructed their dog to cause such injuries they would find themselves in court.

“Ian never walked again unaided. He used a stick and also a walking frame which can be seen in a photo of him. In his last four months he was in a wheel chair. It was basically down to very bad circulation. His legs never returned to their natural colour after the attack.”



One of the horrific injuries suffered by Ian Bradley after he was attacked by a police dog in a cemetery in Gorton

A Manchester Evening News reporter interviewed Ian in his hospital bed about two weeks after the attack.

At the time Ian asked to remain anonymous, but said: “All I can remember is this dog running towards me.

“At first I thought it was a pit bull but as it bit into my leg I realised it was a German Shepherd type.

“An officer appeared and he had a torch or a camera with a light that he was shining on the dog. That’s how I could see its teeth ripping into my leg

“The handler pulled the dog off and when he saw my friend he thought we were up to no good. He said ‘You dirty b*****d’.

“He set the dog onto me again. He didn’t do anything to stop. It was like he was taking pleasure in seeing me attacked.

“I’d say the attack lasted for about three minutes, which trust me, is a long time when you’re being bitten by a dog.”

Ian said the dog handler was joined by at least two other police officers around five minutes later, who then called an ambulance.

He added:“I keep having flashbacks. I’ll never be able to go near a police dog again.”

Ian was born and bred in Manchester. His twin brother said: “He was a very flamboyant character to put it lightly. Everyone who knew him loved him. Ian was a party animal and did, if I am totally honest, get involved in drugs, but they were drugs used by the gay community and at the time were not classed illegal.

“Ian worked at the old Ferranti company in Wythenshawe before buying and running his own hotel. I remember one story. He was in the Gay Village and on the table next to him were two men in drag, very self-conscious. On leaving Ian had a bottle of champagne sent to the table with the message “Fab” It summed him up, like him or not.”



In 2017 Ian moved to Bulgaria, having liked its warm summers when he visited decades earlier. His ashes were scattered under an apple tree on his land in the country.

In a nod to his character, his wishes for a ‘Viking’ send off were met.



A tribute to Ian Bradley at his funeral in Bulgaria

Ian’s twin, Mark said: “Fifty nine is no age. My youngest son absolutely adored his uncle and misses him so much. Had Ian received compensation it would have made his last few years so much more comfortable. Other than to take a statement from Ian, police, to my knowledge never made further contact.”

A spokesman for the Independent Office for Police Conduct said: “The Independent Police Complaints Commission received an appeal in November 2017 regarding a complaint that was submitted to Greater Manchester Police concerning an incident in which a man suffered bites on his legs from a police dog.

“The appeal was partially upheld after we found the force failed to respond sufficiently to an allegation that an officer used excessive force with his police dog.

“We directed the force to reinvestigate this element of the complaint.”



GMP headquarters

In a statement GMP said their ‘deepest sympathies’ went out to Ian’s brother for his loss.

“A complaint was received by GMP that was in turn referred to the IOPC who recommended it be investigated locally.

“An investigation was conducted locally and found there to be no case for misconduct, but management advice was given to the officer involved.

“A full investigation report was sent to (Ian Bradley’s brother) to reassure him this had been looked into, and GMP has not been approached by him since the report was issued.

“GMP will always seek to address any concerns or complaints received by the public as fully as possible, and take appropriate action or learning wherever necessary.”

GMP confirmed that Ian was never charged with any offence. Asked if the officer in the case had set his dog on Ian because he suspected he was a burglar, a spokesman for the force said it was ‘not something we would comment on.’

Tensions Remain High Between DeSantis And Florida’s LGBTQ Community – WUSF News

Distancing himself from a controversial order from the state Transportation Department to turn off a Pride Month light display on a Jacksonville bridge, Gov. Ron DeSantis said he isn’t personally involved in such decisions.

“I’m not involved in bridge lighting,” he said last week.

There is evidence that contradicts the governor: In 2019, a Republican former business executive asked DeSantis to consider pink lights for Tampa Bay’s Sunshine Skyway, in honor of breast cancer awareness month.

Janet Cook, the former president of Estee Lauder North America, said the governor’s office directed her to reach out to FDOT with its blessing and separately sent a message to a maintenance engineer in the Transportation Department to follow-up on Cook’s request.

Months later, in October 2019, Tampa Bay’s bridge went pink.

The incident in Tampa was confirmed in an interview this week with Cook and was originally reported in 2019 by the Tampa Bay Times.

That example doesn’t dispute the governor’s statement that he was not involved in the Jacksonville decision, which was widely regarded as the latest sleight by his administration against the LGBTQ community in Florida. Yet it fueled suspicions — voiced so far without evidence — that the department moved against the Pride Month display in ways the governor’s politics would have favored.

The governor’s office, Florida Transportation Department and Jacksonville Transportation Authority have not yet fully responded to public records requests to release internal records, including emails, that would lay out what happened behind the scenes during last week’s bridge decision.

So far, the official explanation offered was this: The Transportation Department received five phone complaints, then ordered the Jacksonville Transportation Authority to take down the display, citing permit violations. After criticism, the rainbow lights returned the next day, as “it is obviously a matter of broad community interest,” the department said.

The incident highlighted the deep divisions in Florida between DeSantis, an ardent conservative who’s increasingly tackled social and cultural issues, and the state’s LGBTQ community, which as a voting bloc skews heavily Democratic.

Florida has one of the highest populations of LGBTQ people in the country, but despite the community’s size, it remains a weak political force in the state, where Republicans control both houses of the Legislature and the governorship.

On June 1, the governor signed the “Fairness in Women’s Sports Act,” which restricts young transgender women from playing on women’s sports teams. The next day, DeSantis vetoed $1.5 billion in line-items from the state budget, including $1 million set aside for two Orlando LGBTQ organizations. Following the bridge lighting controversy, his administration said it wasn’t singling out the LGBTQ community.

The governor is a leader for all Floridians, spokesperson Christina Pushaw said, and that includes the LGBTQ community. “Framing his actions to benefit the entire state, as though they’re attacks on a specific group, is a baseless political narrative.”

Cook said she believed the governor decided to help her because he is a family man. She said she made another request to turn a bridge blue for Earth Month, but it was denied.

“At the end of the day,” Cook said, “I do think it’s FDOT’s decision.”

When it comes to the trans athlete bill, the governor’s office said it is anti-discriminatory toward cisgender women. The governor, Pushaw said, doesn’t want women and girls to lose opportunities for recognition “because they’re competing against biological males who they have no chance to compete against.”

Pushaw acknowledged that complaints about this are rare in Florida but said DeSantis wants to prevent it from happening here the way it happened to the young Connecticut athlete, Selina Soule.

Soule, who spoke at the press conference for the bill signing, said that allowing trans women to compete caused her to lose opportunities in high school track competitions.

Pushaw said Desantis didn’t sign the bill on June 1 — the first day of Pride Month — to send a message. “It was because it was the first day [Soule] could join us.” Her lawyer confirmed there were scheduling conflicts earlier.

To Jon Harris Muerer, the public policy director of Equality Florida, the timing made no difference. This is the first explicitly anti-LGBTQ law passed in Florida in 24 years, he said, and DeSantis did not meet with trans youth before signing it. Muerer said one woman from Connecticut shouldn’t make this a legislative priority in Florida.

Democratic state Rep. Carlos G. Smith said the bill was cruel and unnecessary, and there was an opportunity cost in time spent debating it.

Smith is the state’s first openly LGBTQ representative and serves east Orlando. He has championed progressive causes, especially ones that affect the LGBTQ community. In the time spent on the trans athlete ban, Smith said lawmakers could have focused more on important policy issues like affordable housing and lowering private insurance rates.

“By banning trans girls from competing on girls teams, they are taking away opportunities from trans girls to be part of a team, to be able to learn from their peers, to feel included.”

Orlando resident Joél Morales said that in 2019, DeSantis visited the Pulse Night Club Memorial and promised the crowd he would always support survivors. On a message board at the ceremony, the governor wrote, “Florida will always remember these precious lives.”

As a gay Puerto Rican man, Morales was deeply impacted by the largest attack on LGBTQ in the history of the country. Of the 49 lives lost on June 12, 2016, 90% were Latinx and more than half were Puerto Rican. An anti-terrorism grant helped the community estbalish crisis and trauma centers, including the city’s LGBTQ Center. Morales works there at the Orlando United Assistance Center, where he’s been helping since Day One.

They currently serve 68 Pulse-affected clients, providing a range of mental health and legal services. But now, the grant has run out, and the center’s mental health services are fully booked. Democratic lawmakers Linda Stewart and Anna Eskamami helped the center request $150,000 in appropriations to keep their doors open. Community donations alone wouldn’t be enough. The Zebra Coalition, an Orlando organization that shelters homeless LGBTQ youth, similarly requested $750,000.

DeSantis’ vetoes amounted to $1.5 billion, with the lines for the Orlando organizations making up only .06% of the cuts. Pushaw said there will still be a $212 million increase in funding toward community-based mental health service, for a total of over $1 billion.

“That funding that was requested as an earmark this year was new, not something that was part of the organization’s operating budget in previous years and then removed,” she said.

The budget also includes funding for safe affordable housing and homelessness crisis prevention. LGBTQ organizations, along with any other in the state, may apply through those channels, Pushaw said. The Zebra Coalition could find funding through the Department of Children and Families.

“If you see a headline that says DeSantis vetoes funding for Pulse survivors, it’s just a gut punch emotionally,” Pushaw said. “So I understand … why it’s been used to portray him as some, you know, terrible homophobic person, but that’s not the case.”

Smith said that the suggestion that general funding for mental healthcare was sufficient is “an extremely callous attitude to take towards an extremely vulnerable group of people.” Pulse survivors need culturally competent care, he said.

There’s no guarantee that the organizations will be approved for the funding, Smith said. DCF made news in 2016 for rolling back protections for LGBTQ youth in foster care. They reinstated them after lobbying from LGBTQ groups like Equality Florida. Smith said having to apply is just another bureaucratic hurdle.

As far as the Acosta Bridge controversy, the Democrat said that for anyone who doesn’t believe DeSantis was involved, “I’ve got a bridge to sell you.” FDOT answers to DeSantis, he said.

For now, the trust has been broken. The LGBTQ Center will attempt to raise money from the community to extend its services and hire more mental health counselors. Fred and Maria Wright, parents of one of the 49, pledged $25,000 in a campaign to raise money for the center.

Morales believes they will reach their goal, because he doesn’t want to think about the alternative. He believes the governor can still help, if he’s willing to talk and have conversations.

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This story was produced by Fresh Take Florida, a news service of the University of Florida College of Journalism and Communications. The reporter can be reached at avaloomar@ufl.edu.

Tensions Remain High Between DeSantis And Florida’s LGBT Community – WUSF News

Distancing himself from a controversial order from the state Transportation Department to turn off a Pride Month light display on a Jacksonville bridge, Gov. Ron DeSantis said he isn’t personally involved in such decisions.

“I’m not involved in bridge lighting,” he said last week.

There is evidence that contradicts the governor: In 2019, a Republican former business executive asked DeSantis to consider pink lights for Tampa Bay’s Sunshine Skyway, in honor of breast cancer awareness month.

Janet Cook, the former president of Estee Lauder North America, said the governor’s office directed her to reach out to FDOT with its blessing and separately sent a message to a maintenance engineer in the Transportation Department to follow-up on Cook’s request.

Months later, in October 2019, Tampa Bay’s bridge went pink.

The incident in Tampa was confirmed in an interview this week with Cook and was originally reported in 2019 by the Tampa Bay Times.

That example doesn’t dispute the governor’s statement that he was not involved in the Jacksonville decision, which was widely regarded as the latest sleight by his administration against the LGBTQ community in Florida. Yet it fueled suspicions — voiced so far without evidence — that the department moved against the Pride Month display in ways the governor’s politics would have favored.

The governor’s office, Florida Transportation Department and Jacksonville Transportation Authority have not yet fully responded to public records requests to release internal records, including emails, that would lay out what happened behind the scenes during last week’s bridge decision.

So far, the official explanation offered was this: The Transportation Department received five phone complaints, then ordered the Jacksonville Transportation Authority to take down the display, citing permit violations. After criticism, the rainbow lights returned the next day, as “it is obviously a matter of broad community interest,” the department said.

The incident highlighted the deep divisions in Florida between DeSantis, an ardent conservative who’s increasingly tackled social and cultural issues, and the state’s LGBTQ community, which as a voting bloc skews heavily Democratic.

Florida has one of the highest populations of LGBTQ people in the country, but despite the community’s size, it remains a weak political force in the state, where Republicans control both houses of the Legislature and the governorship.

On June 1, the governor signed the “Fairness in Women’s Sports Act,” which restricts young transgender women from playing on women’s sports teams. The next day, DeSantis vetoed $1.5 billion in line-items from the state budget, including $1 million set aside for two Orlando LGBTQ organizations. Following the bridge lighting controversy, his administration said it wasn’t singling out the LGBTQ community.

The governor is a leader for all Floridians, spokesperson Christina Pushaw said, and that includes the LGBTQ community. “Framing his actions to benefit the entire state, as though they’re attacks on a specific group, is a baseless political narrative.”

Cook said she believed the governor decided to help her because he is a family man. She said she made another request to turn a bridge blue for Earth Month, but it was denied.

“At the end of the day,” Cook said, “I do think it’s FDOT’s decision.”

When it comes to the trans athlete bill, the governor’s office said it is anti-discriminatory toward cisgender women. The governor, Pushaw said, doesn’t want women and girls to lose opportunities for recognition “because they’re competing against biological males who they have no chance to compete against.”

Pushaw acknowledged that complaints about this are rare in Florida but said DeSantis wants to prevent it from happening here the way it happened to the young Connecticut athlete, Selina Soule.

Soule, who spoke at the press conference for the bill signing, said that allowing trans women to compete caused her to lose opportunities in high school track competitions.

Pushaw said Desantis didn’t sign the bill on June 1 — the first day of Pride Month — to send a message. “It was because it was the first day [Soule] could join us.” Her lawyer confirmed there were scheduling conflicts earlier.

To Jon Harris Muerer, the public policy director of Equality Florida, the timing made no difference. This is the first explicitly anti-LGBTQ law passed in Florida in 24 years, he said, and DeSantis did not meet with trans youth before signing it. Muerer said one woman from Connecticut shouldn’t make this a legislative priority in Florida.

Democratic state Rep. Carlos G. Smith said the bill was cruel and unnecessary, and there was an opportunity cost in time spent debating it.

Smith is the state’s first openly LGBTQ representative and serves east Orlando. He has championed progressive causes, especially ones that affect the LGBTQ community. In the time spent on the trans athlete ban, Smith said lawmakers could have focused more on important policy issues like affordable housing and lowering private insurance rates.

“By banning trans girls from competing on girls teams, they are taking away opportunities from trans girls to be part of a team, to be able to learn from their peers, to feel included.”

Orlando resident Joél Morales said that in 2019, DeSantis visited the Pulse Night Club Memorial and promised the crowd he would always support survivors. On a message board at the ceremony, the governor wrote, “Florida will always remember these precious lives.”

As a gay Puerto Rican man, Morales was deeply impacted by the largest attack on LGBTQ in the history of the country. Of the 49 lives lost on June 12, 2016, 90% were Latinx and more than half were Puerto Rican. An anti-terrorism grant helped the community estbalish crisis and trauma centers, including the city’s LGBTQ Center. Morales works there at the Orlando United Assistance Center, where he’s been helping since Day One.

They currently serve 68 Pulse-affected clients, providing a range of mental health and legal services. But now, the grant has run out, and the center’s mental health services are fully booked. Democratic lawmakers Linda Stewart and Anna Eskamami helped the center request $150,000 in appropriations to keep their doors open. Community donations alone wouldn’t be enough. The Zebra Coalition, an Orlando organization that shelters homeless LGBTQ youth, similarly requested $750,000.

DeSantis’ vetoes amounted to $1.5 billion, with the lines for the Orlando organizations making up only .06% of the cuts. Pushaw said there will still be a $212 million increase in funding toward community-based mental health service, for a total of over $1 billion.

“That funding that was requested as an earmark this year was new, not something that was part of the organization’s operating budget in previous years and then removed,” she said.

The budget also includes funding for safe affordable housing and homelessness crisis prevention. LGBTQ organizations, along with any other in the state, may apply through those channels, Pushaw said. The Zebra Coalition could find funding through the Department of Children and Families.

“If you see a headline that says DeSantis vetoes funding for Pulse survivors, it’s just a gut punch emotionally,” Pushaw said. “So I understand … why it’s been used to portray him as some, you know, terrible homophobic person, but that’s not the case.”

Smith said that the suggestion that general funding for mental healthcare was sufficient is “an extremely callous attitude to take towards an extremely vulnerable group of people.” Pulse survivors need culturally competent care, he said.

There’s no guarantee that the organizations will be approved for the funding, Smith said. DCF made news in 2016 for rolling back protections for LGBTQ youth in foster care. They reinstated them after lobbying from LGBTQ groups like Equality Florida. Smith said having to apply is just another bureaucratic hurdle.

As far as the Acosta Bridge controversy, the Democrat said that for anyone who doesn’t believe DeSantis was involved, “I’ve got a bridge to sell you.” FDOT answers to DeSantis, he said.

For now, the trust has been broken. The LGBTQ Center will attempt to raise money from the community to extend its services and hire more mental health counselors. Fred and Maria Wright, parents of one of the 49, pledged $25,000 in a campaign to raise money for the center.

Morales believes they will reach their goal, because he doesn’t want to think about the alternative. He believes the governor can still help, if he’s willing to talk and have conversations.

___

This story was produced by Fresh Take Florida, a news service of the University of Florida College of Journalism and Communications. The reporter can be reached at avaloomar@ufl.edu.

Local & Area News, Sports, & Weather » 1 dead after people hit by truck at South Florida gay pride march – weisradio.com

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(WILTON MANORS, Fla.) —One man was killed and another injured after two people were hit by a truck at a South Florida gay pride march on Saturday evening.

The incident took place at the Stonewall Pride Parade & Street Festival in Wilton Manors, just north of Fort Lauderdale. It came right before the start of the parade.

“What started as a celebration quickly turned to tragedy at today’s Stonewall Pride Parade,” Broward County Sheriff Gregory Tony said in a statement. “Though authorities are still gathering information, we know two individuals marching to celebrate inclusion and equality were struck by a vehicle. One person has died and the other remains hospitalized.”

“This tragedy took place within feet of me and my BSO team, and we are devastated having witnessed this horrific incident,” Gregory added. “I’m proud of all the BSO and local first responders who leaped into action, running into the unknown and instantly provided care for the victims.”

Both individuals were taken to Broward Health Medical Center, where one was pronounced dead. Officials said the other man was expected to survive.

Authorities are still investigating whether it was an accident or deliberate act. The driver was taken into custody for questioning, according to police. The truck hit a nearby gate and came to a stop.

“The investigation is active and we were evaluating all possibilities,” Fort Lauderdale police spokesperson Detective Ali Adamson said at a press conference. “Nothing is out of the question right now, we have to look at all angles and that’s what we are doing.”

“The FBI is involved in an effort to do a thorough and complete investigation,” Adamson added.

The vehicle also narrowly missed hitting a convertible that Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz, D-Fla., was riding in, WPLG reported.

“I am deeply shaken and devastated that a life was lost and others seriously injured at tonight’s @WiltonManorsCty Stonewall #Pride Parade. My staff, volunteers and I are thankfully safe,” she wrote on Twitter.

An emotional Wasserman Schultz, who has represented the 23rd Congressional District since 2013, could be seen making calls and being consoled by staffers afterward.

“We’re praying for the victims and their loved ones as law enforcement investigates, and I am providing them with whatever assistance I can,” Wasserman Schultz added. “I am so heartbroken by what took place at this celebration. May the memory of the life lost be for a blessing.”

The parade was scheduled to start at 7 p.m., but the incident took place just beforehand. It was canceled after the crash, according to Wilton Manors police, though the festival continued.

Justin Knight, the president of the Fort Lauderdale Gay Men’s Chorus, said in a statement provided to ABC Miami affiliate WPLG that he did not believe this was a targeted attack.

“Our fellow chorus members were those injured and the driver was also part of the Chorus family,” said Knight. “To my knowledge, this was not an attack on the LGBTQ community.”

ABC News’ Jon Haworth, Matt Foster and Victor Oquendo contributed to this report.

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On World Refugee Day, Can We Imagine New Ways to Come Together? – HarpersBAZAAR.com

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The triumphant sound of Afrobeat blares from small, tinny speakers perched atop the kitchen counter. The rhythm makes my head nod and my hips sway as I pick a tomato from the pile in front of me and use my paring knife to slice the fruit into thick triangles before throwing them into a large plastic bowl. Next to me stand my fellow line cooks, an international squad from Afghanistan, Syria, Myanmar, and Zimbabwe, though national identities seem irrelevant here, in a place where so many are stateless, trapped on the Greek island of Lesbos, detained in one of the world’s most notorious refugee camps. We keep our heads down as we prep lunch, silently chopping onions and dicing cabbage, our eyes focused and hands quick. It’s our moment of mindfulness for the day. Earlier, one of my kitchen companions told me that working here, at the One Happy Family Community Center, got her out of her head and out of her thoughts. Out of Mória, the largest of the official Greek camps on the island, where, at the time of my visit, 19,000 people were living crammed into a space set up for 3,000—or at least they did until the camp burned down in the fall of 2020. Out of camps where there are fights every night. Where sexual assaults are high. Where you have to queue for hours to get food handouts, and at the end of that, sometimes you open them to find maggots inside. Out of the camps where traumatized people are detained in traumatizing conditions. Where suicide rates are high. Where children as young as six have attempted to take their own lives.

National identities seem irrelevant here, in a place where so many are stateless

I’d come to this volunteer-run kitchen, helmed by internationals working alongside refugees, as part of the research for my new book, Ripe Figs: Recipes and Stories from Turkey, Greece, and Cyprus. The region has seen more than five million people passing through it over the last six years—the largest movement of people Europe has seen since the Second World War—and felt like a microcosm of a challenge faced the world over. Specifically, how can we update our concepts of borders and migration so that they fit the needs of the 21st century?

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Meze, from Ripe Figs: Recipes and Stories from Turkey, Greece and Cyprus by Yasmin Khan

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There are currently more than 70 million forcibly displaced people around the world, and every minute 20 people leave everything they have behind to escape war, persecution, or terror. Millions more go uncounted and unprotected, forcibly displaced by poverty or economic exploitation. Many members of my family and our family friends have undertaken such journeys, fleeing political and social turmoil in the countries of their birth. Some won visa lotteries, others embarked on foreign study, a few claimed political asylum, and others paid illicit smugglers to take them clandestinely over mountains so they could find refuge in Europe or the USA. Many weren’t as fortunate: They couldn’t escape when they needed to and faced lives of limited opportunities at best or imprisonment, torture, and execution for their political beliefs at worst. My childhood memories are littered with images of my parents’ house filled with recent refugees from Iran, who stayed up late, smoking cigarettes and drinking endless cups of tea as they debated the region’s politics. I’d find the remnants of those evenings scattered throughout the living room the next day: small empty clear glasses with dregs of tea leaves at the bottoms, along with crumbs from the tokhmeh—toasted and salted sunflower, melon, and pumpkin seeds that Iranians eat by the kilo.

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Home for a Day NGO, Lesvos, Greece

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For decades, refugees and migrants have been the perpetual scapegoats of politicians, used as a tool for deflecting away from the existing inequalities in our societies. While the wealthy are afforded the privilege of open borders and can live, move, and travel as they please (you can buy residency in 23 countries), the world’s poorest and most in need are met with repression when they try to move. Criminalized and demonized for the simple wish of wanting a better life. It’s worth asking on the 70th anniversary of the international Refugee Convention, how have we gotten to a place where a human being crossing a border is labeled illegal just because they are poor and vulnerable, while a wealthy person doing the same is considered legal? We know from history that what’s legal or illegal doesn’t necessarily equate with what’s right or wrong. After all, once upon a time, slavery and apartheid were legal, and both women voting and gay sex were illegal. Borders, like any man-made political construct, are not set in stone. As we evolve as a society, we often need to change the definition of what is illegal and legal to fit the moral compass of our times. Perhaps it’s time to do the same for borders.

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Melissa Centre, Athens, Greece

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Of course, that doesn’t mean that all borders are irrelevant. The pandemic has shown us that there are times when controls on the movements of people are genuinely necessary. But no one looking at how our global border system works today—increasingly militarized, outsourced to unaccountable private military and security companies, violent, deadly, where children are detained in cages and migrants are left to drown in the sea—can argue that it is humane. It’s especially unjust given that many of those who are displaced from the Global South are forced to move because of conflicts, wars, or unfair global economic policies that have been instigated or imposed by countries of the Global North.

Borders are not set in stone

On my travels through Turkey, Greece, and Cyprus, I met with people from all walks of life, from teachers and doctors to writers and musicians, a mix of migrants and locals. Time and again, over meals shared and hours spent in the kitchen, I saw a vision of how society can be run differently, of how ordinary people step up and support each other when politicians fail, and how humans wherever we are in the world have more to unite us than divide us. There was Nan, a social enterprise restaurant where Greek locals and refugees cook alongside each other, providing economic support and space for integration to bring the two communities together, and Home for a Day, a restaurant-turned-NGO run by husband-and-wife team Nikos and Katerina Katsouris, who gave up everything they had to turn their business into a nonprofit that serves free meals to refugees on white linen tablecloths with proper tableware and cutlery, giving dignity to those who have lost so much. In the face of terrible hardship, I saw how collectivism and empathy are an integral part of who we are, and that for as long as humans have existed, we have traveled, and that migration is part of our species evolutionary pattern for survival.

I saw a vision of how society can be run differently

It is the role of social thinkers to present and argue for ambitious ideas that go beyond the limited constructs of our current systems. All over the world, evidence shows that the policies that militarize borders and criminalize migrants don’t actually stop people who are fleeing for their lives from moving; they only serve to make their journeys more dangerous and difficult. It will take decades of hard work and critical thinking to address some of the questions we face around reimagining borders, but the magnitude of the crisis demands it be matched with a boldness of vision. Particularly as the climate crisis escalates in the coming century, which the U.N. predicts will lead to 200 million climate migrants by 2050.

Humans wherever we are in the world have more to unite us than divide us.

To meet this challenge, we should draw on the words of Martin Luther King Jr. and first dream of what is possible so that we can take steps toward it. This World Refugee Day, I’d like to dream of a different kind of world than the one we have created. A world where the construct of a territorial line arbitrarily dividing communities from each other does not exist. A world where we honor the differences in our cultural backgrounds, but understand that we are all equals living on one shared planet. A world in which the place where we are born does not determine the opportunities we are given. Where we are free to move, work, travel, and live wherever we please and be welcomed as fellow members of the human race. A world without borders.

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WI LGBT Chamber of Commerce – Spectrum News 1

APPLETON, Wis. — Entering the corporate world, or starting a new business can be a rocky road for anyone.

The Wisconsin LGBT Chamber of Commerce provides more resources to help LGBTQ-owned businesses get a jumpstart. Travis Andrews, owner and founder of 88 Events in the Fox Cities is one of the more than 40 businesses in the state that make of the LGBT Chamber of Commerce.

In the past year, his business was nationally accredited as a LGBT Business Enterprise where 51% or more of the business is owned or managed by persons who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. 88 Events specializes in event coordination and works with corporate and other local businesses across north eastern Wisconsin. 

“From a client stand point, we do find clients every once in a while,” says Andrews, “who are same-sex looking for those businesses who they can just feel really comfortable with.” 

Andrews joined the Wisconsin LGBT Chamber of Commerce to help keep his business afloat with new resource opportunities. Through the on-going pandemic, most special events were postponed and with guidance for the LGBT Chamber of Commerce he was able to navigate slow income months in 2020. 

Jason Rae, President of the Wisconsin LGBT Chamber of Commerce, says this space is to uplift small businesses and create a more equitable space in the business world. 

“LGBT and allied individuals want to do business with those that share their values,” says Rae. “So we’re really working hard each and every day to help shine the spotlight and strengthen those businesses.”

As many corporate businesses declare themselves allies and participate in Pride Month throughout the month of June, there’s still much work to get done according to Rae. 

“We see business owners who may not be out for fear of losing a contract, for fear losing a client for fear of what they may do for their business,” says Rae. “And while we know that is a fear for many, we also know that there is a community out there that really wants to support and uplift those businesses.”

“It’s a Sin”: Drama at the beginning of the AIDS crisis – Yahoo News

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Surprise Reunion Leaves Father and 12-Year-Old Son in Tears

A father and his 12-year-old son were left in tears after a surprise reunion in Forestville, Maryland, on June 16.Jonathan Stewart, who shot this footage, told Storyful his brother, Coach Joe, had just been released from prison. Joe and his son, TayRon, had kept in close contact, with Joe even helping out with homework over the jail phone. However, this was the first time they had seen each other since Joe’s imprisonment.“He just thought he was being picked up from routine workouts,” Stewart said, adding that TayRon “had no idea of what he was about to see.” Credit: Jonathan Stewart via Storyful

Winnipeg’s LGBT community rallies to support Club 200 – CBC.ca

People are rallying around a long-standing Winnipeg LGBT cabaret, hoping to ensure its doors will continue to stay open well after COVID-19-related health restrictions ease. 

Three drag performers who are past Miss Club 200 pageant-winners and ambassadors for the Garry Street bar have started a GoFundMe drive which, in only a few days, has raised more than $24,000 of a stated $40,000 goal.

“A city of this size needs to have at least one queer bar, and it needs to be unapologetically, undeniably queer,” said current Miss Club 200 Prairie Sky on Saturday. “And that’s what Club 200 is for so many of us.”

The club, which opened in 1988, has been closed since May 8 due to public health orders. 

The impact of not having a nightlife space for the LGBT community has been immense, Sky said, adding she knows many in the community have been struggling without having the welcoming safe space to go to to connect with other queer people.

As well, the performers saw how much time and money the club’s management was putting into ensuring the space was safe for patrons. 

“We can only imagine it’s a pretty dire situation,” Sky said.  

Club 200 owner Allen Morrison said Saturday the club has been hit hard financially since COVID-19 hit.

“There’s been some debt incurred — for sure, it’s been hard, been difficult,” he said. 

Prior to being shut this year and last, as separate pandemic waves hit, provincial limits on operating hours and capacity also took a toll, Morrison said.

He also worries about the space not being around for the community.

Club 200 owner Allen Morrison, seen in this file image from October 2020, says he’s humbled by the community support. (Trevor Brine/CBC)

“We’re that safe space for so many people in the community from different backgrounds,” Morrison said. “There’s just so many people who need that safe space.”

Morrison is humbled by the outpouring of support for the club, which he said does a lot of charity and community events. It’s an odd feeling to be on the receiving end of it, he added.

“I’m very grateful, and to be honest, it’s a little humbling,” he said. “It feels amazing to have that kind of support … it gives me a lot of optimism for the future.” 

Graeme Houssin, who frequents Club 200 and hosts a podcast called Drag in the Peg, said the bar has been doing everything it could “to make sure our community was supported” during the pandemic. They can’t imagine what would happen to the drag scene if it closed down.

“It’s the last queer-owned bar specifically for the queer community in Winnipeg. It kind of operates as a bit of a community centre … it’s the spot for drag performers and queer folks,” they said.

“I don’t know what we would do without it. It would be a shame, and it would be a horrible loss for the legacy and history of Winnipeg’s queer community as a whole.”

What to watch on TV: ‘Rick & Morty,’ Demi Lovato, Gay Pride – Los Angeles Times

SUNDAY

Boo! The paranormal drama “Evil” relocates from broadcast to streaming for its second season. Anytime, Paramount+

“CNN Special Report” revisits the events of Jan. 6 in “Assault on Democracy: The Roots of Trump’s Insurrection.” Drew Griffin hosts. 6 and 9 p.m. CNN

Oh, snap! A baby photographer plans to snatch a young mother’s newborn in the TV movie “Cradle Did Fall.” 8 p.m. Lifetime

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The dissolution of a couple’s marriage is on hold while they go gallivanting around Europe together in the four-part drama “Us” on “Masterpiece.” 9 p.m. KOCE

An R&B singer and her NBA player husband get into the reality-TV game with “We Got Love Teyana & Iman.” 10 p.m. E!

Three is definitely a crowd when there’s a former significant other still in the picture in the unscripted series “You, Me & My Ex.” 10 p.m. TLC

Wubba lubba dub dub! “Rick and Morty” return in Season 5 of their animated but not-for-kids sci-fi sitcom. 11 p.m. Adult Swim

MONDAY

Tiffani Thiessen is your hostess with the mostest in fresh episodes of “Deliciousness.” 7 and 7:30 p.m. MTV; also Tuesday-Friday

Kim Kardashian and company surprise a family friend with a home renovation on “Celebrity IOU.” 9 p.m. HGTV

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A Muslim casket maker in New Jersey teaches his trade to two young men in need of mentorship in the 2020 documentary “Two Gods” on “Independent Lens.” 10 p.m. KOCE

They’re putting the heat to the meat in the amateur barbecue competition “Grill of Victory.” 10 p.m. Food Network

A bonus episode of “I’ll Be Gone in the Dark” recalls writer Michelle McNamara’s relentless pursuit of the Golden State Killer. 10 p.m. HBO

The parsimonious and the penurious pinch a penny till Honest Abe says, “Hey, quit it!” in the unscripted series “So Freakin Cheap.” 10 p.m. TLC

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TUESDAY

Chuck D, Shania Twain, et al., talk about what it takes to get to the top of the charts in the docuseries “This Is Pop.” Anytime, Netflix

Our ever-evolving understanding of the “Mysteries of Mental Illness” is examined in this four-part series. 9 and 10 p.m. KOCE; also Wednesday

“The Wire’s” Kwame Patterson takes over the title role as “David Makes Man” skips ahead a few years for its second season. 9 p.m. OWN

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It’s brains over brawn in the academic competition “College Bowl.” NFL great Peyton Manning hosts. 10 p.m. NBC

More witches! The supernatural drama “Motherland: Fort Salem” conjures up a second season. 10 p.m. Freeform

WEDNESDAY

A stand-up comic (Iliza Shlesinger) meets the man of her dreams — or does she?— in the 2021 rom-com “Good on Paper.” Anytime, Netflix

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Let’s be franc: You haven’t the euros to afford what’s on offer in the docuseries “The Parisian Agency: Exclusive Properties.” Anytime, Netflix

Abstinence is still the name of the game in Season 2 of the competition series “Too Hot to Handle.” Anytime, Netflix

Our blind amateur sleuth (Brooke Markham) is back in a third season of “In the Dark.” 9 p.m. The CW

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THURSDAY

The docuseries “Epstein’s Shadow: Ghislaine Maxwell” profiles the alleged partner-in-crime of late financier/sex offender Jeffrey Epstein. Anytime, Peacock

Christine Baranski fights “The Good Fight” every moment in a fifth season of this “Good Wife” spinoff. Anytime, Paramount+

Equal pay is the goooooaaaaal of women’s soccer stars like Megan Rapinoe in the 2021 sports doc “LFG.” Anytime, HBO Max

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“RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars” sashays its way over to streaming for its fifth season. RuPaul hosts. Anytime, Paramount+

Cohosts Amy Poehler and Nick Offerman suit up for new episodes of the crafting competition “Making It.” 8 p.m. NBC

Animals say the darndest things and an Oscar-winning actress plays along in the comedic clip series “When Nature Calls With Helen Mirren.” 8 p.m. ABC

Hillman College in the house! Cast members from “A Different World” reconvene on a new “Reunion Road Trip.” 9 p.m. E!

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The documentary “Impact With Gal Gadot” profiles six real-life wonder women making a difference in their communities. 10 p.m. National Geographic

“Conan,” we hardly knew ye. Mr. O’Brien bids late-night audiences adieu once more as his eponymous talk show wraps its 11-season run. 10 p.m. TBS

FRIDAY

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“Bosch,” we also hardly knew ye. Titus Welliver returns as the dogged LAPD detective in the drama’s final season. Anytime, Amazon Prime

“Central Park” welcomes you in a second season of this animated musical comedy. With Leslie Odom Jr. and Kathryn Hahn. Anytime, Apple TV+

“Broad City’s” Ilana Glazer learns what not to expect when you’re expecting in the 2021 horror drama “False Positive.” With Pierce Brosnan. Anytime, Hulu

Marine biologists have a whale of a tale to tell about cetacean communication in the 2021 documentary “Fathom.” Anytime, Apple TV+

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Liam Neeson is an ice-road trucker with a particular set of skills in the 2021 disaster flick “The Ice Road.” With Laurence Fishburne. Anytime, Netflix

All hail the Queen of Hip-Hop Soul in the intimate 2021 documentary “Mary J. Blige’s My Life.” Anytime, Amazon Prime

If you like “The Umbrella Academy,” but wish it had fewer umbrellas, you might enjoy the family-friendly fantasy series “The Mysterious Benedict Society.” Anytime, Disney+

A suburban wife and mother (Sarah Shahi, “Person of interest”) starts feeling that seven-year itch in the steamy comedy-drama “Sex/Life.” Anytime, Netflix

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He worked for Peanuts: Cartoonist Charles M. Schulz and his beloved creations are celebrated in “Who Are You, Charlie Brown?” Anytime, Apple TV+

The documentary “Wolfgang” serves up a profile of celebrity chef Wolfgang Puck. Anytime, Disney+

Demi Lovato, drag artist Trixie Mattel and others take part in the five-hour LGBTQ celebration “YouTube Pride 2021: You Are Everything.” Noon, YouTube Originals

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Soap stars, talk-show hosts and those ubiquitous TV judges collect a little hardware at the “48th Annual Daytime Emmy Awards.” 8 p.m. CBS

Take this waltz: Expect a Strauss favorite or two as the Vienna Philharmonic takes the stage on “Great Performances.” 9 p.m. KOCE

Artist David Choe gets personal with his subjects before he paints their portraits in the unscripted series “The Choe Show.” 10, 10:30, 11 and 11:30 p.m. FX

More unwedded couples get a little nudge in new episodes of the unscripted series “Put a Ring on It.” 10 p.m. OWN

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Folk musician Rhiannon Giddens is among the African American artists featured on a new “Beyond the Canvas.” 10:30 p.m. KOCE

SATURDAY

The fact-based TV movie “Doomsday Mom: The Lori Vallow Story” tells a dark tale of religious fanaticism and unspeakable tragedy. 8 p.m. Lifetime

All is fair in love and real-estate development in the TV movie “Sand Dollar Cove.” With Aly Michalka and Chad Michael Murray. 9 p.m. Hallmark Channel

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Florence-Carlton Gay-Straight Alliance founder speaks out – Missoulian

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Brittany McLaughlin, right, shows support to a student involved with the Florence-Carlton Middle School’s Gay-Straight Alliance.

The public reaction to a middle school club in the Florence-Carlton school district for LGBTQ and allied youth has never dissuaded one of the group’s founders from the decision to create it in the first place.

After protesters and supporters of the Gay-Straight Alliance sparred during public comment at recent school board meetings, the student said she hopes the discussion can be a learning opportunity for the community.

“I have a huge group of people around me to help deal with, or to help spread out the weight,” the student said in an interview last week. “But I also just kind of think that this is going to be good for people who are younger than me.

“This is going to be really beneficial to the community in the long run.”

The Missoulian is not identifying the student, who is a minor, to protect her safety. Only one of the two students involved with creating the club was interviewed for this article.

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Supporters of the Bitterroot Alliance for Diversity and Equality rally before a Florence-Carlton school board meeting in June.

The controversy arose at a school board meeting in April, where trustees were “walking on eggshells” around the district’s policies regarding clubs due to the existence of the Gay-Straight Alliance, according to Brittany McLaughlin, the mother of a child in the district.

After the meeting, McLaughlin wrote a letter to the school board and superintendent explaining why she feels students need this club. The letter had more than 200 signatures in support from parents, community members and former students, she said.

“The people that you’re voting against are people, too,” said the student, referring to people who oppose the group. “And we all need to love each other equally, because without that we’re going to descend into chaos.”

Impact of permission slips

In May, the school board passed in a 3-2 vote the first reading of an updated policy to require parental permission to join formal clubs.

That policy would not have impacted the Gay-Straight Alliance, as it is considered an informal group, but it raised concerns among students and parents.

Attendance for the May meeting spilled out the doors of the district offices and into the parking lot, where people formed prayer circles and donned firearms and American flags.

A group called Stand Together for Freedom has expressed opposition to the club. The group describes itself on Facebook as a “community of God fearing constitutional patriots” in the Bitterroot Valley.

Stand Together for Freedom declined to comment for this article.

A June 8 Florence-Carlton school board meeting quickly turned into a heated debate centered on the school’s informal Gay-Straight Alliance club. Over 200 attendees, who ranged from students, parents, and local doctors, debated the merits of the club, student safety, and the students’ right to self-expression.

In a last-minute decision, the district moved the June 8 meeting from the gym to Zoom, citing safety concerns after alleged threats that people planned to bring guns to the campus.

At that meeting, trustee Matt Reeves sought to amend the policy to limit student participation in clubs to their affiliated school and require parental consent to join informal clubs. The discussion was ultimately tabled and pushed to a special meeting in July after complaints that the motion was too confusing.

Supporters of the middle school’s Gay-Straight Alliance argue that requiring permission slips to participate threatens the existence of the club, particularly for the students who need it most.

“I will sign a permission slip for my kids to be in the GSA, however somebody down the road may not be able to get their parent to sign that permission slip because they don’t think it’s right,” McLaughlin said. “And then that is the kid that loses out, that’s the kid that needs this group more than anything because they don’t have anyone else.”

Some said requiring permission slips might force a student to come out to their parents about their sexuality before they are ready.

Those opposed to the group expressed concerns their parental rights are being taken away. They worry about the secretive nature of being part of a group that you don’t feel comfortable disclosing to your parents.

“The fact is, that anything done in secret or in hiding, there is an underlying motive that cannot be good,” commenter Danell Miller said.

Other commenters explained that students might not feel safe coming out to their parents.

“I personally went to school with multiple people that are part of the LGBTQ community and they didn’t come out until after high school even, and there’s a reason for that,” said Kayla Johnson, who graduated from Florence-Carlton High School in 2011. “I know that some individuals weren’t able to come out at home because of their parents’ personal views, their religious views.”

Other alumni chimed in to support the group as well. Logan Oleson said being a part of a Gay-Straight Alliance in high school “was one of the most life-changing things in my high school experience.”

“I honestly don’t know where I would be today if I did not have the support that I got there,” Oleson said.

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Bullying crisis

Local experts say peer support groups like the middle school’s Gay-Straight Alliance can help unburden students from the mental health impacts of bullying.

Shawn Reagor, with the Montana Human Rights Network, said that the number of crisis calls they’ve received from residents in the LGBTQ community has gone “from two in six months, which is our average, to over 23 in the past six months.”

Crisis calls come through the Montana Gender Alliance, a project of the Montana Human Rights Network, and are defined as someone whose immediate welfare or well-being is at risk. The calls can range from a person who is suicidal to a minor who is being kicked out of their home. 

“There is a crisis happening right now,” Reagor continued. “It’s very important that we provide safe spaces for people to be able to connect with their peers.”

Dr. Elizabeth Beil, a pediatrician based in Missoula who grew up in Florence, said that schools offer more than a place to learn — they are spaces to support students to help them grow and thrive.

As a pediatrician, she understands parents want to be involved in their children’s lives, but sometimes that isn’t possible, she said.

“I think the risk we see is if they’re not comfortable, not able to talk to their family, then this prohibits them from having another safe place for support and having a supportive adult figure,” Beil said.

Repercussions of students not feeling supported include stress, depression, sleep deprivation, self harm and suicidal thoughts, Beil said.

She pointed to a study by Leah Lessard that found schools with LGBTQ support groups like the Gay-Straight Alliance see a decrease in reports of bullying for stigmatized identities, compared with schools without similar groups.

“If a child doesn’t feel safe in their environment, they’re probably going to have stress that then is a repercussion on their grades and their academic ability to learn,” Beil said.

Dr. Lauren Wilson, a local pediatrician and vice president of the Montana Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics, said pediatricians in the state and around the country are concerned about the effects of bullying on kids.

“There are a lot of kids who are at especially higher risk of being bullied, and kids who are minorities in any way, including sexual and gender minorities like the LGBTQ population, are at a higher risk for being bullied in school,” Wilson said.

Research shows that kids experiencing bullying are helped when there are people at the school that they can trust and who can be allies with them, Wilson said.

No ‘gay agenda’

In January, two Florence-Carlton middle school students approached their principal to start the Gay-Straight Alliance club to create a safe space for themselves and other classmates to talk.

“It was really frustrating being one of the only people there who was accepting,” said the student interviewed by the Missoulian.

The club is not affiliated with the national Gay-Straight Alliance, also known as the Genders and Sexuality Alliance. The middle school group does not receive any financial support from the national network.

The group started with just four members, who largely kept to themselves. By the end of the school year it grew to 12. Many members identify as part of the LGBTQ community.

The club operates like a support group, where students gather once a week at lunch to discuss their own experiences with their peers.

“We talk about something that’s happened during the week, like if one of my friends got called a slur or something happened at the school where they felt really unaccepted, or something happened at home where they felt really unaccepted,” the student said.

The members also share different ways that they cope with harassment.

They are selective about who they bring in and are not actively recruiting their peers, the student said.

“We’re not pushing our ‘gay agenda’ onto other people,” she said. “We are staying in our group and we’re not pushing it on to other people.”

The group’s adviser “doesn’t involve herself that much,” and will only interject if the students need help getting back on topic, she said.

Florence-Carlton public schools did not respond to a request for comment.

The student says they work to maintain a positive attitude, with their focus set on the future.

“Obviously, without the group, we wouldn’t be dealing with all this pushback,” the student said. “But my friends and my peers need a safe space, and I would never give that up for the world.”

Part of the heated June 8 debate at a Florence-Carlton school board meeting revolved around whether or not the students have any rights compared to their parents.

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Pride Month 2021: Best gay dad characters to celebrate Father’s Day – Entertainment Daily

It’s Father’s Day this weekend (June 20), and it falls during Pride Month 2021.

LGBTQ+ representation on-screen has come leaps and bounds in recent years.

Gay people are finally beginning to see themselves on screen, sometimes for the first time after years of poorly-written characters and stereotypical tropes.

However, when it comes to gay dads, there’s actually not been as many on-screen as you may think.

While there’s certainly room for more, here are the handful that many LGBTQ+ people fondly remember.

The Birdcage has become a cult classic (Credit: Amazon)

The Birdcage (Amazon Prime)

This ahead of its time movie stars the late Robin Williams as Albert, the owner of a gay cabaret club.

After his son falls in love with a girl who has right-wing conservative parents, Albert and his drag queen husband pretend to be straight to hilarious and heartwarming consequences.

It’s a sweet tale about embracing who you truly are, and not allowing others to change you no matter what.

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Modern Family’s portrayal of a gay family was groundbreaking at the time (Credit: Netflix)

Modern Family (Netflix)

Cameron and Mitchell quickly became a huge hit with viewers after the comedy turned into an unexpected breakout hit.

Arguably the most famous gay characters in years, the two share an incredibly sweet relationship with their adopted child Lily.

They have all the ups and downs other families experience and showed an entirely new generation that gay or straight, all children need are loving parents.

Six Feet Under (Amazon)

Long before Modern Family, Six Feet Under was one of the first shows on network television to feature gay parents.

David and Keith’s appearance on the critically acclaimed dark comedy helped normalise the idea of gay men being in a relationship many in America’s heartland.

In the final season, the happy couple adopted a pair of brothers and finally became the family they had always dreamed of.

Love, Simon (Disney+)

OK, so Simon’s father wasn’t actually gay, but he was an ally. As we know, for many LGBTQ+ people growing up, we didn’t have the father figure we may have hoped for.

However, Love Simon did something incredible. First of all, it was the first-ever mainstream rom-com about a gay teenager. Secondly, it didn’t centre his story in trauma like LGBTQ+ people have been used to for years when it comes to representation.

Instead, Simon had a wonderfully supportive father who didn’t for a second make him feel anything but normal.

The Family Stone (Amazon)

One of the most underrated Christmas movies around, The Family Stone focuses on an uptight businesswoman (Sarah Jessica Parker). She travels to her fiance’s family home to meet the family, but sadly things quickly go haywire.

One of her fiance’s brothers is gay, and at the dinner table, they reveal they have adopted a baby girl. A “nature or nurture” debate ensues, and the resulting scene demonstrates so beautifully how people, both gay and straight, should respond to casual homophobia.

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The Spanish-language film was a hit with critics in 2012 (Credit: Amazon)

My Straight Son (Amazon)

This one focuses on the story of a gay man who doesn’t even consider fatherhood until it’s struck upon him after a personal tragedy.

Diego, a young and successful photographer, is distraught when his boyfriend falls into a coma. He quickly realises he must care for his partner’s son, and the pair slowly begin to form a father-son bond that neither expected.

It’s a heartwarming look at the life of a single gay dad, a perspective rarely seen in the media.

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