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I Tried a 10-Minute Cirque du Soleil Arm Workout, and It Almost Reduced Me to Tears – POPSUGAR

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All I can say is, it’s a good thing no one else was home when I attempted this Cirque du Soleil arms workout. I knew it would be tough (my core quakes just thinking about the Cirque du Soleil Extreme Abs Workout I tried a few months ago), but I can honestly say I didn’t expect to fully collapse after five minutes. That was when, after five full minutes of shoulder-oriented plank variations, Cirque performers and NASM-certified personal trainers Elizabeth and Guilhem Cauchois introduced the “push-up descent and hold.” I want to warn you about this move right now. It’s likely to be the slowest push-up of your life, in which you have to hold at the bottom for a full 10 seconds before pushing back up. It was so intense, I actually shrieked out loud in my empty living room. Think that sounds dramatic? I would, too, but after completing the full workout, I’m just amazed I didn’t burst into tears.

Was this workout challenging? Um, yes. Was it also fast, efficient, and effective? Yes, yes, and yes. If you want to work your arms, shoulders, and back in 10 minutes, no equipment required, give this one a try for yourself!

Egypt police ‘using dating apps’ to find and imprison LGBT+ people – The Independent

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In a brutal effort to “clear the streets” of the LGBT+ community, security forces are entrapping Egyptians using dating apps, throwing them into jail, and subjecting them to systematic torture and abuse, a new report has found.  

Using social media and apps such as Grindr, Egyptian police are creating fake profiles that they use to meet gay, lesbian, bi and trans people, at which point they are picked up off the street and arbitrarily arrested, Human Rights Watch said on Thursday. Police then unlawfully search through the content of their phones to justify keeping them in detention and bring charges against them.  

“Yasser”, 27, told the group he was arrested when he met another man in Giza Center City after chatting with him on Grindr, a same-sex dating app.

“When they came back with a police report, I was surprised to see the guy I met on Grindr is one of the officers. They beat me and cursed me until I signed papers that said I was ‘practicing debauchery’ and publicly announcing it to fulfill my ‘unnatural sexual desires’.”

While in detention, all of the fifteen people interviewed by the rights group said security forces subjected them to physical and verbal abuse, “ranging from slapping to being water-hosed and tied up for days”.

Political activist and transgender woman Malak el-Kashif, 20, said she was arrested and “put in a cage-like cell” the size of a freezer after attending a protest in March 2019. Security forces questioned her about her private life, her sex-reassignment surgery and her relationship with other activists, she said. 

“I suffered the worst verbal abuse I have ever encountered by police officers and they forbade me from going to the bathroom for two days. They subjected me to a forced anal exam. They sexually assaulted me,” she said.

Eight were victims of sexual violence while five were forced to undergo anal examinations, the New York-based rights watchdog said.

One 28-year-old trans activist said she bled for three days after police officers subjected her to forced vaginal and anal examinations as part of so-called “virginity” tests, according to the report.

Another of the victims, “Alaa”, said he has been forced to use a crutch because of injuries from being brutally beaten and serially raped by other detainees.

“‘Virginity’ and anal tests constitute cruel, degrading, and inhuman treatment that can rise to the level of torture and sexual assault under international human rights law,” HRW said.

Protesters march in New York to show support for 52 alleged gay men under arrest in Cairo

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The attacks come amid a fierce anti-LGBT crackdown in the country following the 2017 Mashrou’ Leila concert, when a picture of Sarah Hegazy raising a rainbow flag among the crowd was widely circulated. She was quickly detained by police, who tortured her for months and incited fellow detainees to beat and sexually assault her. Hegazy killed herself three years later, sending waves of shock and solidarity worldwide.

Rights groups say that since the concert authorities have stepped up arrests and prosecutions against LGBT+ people using vague discriminatory “debauchery” and “prostitution” laws.  

“Egyptian authorities seem to be competing for the worst record on rights violations against LGBT+ people in the region, while the international silence is appalling,” said Rasha Younes, HRW’s LGBT+ rights researcher for the Middle East and North Africa.

“Egypt’s partners should halt support to its abusive security forces until the country takes effective steps to end this cycle of abuse, so that LGBT+ people can live freely in their country.”

COVID-19 Hit Especially Harsh for LGBTQ Latinos LGBTQ Latino people are suffering a disproportionate economic – City Limits

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LGBTQ Latino people are suffering a disproportionate economic impact because, as in all crises, the most marginalized people are often the ones who are most affected.

Adi Talwar

Anthony Sanabria, an assistant bartender, has been out of work since March 15. Since March, 13 customers of the bar where Sanabria used to work have died because of COVID-19.

This article originally appeared in Spanish.

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Translated by Daniel Parra

It’s a fact: the pandemic has hit Latinos disproportionately, and it seems to be even harder for LGBTQ Latinos—though it is hard to say for sure because the monthly employment and unemployment reports published by the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics do not include information on sexual orientation and gender identity.

Advocacy groups and academics have been calling for the inclusion of LGBTQ people in government data collection since before the pandemic. “It is important to include this information so that we can disaggregate the impact,” says Daniel Reyes, Chief Program Officer at the New York City Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center, better known as The Center.

The differentiated impact has been noticed and analyzed by independent studies and surveys from organizations working to defend the equal rights for LGBTQ people. For example, the most recent Human Rights Campaign survey shows that “40 percent of Latinx LGBTQ respondents had their work hours reduced due to COVID-19, compared to 32 percent of Latinx respondents, 27 percent of LGBTQ respondents and 21 percent of the general sample population.”

According to Ty Cobb, Senior Director of Strategic Initiatives and Research at Human Rights Campaign, the reasons why LGBTQ Latinx people are suffering a disproportionate economic impact is because, as in all crises, the most marginalized people are often the most impacted. “We know that LGBTQ Latinx people, along with many other LGBTQ people of color, have historically lacked access to power and are fighting years of systemic inequality in our institutions,” Cobb says in a statement to City Limits.

In addition, it is well-known that LGBTQ people in general largely work in industries significantly impacted by the pandemic, “like restaurants or retail, so it is no surprise to see that those who are multiply marginalized have lost their jobs or lost work hours at greater rates,” adds Cobb.

In New York State, 5.1 percent of the population identifies itself as LGBTQ and 20 percent of them are Latinos, according to The Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law.

According to Reyes, a large portion of LGBTQ Latinx work in the leisure and hospitality industries which also includes the foodservice, hotel, and restaurant sectors. “I have friends who used to work in hotels who are still unemployed,” Reyes said by phone.

Unemployed and harassed

Anthony Sanabria is gay and lost his job as an assistant bartender on March 15. Since then, he has not been able to find a steady job. Since March, 13 customers that Sanabria used to see at the bar have died because of COVID-19.

His best friend, a 14-year-old trans woman, also died from COVID-19. “She was like a mom, like a sister and a friend,” Sanabria says on the phone. “I was called at seven in the morning. I was shocked. I fell down. Then I was told that I fainted.”

March also saw the death of Lorena Borjas, the trans activist, for many the leader of the trans-Latinx community in New York. “For a month I fell into a deep depression. I looked like a crazy person. I didn’t eat much. I cried a lot and kept thinking about what I was going to do without the support of anyone. I removed myself from social media. I didn’t want to hear from anyone,” Sanabria says between pauses in a weak voice.

Four of Sanabria’s friends have died and several other straight men he knew. According to HRC, LGBTQ Latinos surveyed not only reported higher unemployment rates, but also “a higher risk of encountering many of the economic setbacks already experienced by the greater LGBTQ population at large, including unemployment, reduced hours and difficulty paying bills,” the report states.

Sanabria, for example, had money to pay his room’s rent until May. Since then, he has been unable to pay his rent and since April, his landlord has harassed him in many ways.

“My landlord has asked me to leave the room four times, all by text messages. When it comes to asking for the rent, she doesn’t like to face me,” says Sanabria. On one occasion when the landlord tried to evict Sanabria, he called the police and the officers explained to his landlord that she could not evict him. Two days later, she removed the stove and the two roommates became upset with Sanabria.

Bianey Garcia-D la O, a political activist and trans rights organizer, says, “It’s not only about the lack of food and money but harassment from the landlords. They cut off electricity, they locked you out by changing your door lock, and people have to put up with the harassment.”

Among the LGBTQ community, the situation of trans women is the most difficult because it is much rarer to find a job that accepts them. “I know that many have fallen back on using drugs or alcohol to forget. In my case, I had stopped smoking cigarettes. I quit smoking years ago, but due to stress I went back to smoking cigarettes and marijuana,” says Garcia-D la O.

García-D la O says some landlords have installed cameras in corridors, in the kitchens, at the entrance of their homes to monitor who is quarantined. “That started because of the coronavirus,” says García-D la O. 

Frustrations and fellowship

Since July, when Sanabria first called the police, the landlord has been more vigilant in using the cameras that were already installed before the pandemic. She constantly asks him about the visitors that he receives and she asks what they do during visits. 

“My friends stop by and bring me food or they come to accompany me,” Sanabria says.

She has also turned off the hot water, removed the dishwasher, and thrown away some of Sanabria’s belongings, he sys.

In August the landlord told him that she was going to put the house up for sale and a few days later one of the two roommates left. Two weeks later, she told Sanabria that the house had been sold. Realtors have been visiting the house ever since. The “For Sale” sign is still on the front door.

“I had to call the police a second time because she tried to kick out my visitors,” says Sanabria. “The police came and talked to her again. She can’t kick me out.”

When tenants are evicted, “what we’ve seen at The Center is that young and old [LGBTQ] people return to the biological family. They go to unaffirming homes,” says Reyes.

Looking at the bright side, both García-D la O and Sanabria, highlight that in the midst of the crisis and despite the lack of money and food, they have found deeper fellowship.

“Bonds of friendship have been created. Many people in the LGBTQ community had never taken up food or money collections before, and all of this was born during the pandemic,” says García-D la O.

Business model built to shatter intimidation lifted City Gym through COVID’s heaviest season yet – Startland News

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Ahead-of-the-curve thinking helped keep City Gym strong in the early days of COVID-19 when the weight of the pandemic dropped on people-focused industries. 

“We lost a fair amount of members — maybe they couldn’t  financially afford it anymore, maybe they didn’t feel safe,” said Hailee Bland Walsh, founder and owner of City Gym in Waldo. “A lot of people said, ‘Don’t worry, I’ll be back, it just doesn’t feel right now.’ … I felt a tremendous amount of grief, honestly. But then I put my big girl pants on and thought, ‘We’re just going to have to do this.’”

And for an industry built on physical connectedness and in-person activity, the challenges were clear, she said.

“I’m in the business of being inside and breathing hard and touching things,” said Bland Walsh. “It has been quite a time for us to navigate, but I keep saying, ‘Creativity is up in COVID.’”

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City Gym outdoor classes

While pivots to online and outdoor classes have met displaced members of City Gym where they are, it’s the Kansas City fitness hub’s decade-old policy against forcing people into intimidating contract memberships that might have saved it from total defeat, Bland Walsh said. 

“Ten years ago, no-contract was crazy,” she said, citing industry standards she looked to change when she opened City Gym in 2011 — an effort born out of her career as a professional soccer player in North Carolina, a trainer in San Francisco, and a desire to get back home to Kansas City. 

Click here to view City Gym’s current offerings and membership rates. 

“Experts said, ‘You’re never gonna make it,’ but I just kept [thinking] ‘I hate being locked into something I’m not using or happy with. Wouldn’t it just be better if we earned their business every month?’” 

Such a philosophy gained the gym more than 1,000 members — each free to end and pause their membership whenever necessary, no strings attached. 

“We wanted to create community, family, and belonging through our actual policies and practices,” she said.

Space for the ‘biggest, fullest expression’ of self

As City Gym’s members start to return, Bland Walsh is reminded of why she got into the fitness space to begin with — and why making the passion entrepreneurial has been well worth long days and late nights, she said. 

Hailee Bland Walsh, City Gym

Hailee Bland Walsh, City Gym

“Gyms are already intimidating places and the folks who need us most are the folks intimidated to walk through the door,” she said, highlighting the importance of inclusivity in fitness and reasons why City Gym earned the attention of Google, which celebrated the business in a nationally televised commercial. 

“We created a workout group that was specific to trans men and Google found out about it. It ran on ABC during the ESPY’s and something like 4 million people saw it,” Bland Walsh recalled, adding the momentum has resulted in even more widespread community work with trans youth. 

“I had parents reaching out to me with questions and I felt obligated to help because of their inquiry, but I didn’t have any true experience [with their needs,]’” she said, noting research led her to Transformations KC — a local transgender, gender non-conforming (TGNC) and gender expansive youth group for teens 12-18, where Bland Walsh currently serves as executive director in addition to her duties at City Gym.

“I feel like my job is creating space for people to show up and be the biggest, fullest expression of themselves. I often times feel a sense of responsibility to generations who came before me to help create more seats at the table that allowed me as a woman, as a member of the LGBT community to have a voice,” she said. 

“I feel quite a sense of responsibility to pay that forward and that’s part of why I do this work, because there’s someone 20 years ago who was having conversations, creating space for me and I want to pay that back or pay that forward by creating things for others.”

Click here to learn more about Transformations KC or to get involved. 

A nurturing home in KC

Space making is equally as vital in building entrepreneurial communities, Bland Walsh said.

“When I first moved back to Kansas City, folks were very generous. At first it took a little bit of trust to believe they genuinely wanted to help me,” she said. 

“If you tell someone in the Bay Area your best idea and they’ve got more money, they can steal it. But Kansas City really welcomed me and absolutely nurtured me.”

Such a sense of belonging ultimately helped City Gym flourish, with Bland Walsh feeling she could bring her true self to the business — in turn creating an authenticity engine that’s changed lives across the metro.

“I feel really lucky to have a really awesome network of people and if someone comes to me and they need something I can help them and if I can’t, I know someone who can. I love having those kinds of relationships,” she said. 

“That’s the way Kansas City entrepreneurs are and can be.”

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Arrests and torture of gays, lesbians in Egypt are ‘systematic,’ rights report says – The Washington Post

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People walk past a banner supporting proposed amendments to the Egyptian constitution and bearing an image of President Abdel Fatah al-Sissi in Cairo on April 16, 2019.

CAIRO — The Egyptian government continues to target gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in a “systematic fashion” through arbitrary arrests, torture and other forms of abuse, including forced “virginity tests,” Human Rights Watch said Thursday.

The watchdog group accused police personnel and officers of Egypt’s National Security Agency of routinely picking up suspected LGBT people off the streets and detaining them in “inhuman conditions,” often after illegally searching their phones. Security forces have also “entrapped LGBT people through social networking sites and dating applications,” Human Rights Watch said.

“Egyptian authorities seem to be competing for the worst record on rights violations against LGBT people in the region, while the international silence is appalling,” Rasha Younes, LGBT rights researcher at Human Rights Watch, said in a statement.

The Egyptian government did not respond to a request for comment at the time of publication.

The report comes three months after a prominent LGBT activist, Sarah Hegazi, took her own life in June, while in exile in Canada, triggering anger and shock across the Middle East and elsewhere. Egyptian security forces detained Hegazi in 2017 after she raised a rainbow pride flag at a concert in Cairo by the Lebanese band Mashrou’ Leila, whose lead singer is openly gay. Hegazi accused police of torturing her and inciting fellow detainees to beat and sexually harass her, according to human rights activists.

Thursday’s report shows that Hegazi’s “mistreatment is part of a larger and systematic pattern of abuse against LGBT people in Egypt,” Human Rights Watch said.

Hegazi’s “tragic death may have ignited waves of shock and solidarity worldwide, but Egypt has unabashedly continued to target and abuse LGBT people simply for who they are,” Younes said.

The targeting of LGBT people is part of an ongoing crackdown on human rights and free expression by the government of President Abdel Fatah al-Sissi, whose rule is widely seen as the most authoritarian in Egypt’s modern history. While homosexuality is not illegal in Egypt, authorities have been using a 1960s anti-prostitution law that contains a clause against “debauchery,” which Egyptian courts have interpreted to include homosexuality.

In the weeks following the 2017 Mashrou’ Leila concert, authorities arrested scores of LGBT people and handed out harsh prison sentences, prompting the U.N. human rights office to declare the anti-gay raids violations of international law.

Nevertheless, the targeting of LGBT activists continued.

With the help of a Cairo-based LGBT rights group, Human Rights Watch said, it interviewed 15 people, including LGBT people prosecuted under such “debauchery” and “prostitution laws” between 2017 and 2020. All of the detained said police subjected them to verbal and physical abuse, including slaps and being hosed down with water and tied up for days, according to Human Rights Watch.

Nine interviewees said police officers ordered other detainees to abuse them. Eight were victims of sexual violence, including forced anal exams and “virginity tests,” said Human Rights Watch. Four said they were denied medical care, while eight said they were forced to sign confessions. All said they were held for periods as long as four months without access to a lawyer, the group reported.

“They didn’t let me go to the bathroom,” one victim told Human Rights Watch. After his arrest in Cairo in 2019, he said, police beat him up and forced him to stand for three days in a dark room with his hands and feet tied with a rope. “I had to wet my clothes and even [defecate] in them. I still had no idea why I was arrested.”

Another interviewee said that after she was detained at a 2018 protest in Cairo, female police officers forcibly conducted three “virginity tests,” after which she “bled for three days and could not walk for weeks.”

In August, security forces arrested two men who witnessed a highly publicized gang rape at a downtown Cairo hotel and were to provide evidence, Human Rights Watch said. Officers searched the men’s phones and used photos they found to accuse them of homosexuality. They were subjected to anal examinations, remain detained and could face prosecution under the “debauchery” laws, Human Rights Watch said.

The Sissi government has repeatedly ignored international calls to end discrimination and arrests of LGBT people, according to human rights activists. In March, at the U.N. Human Rights Council, Egypt refused to even recognize the existence of LGBT people.

“Morality and public order are hijacked, not preserved, when security forces arbitrarily arrest people and subject them to life-altering abuse in detention,” Younes said. “Egypt’s partners should halt support to its abusive security forces until the country takes effective steps to end this cycle of abuse, so that LGBT people can live freely in their country.”

LGBT athletes alarmed at prospect of Russia hosting Arctic Games – Outsports

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LGBTQ athletes and advocates are alarmed over the prospect of Russia hosting an international sports competition.

In September, it was announced Russia is slated to host the Arctic Winter Games in 2026. The event is a biennial circumpolar sport competition for Northern and Arctic athletes. It was founded in 1969 and includes a variety of winter sports, from ice hockey to alpine skiing. A total of nine contingencies participate, including a team from Alaska.

Chelsea Thacker, executive director of the Rainbow Coalition of Yellowknife, an LGBTQ outreach organization in Northwestern Canada, told the CBC she’s concerned about the possibility of LGBTQ athletes competing in a hostile environment.

“Instantly I was concerned because in recent years, and from a long historical context, there has been heavy discrimination and violence against LGBTQ people in Russia,” she said. “I can’t imagine … athletes who are forced to now choose safety over something that they have as a career, or as a passion, or as something that is really important to them.”

Russian president Vladimir Putin has made LGBTQ discrimination a centerpiece of his authoritarian regime. Most infamously, Russia passed a law banning the promotion of homosexual activities and relationships. Earlier this year, Putin vowed to never legalize same-sex marriage while he’s president. After disturbing reports emerged of gay people being detained and tortured in the Chechnya region, Russian officials told the United Nations it wasn’t happening, because there are no gay people who live there.

Russia hosted the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi against the backdrop of its anti-gay laws and rhetoric from Putin’s administration. Last year, the European Court of Human Rights ordered the Russian government to pay damages to a sports equality group called Sochi Pride House, whose aim was to provide a welcoming place for LGBTQ athletes and fans attending the 2014 Olympic Games.

Recommended! Where to go for LGBT sports content – Sports Media LGBT+

Check out our list of websites, podcasts and other digital destinations around the world which provide sports news and content with an LGBT+ emphasis, and the editors, journalists, reporters and broadcasters telling the stories…

Follow the links on the icons and headers to access the websites or pages. Please get in touch with us at info@sportsmedialgbt.com to submit your site, pod, Twitter handle, etc for consideration for this page.

Outsports

Unrivalled in the breadth and depth of its coverage, Outsports has been providing sports news and opinion with a focus on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender athletes and personalities for nearly two decades. Many have chosen to share their personal stories with managers / editors Cyd Zeigler and Jim Buzinski over the years, from US high-school students right through to elite-level professional stars. In February 2019, Dawn Ennis joined the team as managing editor, with Alex Reimer on board as her deputy since early 2020. They also operate a portfolio of podcasts related to LGBT+ sport, including Dawn’s ‘The Trans Sporter Room’, Cyd’s ‘Five Rings To Rule Them All’, and Alex’s ‘The Sports Kiki’.

Twitter: @outsports / Facebook: @OutsportsSBN / Instagram: @outsports

Sky Sports

Sky Sports is the biggest commercial digital sports network in Europe, and one of the members of TeamPride, a coalition of businesses and brands that supports UK charity Stonewall’s Rainbow Laces campaign for LGBT inclusion in sport. Head over to skysports.com/rainbowlaces to find related content, including news, features, short films and more. Sky Sports’ Senior Home Page Editor Jon Holmes (@jonboy79 on Twitter) is also the network lead of Sports Media LGBT+. You can get in touch with him at jon@sportsmedialgbt.com.

The LGBT Sport Podcast (BBC Radio / BBC Sounds)

Launched in September 2018 by Jack Murley following the success of his ‘The Other Side’ digital radio show, ‘The LGBT Sport Podcast’ is an interview podcast from the BBC. Jack, who hosts the pod and asks the questions, is a BBC Radio Cornwall presenter and commentator. The pod – nominated for a 2019 British Podcast Award, and a 2020 Sports Journalism Award – now has over 100 episodes in its back catalogue, and a long list of star names as guests. Follow Jack on Twitter at @jack_murley and check out our #21QuestionsWith Q&A with him too.

Football v Homophobia Podcast

The FvH Podcast began life in January 2020 and is now into double figures for episodes. Hosted by Beatrice Thirkettle and Angharad Englefield, the pod features great conversations which go in depth into both the campaign and related issues on inclusion in the beautiful game. Guests have included Natalie Washington, the Campaign Lead on Football vs Homophobia; Anwar Uddin from Fans for Diversity; England international Anita Asante; and members of the FvH Youth Panel. Follow the latter on Twitter at @FvHyouth, and the main campaign account is at @FvHtweets.

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Pride of the Terraces

Launched in September 2019 by Sports Media LGBT+ core network member Andrew Henderson, Pride of the Terraces features long-form interviews and features about being LGBT+ in sport, often with a focus on Scotland. Andrew, whose day job is with Highland News and Media north of the border, has spoken to boxer Kristen Fraser, ice hockey player Zach Sullivan, Glasgow City co-founder Laura Montgomery, and many more. Follow on Twitter at @PrideofTerraces and @ahenderson96.

Burn It All Down

The hugely popular feminist sports podcast is fast approaching 200 episodes and often touches upon LGBTQ+ themes, amid a myriad of fascinating conversations. Every Tuesday, co-hosts Shireen Ahmed, Lindsay Gibbs, Brenda Elsey, Amira Rose Davis, and Jessica Luther discuss a central topic as well as the latest happenings across sport, and there’s now an accompanying weekly interview too, released on Thursdays. Follow on Twitter at @BurnItDownPod, and for both Instagram and Facebook, it’s @BurnItAllDownPod.

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Level Playing Field Podcast (Outsports)

Creator and host Randy Boose writes: “This podcast is all about bringing the stories of LGBTQ+ athletes and sports media personalities to the world, told through their own voice. My hope is to take away the stigma and negativity on the field of play and show these people are equal with the athletes around them.” Guests included the San Diego Loyal footballer Collin Martin, former NFL player Ryan O’Callaghan, and cyclist Rachel McKinnon. The last episode was in September 2020, but there’s loads to discover in the back catalogue.

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Twitter: @LPFPod / Facebook page / Instagram: @LPFpod

A Breath Of Fresh Tea

Featuring three players from Stonewall FC and a Gay Games tennis champion, ‘A Breath Of Fresh Tea’ has more than a fondness for chat about LGBT+-inclusive sport but offers plenty of other talking points too. Launched in April 2020, the podcast explores various aspects of LGBT+ life from the perspective of its collective voices. Read more about the pod in our intro article, this deep dive into experiences in sport, and the boys’ thoughts on coming out in the workplace, featuring Jon from our network as guest. Season 2 is due to begin in autumn 2020.

Listen on iTunes / Listen on Spotify

Twitter: @freshteahun / Instagram: @freshteahun

The Outfield Podcast

Hosted by sports broadcaster and journalist Matt Lichtenstadter, ‘The Outfield Podcast’ features in-depth conversations between Matt and an invited guest from the LGBTQ sports community. Previous guests include Rory Molleda of D.C. United, footballer Andy Brennan, and Manchester Storm ice hockey player Zach Sullivan.

Listen on iTunes / Listen on Soundcloud

Twitter: @TheOutfieldPod 

More Than Balls

A digital radio show that takes a deep dive into queer representation in sports, ‘More Than Balls’ is fronted by Jim Dolan, the co-founder of West Ham’s LGBTQ+ supporters group, Pride of Irons. The show has been airing on Alphabet Radio, which takes over Soho Radio’s culture channel every Wednesday.

Previous episodes (listen via Mixcloud):

September 23 | September 9 | August 19 | August 12 | July 8 | June 10 | May 13 |

Under The Bleachers

From Team DC – an LGBT sports charity in Washington, D.C. – comes ‘Under The Bleachers’, a podcast launched in June 2020. As co-host Gabe Hernandez tells us: “Each week, we take on a queer topic, a sports topic, a queer sports topic, and follow up with a LGBTQ+ sports-related interview.” Episodes so far have covered baseball, snowboarding, the NWSL, trans inclusion in rugby, and much more.

Listen on iTunes

Twitter: @TeamDCSports / Facebook page / Insta: @TeamDCSports

SportTokz

SportTokz with SportProfz is co-hosted by Ryerson University’s RTA School of Media professors, Prof Walz (Laurel Walzak), Prof Joe (Joe Recupero) and Dan ‘The Coach’ Berlin. The show is produced LIVE via Zoom conferencing call from Toronto, Canada, every Monday night at 8pm EDT. For one hour, the team interviews or chats with sport professionals and fellow profs about their careers and insight on recent sports news, academic research, and advice for students pursuing the business, often touching on LGBTQ+ themes.

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Same Team

‘Same Team’ was a podcast hosted by Daniel Trainor featuring influential LGBTQ athletes, journalists and personalities discussing the complexities of their respective journeys and the importance of their missions. Past guests have included soccer player Matt Pacifici, golfer Tadd Fujikawa, basketball player Haley Videckis, strongman Rob Kearney, trans hockey player Jessica Platt and broadcaster Nick McCarvel. Follow Daniel on Twitter at @dantrainor1 and read our #21QuestionsWith Q&A with him. The podcast was also available via Soundcloud. Dan isn’t dropping new episodes at the moment, but the archive is well worth checking out.

The Gay Footballer’s Podcast

Host Adam McCabe writes: “The Gay Footballer’s Podcast is a podcast with the goal to spread the awareness of LGBTQ and ally representation in sports. With the main focus being on football, but also exploring other sports and personalities, each episode will consist of a 30 to 45-minute interview with an individual making an impact in their sporting discipline. Whether a current or former athlete, a member of an organisation’s front office, or even a sports journalist, each interview will help uncover the challenges, opportunities, and success LGBTQ individuals and allies face in their discipline within sport.” Guests included Sports Media LGBT+ founder Jon Holmes, football referee Ryan Atkin, Rory Molleda of D.C. United, and Patrick Aviles of Los Angeles FC. The podcast has been on hiatus since February 2020.

Listen on iTunes

Twitter: @tgfpod / Facebook page: @tgfootballerspodcast / Instagram: @tgfootballerspodcast

Balls: The Podcast

‘Balls’, hosted by Connor Moseley and Mason Jordan, was a podcast about all things LGBT+ within football – the last episode was recorded in July 2019. The aim is to make football more inclusive for all, including LGBT+ fans and players alike; something which can often be a difficult topic of discussion. They’ve spoken to England fans group Three Lions Pride and Soho FC’s Andy Ward on previous episodes. Recent offerings include a special for BBC The Social, and an interview with Matt Morton. Follow on Twitter at @BallsThePodcast.

Star Observer

The Star Observer is Australia’s largest and longest-running LGBTI media outlet, in print and online. They publish a national monthly magazine and update their website with news and features daily, including LGBTI sports content. Follow the publication at @star_observer.

More links…

Compete Magazine is a US-based print and digital publication covering LGBTQ+ sports, with an emphasis on health and fitness. Follow on Twitter at @competesports, and like their Facebook page.

Sydney-based Danielle Warby‘s website at daniellewarby.com is devoted to both women in sport and LGBT inclusion. Sign up for her superb weekly digest emails!

WiSP Sports is the world’s largest digital network for podcasts and content on women’s sports. Founded in 2015 by Chris Stafford, the platform brings together journalists, broadcasters and athletes in wide-ranging conversations; with a commitment to diversity and equality, LGBT+ inclusion is often a talking point. Follow on Twitter at @WiSPsports.

All Heels On Deck – A feminist writing platform prioritising underrepresented voices in baseball: women, POC, & LGBTQ. Pay in $ not exposure. All inclusive. Follow on Twitter at @allheelsondeck, and founder editor Jessica Quiroli (@heelsonthefield).

The Guardian‘s ‘LGBT rights’ topic page often carries links to sports-related content on the platform.

Out.com has a page dedicated to gay athletes, while LGBT website Advocate.com has its own sports page, as does PinkNews. Gay Star News occasionally posts sports news stories and features.

The Huffington Post has an LGBT sports topic on its website, with Outsports editor Cyd Zeigler among its contributors.

The US media organisation GLAAD, which campaigns for better LGBT+ representation, has a sports page.

Latitud Gay is an LGBT radio show broadcast from Buenos Aires in Argentina every Saturday (9pm to 11pm), covering various topics, including sports and LGBT athletes. Hosted by Arturo Lodetti. Follow on Twitter at @LatitudGay.

More journalists to follow…

Katie Barnes – sports and culture writer at ESPNW. On Twitter at @katie_barnes3.

Katelyn Best – soccer writer at Equalizer Soccer and contributing editor Stumptown Footy, SB Nation’s Portland Timbers and Portland Thorns blog. On Twitter at @BestKabest.

Nick Heath – rugby union writer, broadcaster and producer. Nick is on Twitter at @nickheathsport and has a Facebook page too. He’s also one of the hosts of the annual RVT Sports Day in south London.

Gareth Johnson – journalist and writer. Specialist in LGBT content. Editor at Means Happy, which often features sports content, and at Mainly Male, a blog for gay men with its own sports section. On Twitter at @GTVLondon.

Kevin Majoros – sportswriter for the Washington Blade, one of the biggest LGBT news websites in the US – check out its sports section here. On Twitter at @sportinindc.

Nick McCarvel – tennis, figure skating, and Olympics broadcast journalist and presenter. Nick is the brains behind the #LGBTennis events held in New York and Melbourne. He’s on Twitter at @NickMcCarvel, and also on Instagram and on Facebook.

David Mooney – football writer, author, broadcaster and radio producer. Host of Blue Moon Podcast (Manchester City). Published on JOE.co.uk and Tifo Football. Runs Football’s Coming Out blog. On Twitter at @DavidMooney.

Kate O’Halloran – sportswriter, editor, and host of the ‘Kick Like A Girl’ AFLW radio show, Kate is based in Melbourne and also holds a PhD in gender studies.  On Twitter at @Kate_ohalloran.

Want to be featured on this page? Drop us an email at info@sportsmedialgbt.com to request!

Hugh Jackman’s wife, Deborra-Lee Furness, on rumors he’s gay – Today.com

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Hugh Jackman’s wife is setting the record straight about her husband.

Deborra-Lee Furness, who’s been married to “The Wolverine” actor since 1996, says she has had it with the rumors that he is gay.

“I see these magazines. They’re so mean-spirited. So mean-spirited. I hope people don’t buy these magazines and realize it’s all made up,” she said while appearing on the Australian TV show “Anh’s Brush with Fame.”

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“He’s been gay so many years,” she laughed, joking, “I was gay, too.”

While she can poke fun at it, Furness, 64, does remain frustrated by the chatter about Jackman, 51.

Hugh Jackman and Deborra-Lee Furness attend the 34th Annual Santa Barbara International Film Festival in California on Nov. 19, 2018.Lisa O’Connor / AFP via Getty Images

“It’s just wrong. It’s like someone saying to Elton John, ‘He’s straight.’ I’m sure he’d be pissed,” she said when asked how annoying the rumors are.

Jackman, who met Furness while they worked on an Australian TV show, has previously discussed how the rumors gnawed at his better half.

“Just recently, it bugs her,” he told The Hollywood Reporter in 2013. “She goes: ‘It’s big. It’s everywhere!’ “

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The couple has enjoyed wedded bliss for nearly a quarter of a century, but Furness isn’t exactly thrilled when she hears fans say she’s lucky to be married to the Oscar nominee.

“People don’t realize that it’s actually rude to say that,” she said on “Anh’s Brush with Fame.” “Lucky because he’s the stud muffin and all that, but that’s showbiz and Hollywood and the brand of Hugh Jackman.”

Jackman opened up to TODAY in 2018 about the secret to his lengthy marriage.

“You have got to find the right person,” he said. “It’s powerful, but simple. … When you’re dating, you literally put on the best version of yourself. When you get on the dance floor, you’re like, all right, I am pulling out my best moves here, I am doing my best lines, I have got my best clothes on. How do you transition from that person to actually truly being yourself? The tracksuit pant version of yourself.”

“Until you feel that comfortable with your partner, you don’t really know if you’re right together,” he continued. “So literally from day one, Deb and I had that feeling. It was like a relief. I could just be myself. I am not saying we don’t ever dress up or impress each other, but being comfortable is a key.”

‘The Boys in the Band’: Gay drama still resonates – Newsday

THE MOVIE “The Boys in the Band”

WHEN | WHERE It begins streaming Wednesday on Netflix.

WHAT IT’S ABOUT The seminal 1968 play “The Boys in the Band,” renowned for the honest and deeply felt portrayal of its gay characters by the late playwright Mart Crowley, gets its second cinematic adaptation as director Joe Mantello reunites the cast of the 2018 Broadway revival he directed for this movie streaming on Netflix.

The ensemble is fronted by Jim Parsons as Michael, hosting a birthday party in his Manhattan apartment for friend Harold (Zachary Quinto). Other attendees include Donald (Matt Bomer), Emory (Robin de Jesús) and Bernard (Michael Benjamin Washington), as well as couple Larry (Andrew Rannells) and Hank (Tuc Watkins).

Events shift in an unpredictable and wrenching direction when the party is crashed by Alan (Brian Hutchinson), Michael’s married college friend, who has earlier that evening tearfully called to say he has to “see him about something right away.”

The production arrives with the imprimatur of Ryan Murphy, who also produced the Broadway revival; it’s co-written by Crowley and frequent Murphy collaborator Ned Martel.

MY SAY This adaptation of “The Boys in the Band” aces the most significant challenge facing any stage-to-screen adaptation. It doesn’t just replicate the material; it translates it to a different medium.

With the exception of an opening and closing montage, the action takes place almost exclusively on the patio and in the living room of Michael’s apartment.

What can seem vibrant on stage runs the risk of playing as flat and boring as a movie. But Mantello, having previously directed cinematic versions of “Love! Valour! Compassion!” and “The Normal Heart,” understands the art of adaptation.

He stresses close-ups at the most important and affecting moments, allowing the actors to bring a degree of depth to the characters that would not have been possible on stage.

He shapes the single set with enough visual context to emphasize the loneliness that runs through each of these people, even as they gather together. Carefully wrought flashbacks to seminal, long-ago experiences add a touch of impressionistic poetry to what is otherwise a dialogue-heavy story.

The thoughtful direction enhances the timelessness of Crowley’s writing, emphasizing that these characters are tangible and affecting individuals as well as symbols of the awful condition of being obliged to suppress your true self because of societal expectations.

“The Boys in the Band” is more than a half-century old, and of course a lot has changed over the decades. But it retains its impact and power thanks to a cast that expertly communicates the injustice of that condition and just how wrenching it is to be unable to love freely and openly.

The ensemble seamlessly makes the transition to the screen. Parsons can be a grating presence in general, but that quality makes sense in Michael, who serves as the primary antagonist here, goading his friends into difficult confrontations with past sorrow.

Other standouts include Michael Benjamin Washington, who is the focus of the most heartbreaking moment in the movie, when he attempts a call to a long-lost, unrequited love. Quinto, Bomer and the rest are predictably first-rate, each actor capturing something unique and essential about men who want nothing more than to live their lives on their terms.

BOTTOM LINE The latest big screen version of “The Boys in the Band” is more than just a time capsule; it’s a vibrant, well-acted production of material that still resonates decades after it first hit the stage.

Washington Blade National Coming Out Day at The Wharf – Washington Blade

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The Washington Blade, in partnership with The Wharf and ABSOLUT, is excited to announce the first National Coming Out Day at The Wharf on Sunday, Oct. 11, 2020. 

Each year on Oct. 11, National Coming Out Day celebrates coming out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or queer. National Coming Out Day at The Wharf brings business specials, pride-themed fitness classes, and more to the waterfront neighborhood.

“While we weren’t able to have our annual Pride on the Pier event at The Wharf during the city’s Pride celebration we are excited to be able to celebrate National Coming Out Day,” says the Washington Blade’s director of marketing, Stephen Rutgers. “During this time it is important to still celebrate coming out in a safe and socially distanced way.” 

Visit washingtonblade.com/comingout for a full list of business specials, fitness classes and more. 

Event sponsors include Absolut, PEPCO, BABE, Washington Regional Transplant Community and  The Wharf.

The Washington Blade was founded in 1969 and is known as the “newspaper of record” for the LGBTQ community both locally and nationally. For more information, visit washingtonblade.com.

ABOUT THE WHARF

The Wharf is Washington D.C.’s most exciting neighborhood. This remarkable mile-long neighborhood along the Washington Channel of the Potomac River reestablishes Washington, D.C., as a true waterfront city and destination. Phase 1 opened in October 2017 with two million square feet of residences, offices, hotels, shops, restaurants, cultural uses, marinas, and public areas including waterfront parks, promenades, piers, and docks. When complete in 2022, this $2.5 billion, world-class, mixed-use waterfront neighborhood will feature more than 3.5 million square feet of development. The Wharf is easily accessible to the region by water taxi, Metro, WMATA and Southwest Neighborhood Shuttle buses, bicycle, foot, and car.

Development is led by Hoffman-Madison Waterfront, a joint venture between Hoffman & Associates in partnership with ER Bacon Development, City Partners, Paramount Development and Triden Development.

More information is available at www.wharfdc.com. Download the District Wharf app for a live news feed, information on events, interactive map, transportation updates and more. The app is available on Apple and Android devices.

News End Ban on Cornea Donations from Gay Men: Study – WebMD

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By Robert Preidt
HealthDay Reporter

TUESDAY, Sept. 29, 2020 (HealthDay News) — U.S. and Canadian restrictions on cornea donations from gay and bisexual men prevent thousands of vision-restoring transplants and need to be changed, researchers say.

A corneal transplant can cure some forms of blindness and visual impairment. The United States bans men from donating if they have had gay sex in the past five years; Canada has a 12-month restriction.

The same debate has raged for years in the United States about blood donations. In April, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration changed the abstinence period required for gay and bisexual blood donors from 12 months to three months.

The restrictions prevented more than 3,200 corneal donations from gay and bisexual men in 2018, despite a lack of scientific evidence of harm caused by receiving corneas from these men, according to a study published Sept. 24 in the journal JAMA Ophthalmology.

“With millions of people across the world in need of corneal transplants, these discarded corneas from gay and bisexual men could be used to address the shortage and safely restore vision to thousands of patients with corneal blindness or visual impairment,” said lead author Dr. Michael Puente, an assistant professor of ophthalmology at the University of Colorado School of Medicine, in Aurora.

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U.S. restrictions on cornea donations by gay men were adopted in 1994 due to concerns about HIV. At the time, HIV tests were unreliable up to six months after exposure to the virus that causes AIDS.

Today, however, HIV testing is more reliable, and can identify infection within four to eight days of exposure.

All U.S. corneal donors are required to undergo three separate HIV tests. But even if all three tests are negative, the five-year restriction on gay and bisexual donors remains.

“With modern virologic testing and a better understanding of the low risk of HIV transmission through corneal transplants, this five-year deferral policy for gay men is not supported by current science,” Puente said in a university news release. “We ask federal regulators to reconsider these outdated policies which are depriving patients of the possibility of sight restoration.”

Many countries — including Spain, Italy, Mexico, Chile and Argentina — allow gay and bisexual men to donate their eye tissue just as easily as heterosexual donors, the authors said.

Other countries require abstinence periods far shorter than five years. Britain allows corneal donation by gay and bisexual men after only three months of abstinence, while the Netherlands and France require four months of abstinence, according to the study.

End Ban on Cornea Donations from Gay Men: Study – WebMD

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By Robert Preidt
HealthDay Reporter

TUESDAY, Sept. 29, 2020 (HealthDay News) — U.S. and Canadian restrictions on cornea donations from gay and bisexual men prevent thousands of vision-restoring transplants and need to be changed, researchers say.

A corneal transplant can cure some forms of blindness and visual impairment. The United States bans men from donating if they have had gay sex in the past five years; Canada has a 12-month restriction.

The same debate has raged for years in the United States about blood donations. In April, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration changed the abstinence period required for gay and bisexual blood donors from 12 months to three months.

The restrictions prevented more than 3,200 corneal donations from gay and bisexual men in 2018, despite a lack of scientific evidence of harm caused by receiving corneas from these men, according to a study published Sept. 24 in the journal JAMA Ophthalmology.

“With millions of people across the world in need of corneal transplants, these discarded corneas from gay and bisexual men could be used to address the shortage and safely restore vision to thousands of patients with corneal blindness or visual impairment,” said lead author Dr. Michael Puente, an assistant professor of ophthalmology at the University of Colorado School of Medicine, in Aurora.

Continued

U.S. restrictions on cornea donations by gay men were adopted in 1994 due to concerns about HIV. At the time, HIV tests were unreliable up to six months after exposure to the virus that causes AIDS.

Today, however, HIV testing is more reliable, and can identify infection within four to eight days of exposure.

All U.S. corneal donors are required to undergo three separate HIV tests. But even if all three tests are negative, the five-year restriction on gay and bisexual donors remains.

“With modern virologic testing and a better understanding of the low risk of HIV transmission through corneal transplants, this five-year deferral policy for gay men is not supported by current science,” Puente said in a university news release. “We ask federal regulators to reconsider these outdated policies which are depriving patients of the possibility of sight restoration.”

Many countries — including Spain, Italy, Mexico, Chile and Argentina — allow gay and bisexual men to donate their eye tissue just as easily as heterosexual donors, the authors said.

Other countries require abstinence periods far shorter than five years. Britain allows corneal donation by gay and bisexual men after only three months of abstinence, while the Netherlands and France require four months of abstinence, according to the study.

‘The Boys in the Band’ cast on whether it’s time for straight actors to stop playing gay roles – Yahoo Entertainment

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Horrific: D.C. Sniper Boasts of Post-Shooting Sex ‘High’ With Accomplice in New Doc

VicefexpIn I, Sniper, Lee Boyd Malvo speaks at length about the 2002 reign of terror he and partner John Allen Muhammad carried out in the Washington, D.C., area, resulting in ten deaths. Yet despite using audio clips from his phone calls as narration, Vice’s eight-part docuseries (premiering May 10) is most notable for putting its prime emphasis on the pair’s innocent victims, and the countless friends, family members and loved ones left to cope with unthinkable tragedy. To its admirable credit, it’s a true-crime affair that seeks to understand its “monsters” while simultaneously recognizing—and highlighting—the fact that such comprehension doesn’t necessitate empathy, especially when the atrocities in question are as inexcusably heinous as these.Spearheaded by director Ursula Macfarlane, I, Sniper’s calling card is those phone conversations with Malvo from Virginia’s Red Onion State Prison, where he’s currently serving multiple life sentences. In them, the killer recounts, in exacting and chilling detail, both the sniper attacks he perpetrated as a 17-year-old, and the troubled upbringing in Jamaica that led him into the welcoming arms of Muhammad, a Gulf War veteran with a surplus of rage and a desire to unleash it on his homeland. Abandoned by his dad, abused by his mom, and eventually left to fend for himself, Malvo found in Muhammad a father figure who promised to love him as he did his own biological offspring. From the outset, though, theirs was a bond built on exploitation, with Muhammad becoming not only Malvo’s surrogate parent, but also his lover—as well as his mentor, pouring all of his long-simmering hate and resentment into the impressionable, desperate-for-acceptance teen.The Tragic End to Wrestling’s First Great ‘Madman’Muhammad’s gripes were many—he despised the military, white people, and just about every American institutional structure. However, he reserved his greatest enmity for second ex-wife Mildred, who dared to take back her kids after Muhammad had kidnapped them. The loss of his (abducted) brood seems to have been the proverbial match that lit Muhammad’s homicidal spark, and he soon began molding Malvo into his instrument of destruction. Friends and relatives suspected that something was up with their relationship, but no one foresaw what was to come: the cold-blooded murder of Keenya Cook, the niece of Mildred’s friend in Tacoma, Washington, followed by violent robberies, shootings and slayings in Arizona, Louisiana, Alabama, and Georgia. All of those initial acts were merely a test run for Malvo and Muhammad’s grand scheme in Washington, D.C., the epicenter of American power, and thus Muhammad’s venue of choice to strike fear into the heart of the republic by proving that everyone was vulnerable—even children.What transpired was a 22-day nightmare in which 13 individuals (white and Black, young and old, well-off and working-class) were shot, 10 of them fatally, in D.C., Maryland, and Virginia. Because Malvo and Muhammad’s intention was to terrorize in increasingly escalating fashion, each victim was chosen at random at gas stations, on street corners, and in parking lots that afforded the killers ideal vantage points and easy escape routes. They committed these crimes in a customized 1990 blue Chevy Caprice, with Malvo lying in the trunk and firing through the rear keyhole. It was a stealthy plot, and the two benefited from the fact that an early eyewitness said they’d seen a white box truck near the scene—thereby sending police, for the better part of the next three weeks, on a wild goose chase for the wrong vehicle. With no other ballistics-related leads, law enforcement was stymied, which proved to Malvo that Muhammad was right: no one could stop them from exacting their revenge.The question, of course, is revenge against what? I, Sniper connects the dots of Malvo and Muhammad’s troubled pasts and despicable 2002 presents, but no convincing argument is made that Muhammad—the mastermind behind this madness—had suffered losses that weren’t of his own making. Be it his unhinged military tenure, his marital craziness, or his transformation of Malvo into an assassin, Muhammad comes across as a man righteously angry over things that were his own fault. As for Malvo, his cold, clinical recitation of his murderous conduct (and claims of remorse) neuters any sorrow one might feel for his adolescent travails. His present-day compunction is far too little, too late, just as the case he makes for his own victimhood vis-à-vis Muhammad sounds like an accurate and yet insufficient explanation. He knew that gunning down men, women and children was dreadfully wrong, and yet in order to maintain Muhammad’s affection, he actively, and enthusiastically, chose to do it—and even got a thrilling kick from it, as he explains that post-shooting sex with Muhammad was exceptionally exciting and delivered a “high.”Malvo and Muhammad’s rampage of “retribution and punishment” was unforgivable; as Montgomery County Police Chief Charles A. Moose says, “There’s just no excuse for their behavior. None whatsoever.” To hammer home that point, I, Sniper consistently juxtaposes Malvo’s recollections with prolonged, heartrending interviews with the wives, brothers, aunts and friends of the duo’s victims, as well as some of those who survived their encounters. Those accounts turn out to be vital, providing an up-close-and-personal view of the anguish and trauma that Malvo and Muhammad brought about, and the lingering scars left by this ordeal. They’re the human face of this awful tale, stricken with grief, regret, guilt and fury over senseless crimes that robbed them of loved ones who were simply at the wrong place at the wrong time.Comprised of news reports, crime scene footage, 911 calls, Malvo-penned illustrations, maps and chats with patrolmen, detectives, reporters and doctors, I, Sniper is comprehensive enough to earn the description “definitive.” Yet more than its insight into the mind of its young subject—and, by extension, Muhammad, who was executed in 2009 by lethal injection—what separates it from much of the true-crime pack is its dogged refusal to forget the real, incalculable horror at the center of its story. Malvo is frequently heard but never seen, while the countenances of his and Muhammad’s victims (and those close to them) remain front-and-center throughout. That directorial decision is critical and commendable, allowing the series to pay fitting tribute to the individuals who deserve to be remembered, while keeping its central villain largely faceless, in the dark and out of sight, where he chose to live and kill with his murderous mentor, and where he’ll now remain for the remainder of his days.Read more at The Daily Beast.Get our top stories in your inbox every day. Sign up now!Daily Beast Membership: Beast Inside goes deeper on the stories that matter to you. Learn more.

Gay Couples Are Loving Twitter’s ‘HowItStarted/HowItEnded’ Trend – Instinct Magazine

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Image via Taylor Phillips & Twitter @TaylorJPhillips

Here’s a little love to make you smile. As far as Twitter trends go, we’re big fans of moments when people join together to celebrate love and happiness. And, thankfully, that’s exactly what happened within the last week.

This happy moment on the internet caught fire when a Twitter user under the handle @bealefilms tweeted a before and after picture of her relationship. In the tweet, we see the text “how it started” above a photo of a Twitter conversation from 2018. In the conversation, an account named @claireoh asks, “hey any mutual wanna be my friend i swear im nice sometimes.” @bealfilms then responded with a waving hand emoji. Next to that, we see @bealefilms and @claireoh embraced in a kiss while wearing wedding gowns. Above that photo is the caption “how it ended.”

“2 years, 4000 miles, and 47288292828292 calls later, here we are :),” @bealefilms wrote in a follow-up tweet.

Since then, the “how it started/how it ended,” meme has trended on several corners of Twitter. From fandom circles where people share pictures of their favorite tv show couples to people sharing pictures of their straight relationships. But, of course, there were also plenty of same-sex couples sharing the love too. Here are a few of our favorites.

What it means to be queer and punk in 2020 – i-D

When punk was spat out onto the scene in the 70s, certain bands were flirting with Nazi imagery. The Sex Pistols’ Sid Vicious was often photographed wearing a T-shirt emblazoned with a swastika and Siouxsie Sioux sometimes wore a swastika armband on stage. White working-class discontent sometimes found expression through violence and conflict with male-dominated punk gigs often erupting into riots, especially when the far-right National Front were in attendance. But at the same time, punk’s embrace of individuality and defiance made its music and aesthetics a refuge for anyone deemed an outsider by society at large. Queerness has always been part of the punk movement, taking off in the 1980s when Queercore distinguished itself with bands like The Apostles in London and Dicks in the US.

Conventional punk aesthetics — ripped fabric, safety pins, leather jackets — can seem pretty commercialised these days, but punk values are still going strong, as reflected in London’s burgeoning LGBTQ+ punk community. Rejecting the establishment and speaking truth to power are as important as ever. Take queer punk band Forrest Flowers, whose song “Destroy the State” is a raucously catchy yet curiously vulnerable call to arms. Queer punk is as much about affirmation as it is about anger and anarchy.

Here, we speak to London’s queer punks about what the subculture means today, queering its aesthetic and how it can help mobilise change.

Noel by Heather Glazzard

Noel

What does punk mean to you? To me, it’s about questioning authority and following your own moral compass. Enjoy life without hurting others, support each other and those in need. Which aesthetics do you borrow from traditional, early punk scenes and which have you invented yourself or borrowed from other subcultures? I love my DIY. Classical punk safety pins, chains, keys, patches, etc. I fucking love utility as an aesthetic. I mix it a lot with medieval and regal fashion like tiaras, pearls, flower prints. While in many ways punk and queerness go hand in hand, early punk scenes struggled with racism, sexism and homophobia. Do you feel that toxic hypermasculinity still exists within parts of the scene today or is punk in 2020 a more open and inclusive space? There’s definitely a stigma still in place that punks are supposed to be violent assholes. Even Johnny Rotten complained about it! I’ve definitely had instances while performing of people trying to cause a racket just for the sake of it. It’s all great as long as it’s in good fun, otherwise why direct it toward people that are literally here for the same reason?

Harry by Heather Glazzard

Harry

What does punk mean to you? For me personally, the rejection of socially conformist attitudes towards gender and sexuality are the most important. At its core, it’s about expressing your true identity, regardless of other people’s attitudes. Even though that can be difficult with all the queerphobia in the world, surrounding yourself with your community and uplifting each other is also very important to me. Who embodies punk? Pete Burns is my divine inspiration in all ways. His approach to gender, sexuality, music and society at large was incredibly ahead of its time. He was an incredibly innovative thinker that I admire deeply. I also love really transgressive queer icons like Divine. Which aesthetics do you borrow from traditional, early punk scenes and which have you invented yourself borrowed from other subcultures? I’m a huge fan of when punk weirdly kind of sonically and aesthetically crossed over into the mainstream pop landscape in the early-mid 2000s and resulted in stars like Avril Lavigne, bands like t.A.t.u and brands like Punkyfish. I love the fishnets and the stripy socks, they really hit the sweet spot.

Tom by Heather Glazzard

Tom

What does punk mean to you? It’s more of a mindset than anything else. It’s definitely gone past being just OG punk music and mohawks and shit. To me, it means not just blindly following whoever is in front of you. It’s about freedom of thought and expression as well as looking out for those around you. How has your look evolved over time? As I’ve got older, I’ve become more comfortable with wearing feminine clothing and kind of ditched most of the metal/punk motifs. The hypermasculinity and harassment I tended to get in that scene pushed me away from wanting to associate with it. While in many ways punk and queerness go hand in hand, early punk scenes struggled with racism, sexism and homophobia. Do you feel that toxic hypermasculinity still exists within parts of the scene today or is punk in 2020 a more open and inclusive space? It’s absolutely still an issue in certain scenes, but less so for punk. Especially with younger punk bands. It seems a lot more queer-friendly. At most of the shows I’ve been to, they’ve been sound. Obviously, there is still room for improvement. I feel that comes down to teaching older fans about queer people though, as a lot of bullshit I tend to hear comes from a lack of understanding, rather than malicious intent. I got love for y’all but stop straight asking me about my genitals as an icebreaker, thanks hun. What punk phrase or motto do you live by? Fuck Morrissey.

Big Joanie by Heather Glazzard

Big Joanie (Chardine, Stephanie, Estella)

What does punk mean to you? Stephanie: Punk for me has always been about having the power to create rather than consume culture. Estella: A way of life I guess! Chardine: Primarily I would say that it is a general sense of not following the crowd and thinking for yourself. Having a go at something without needing permission. How did you get into punk? Stephanie: I found riot grrrl music and then there was no looking back. Having a mix of political and punk was the perfect formula for a teenager with a lot of emotion to let out. Estella: In my early teens, getting into ‘greebo’ music and just progressing from there. Chardine: Someone made me a mixtape – an actual tape, it was the late 90s – of Nirvana when I was 13 and it started from there. While in many ways punk and queerness go hand in hand, early punk scenes struggled with racism, sexism and homophobia. Do you feel that toxic hypermasculinity still exists within parts of the scene today or is punk in 2020 a more open and inclusive space? Stephanie: I think the punk scene has become more self-aware but there’s still a long way to go. We’ve tried to create our own space within the scene so like-minded people can join us and get away from any weirdness. Estella: I think those who have faced racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, fatphobia and other prejudices have sought to claim their own spaces within the punk scene, as opposed to waiting for the scene to realise of its own accord that inclusivity will only ever be a benefit. I’m not sure how to fully exorcise toxic masculinity from the scene when it still exists within the wider community, but I try to spend my time in spaces where marginalised folks are supported, affirmed, and actively welcomed. Chardine: I think it’s important to clarify that when we are talking about ‘hypermasculinity’ we are talking about cis men and not queer masculine-of-centre people and trans men who have also historically been excluded from those spaces. Sometimes we have supported bands where the audience feels a need to take their tops off and bash into each other which is fine. However, is that being considerate for other people in the crowd? I’m glad other bands, including all-male bands, are starting to talk about this and address. It gives me hope that the punk scene will continue to keep challenging itself.

Val by Heather Glazzard

Val

What does punk mean to you? Punk is a set of techniques and styles employed by the disenfranchised and abjected. It’s a rejection of society. Punk is a war cry; not a cry out for help but a scream, an expression of utter frustration. Punk is pent up energy expended without measure. Punk is an explosion of life, a resistance to the zombification of consumer capitalism, the banality of 70s neoliberalism, the dull grey monotones of British council architecture. Who embodies punk? SCUM (Society for the Cutting-Up of Men) by radical whoredyke revolutionary Valerie Solanas is inextricably linked to punk attitude. Her explosive cutting-up and rhetorical dissection of the male condition in the SCUM Manifesto is an unabashed one-person revolution. Valerie Solanas weaponises the scream that is at the heart of punk in her attack on patriarchal society from all angles. She declares war on all the central figures of patriarchal culture, the (male) artists, philosophers, scientists, and politicians whose hegemony makes life “an utter bore … to women.” 

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Photography Heather Glazzard