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Canada’s First Dedicated LGBTQ Gym to Close After Being Targeted by Far-Right Group – Newsweek

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Canada’s first LGBTQ gym has announced it is to close, months after its staff and members became the victim of a “malicious” intimidation campaign by a far-right group.

The Queerflex gym in Edmonton, Alberta, confirmed it will close its doors on February 29, five months after the fringe group Patriot Pride Canada Wide published personal details of those associated with the gym online, a process known as doxxing.

“Although we have been assured by multiple channels that this small group has not been known to show themselves in person, we do not want to take any chances with anyone’s safety,” the gym said in September while announcing partial closure to ensure the safety of its members, employees and volunteers.

Queerflex, which opened in 2016 and acted as a safe space to the local 2SLGBTQIA+ community to exercise in, said it “deeply regrets” the decision to close the gym for good as it is no longer financially viable to keep it running.

In a statement, Queerflex said that it experienced a loss of earnings as a result of canceling all classes in the wake of the doxxing, as well as attempting to find ways to improve safety measures at the gym.

“Despite all our best efforts as a volunteer-run Board, the lack of revenue from the cancellation of our group classes and memberships in September ultimately challenged the financial sustainability of our organization,” the statement said.

“The decision to close the doors to the Queerflex gym permanently has come as a result of careful consideration of all possible alternatives.

“The Board of Directors is deeply committed to creating safer spaces for our community and this decision has not come lightly. We wouldn’t be here without the dedication and the support of our community and its allies, and we thank you from the bottom of our hearts.”

Parker Pothier was one of those who attended the gym. He described how he will struggle to find another place where he feels safe and accepted after Queerflex’s closure.

“One of the rules that was the most important to me is that there was no body shaming or diet talk allowed at the gym,” Pothier told CBC.

“There were no mirrors; there were no scales to step on; all the calorie counters on the electronic machines were all covered up.

“There are other kinds of gyms but there is nothing like Queerflex, nothing is accessible as Queerflex.”

Edmonton Police’s hate crimes and violent extremism division investigated the doxxing by Patriot Pride Canada Wide, but no charges were brought forward.

“We recognized the impact on the staff and the community however the matter did not meet the threshold for criminal charges,” Sergeant Gary Willitz told The Globe and Mail.

Edmonton Police has been contacted for further comment.

In a statement to Newsweek, Edmonton’s Mayor Don Iveson said: “We were very disappointed to hear about the reasons for the closure and we understand that it is being investigated by the Edmonton Police Service.

“All Edmontonians deserve to feel safe and behaviour from any group that perpetuates hate and discrimination is not welcome in our city. We need to foster inclusiveness and understanding not walls that divide us.”

Patriot Pride Canada Wide is believed to be affiliated with the anti-Islam group The Clann.

The Clann made national news last January after its members allegedly scouted out the Al-Rashid mosque in Edmonton, the oldest mosque in Canada, in order to “provoke” the local Muslim community.

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A Rainbow flag flies above the San Diego Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Community Center November 5, 2008 in San Diego, California. Canada’s first gym LGBTQ gym has announced it is to close after it was doxxed by a far-right group.
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TikTok has become the soul of the LGBTQ Internet – The Washington Post

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Carly stood in a dorm room on her Christian university on Christmas Eve, holding the phone she’d bought a week earlier after saving up for months. Her parents had taken her old phone last summer, after they found out she was a lesbian. Carly said she was outed without her consent. Her parents, who are religious conservatives, hadn’t taken it well. In an interview, Carly described the escalating hostilities that followed: Her family took away her phone. They tried to get her expelled. They told her she needed to go to a mental institution. In October, on her 23rd birthday, she cut off contact with them.

The Gay Yeehaw Agenda Hit the Grammys Red Carpet – Out Magazine

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In fashion two is coincidence, and three, my dear friends is a trend. Tonight on the red carpet for the 62nd Annual Grammy Awards, there were understandably many trends, but one specific one leapt out to us: Queers in Western-inspired gear. The gay yeehaw agenda is upon us.

After scooping up his first Grammy earlier in the day wearing an all white number, Lil Nas X made it back to the official Grammys red carpet in an all fuchsia look from Atelier Versace. It, of course, followed the silhouette he’s been sticking to: strong pointy shoulder, cropped body, a nice boot to anchor it. Underneath the cropped leather jacket he wore a pink body harness replete with gold buckles that match the gold studs rimming the seams of the look. Talk about a look! And what else would you expect for someone who was nominated for six awards.

Then there was Billy Porter — or Lola if ya nasty. Porter brought it in what seems to be a crystal drenched bodysuit, that also features a cropped jacket all by Baja East. The legs of the suit feature a crystal fringe that flare at the bottom, and an accompanying hat by Sarah Sokol Millinery also features fringe, all the way around it.

But if you know Billy Porter, you know there’s no way he’s walking a full red carpet with his face covered. So Sokol worked with Smooth Technology in order to make it so that the fringe would open up to show his face. Take a look for yourself!

Of course one couldn’t do a gay yeehaw post and not include one Orville Peck. Known for his penchant for fringe, masks, and cowboy gear, Peck has probably been doing this look longer than everybody else on the carpet. 

He turned up in all grey with a black fringe mask, and a beautifully embroidered shirt. Of course, to top it off, a classic oversized belt buckle. 

Save a horse, ride a gay cowboy — or a musician dressed as one.

Hit the weights – Dallas Voice

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7 LGBT-friendly workout spots

As we cruise into the new year, few places await folks hoping to embrace their resolutions as much as gyms do. Whether maintaining last year’s workout regimen or starting a new one, you need to be at the right place for you. Gyms and fitness centers should be sacred realms where people looking to stay healthy can test their bodies and minds in a safe environment. Most of us like to feel comfortable wherever we workout, a place where few judging eyes stare, so here’s a list of queer-friendly area gyms to check out.
Club Dallas. This specialized 18-and-over Swiss Avenue sauna and fitness center caters to Dallas’ gay men always looking to keep fit and stay well. Just steps away from a DART station, Club Dallas provides its members a full gym, cardiovascular-focused area, whirlpool, steam room, outdoor pool and private dressing rooms. But most important, the Club prides itself as a safe and discreet place for its members to rejuvenate and stay healthy with others. Membership costs $32/mo., with one-time visits costing $8 on weekdays and $10 on weekends. The-Clubs.com.

Diesel Fitness. This uptown gym located in City Place off North Central Expressway offers weekly classes to help members work on their body tone. On Mondays and Wednesdays, the Iron Body Bootcamp could whip any newcomer into shape, and the spot’s Bun’s & Gun’s workout suits the more advanced types on Tuesday nights. And along with the usual fitness amenities, such as barbells and various lift machines, Diesel features a designated space for boxing and an indoor turf. DieselFitness214.com.

Equinox Fitness. For those looking for a facility promoting luxury, Equinox provides high-end equipment and machines, with membership usually running about $180/mo. Locations are in Plano, Highland Park and Preston Hollow for Dallasites of all types. And members can utilize the establishment’s cycling space, personal trainers, Pilates studio and spa, featuring massage and facial stations. Along with purchasing one-on-one training sessions, members can take unlimited group fitness classes for free. Equinox.com.

Gold’s Gym. One of the definitive health centers nationwide, the Uptown branch of this national chain has remained popular in the community for years. GoldsGym.com.

LA Fitness. The sprawling center in the gayborhood, with its pool area, weights, treadmills and more, is perennially popular with queer fitness folks in Dallas. LAFitness.com.

Planet Fitness. One can find a PF almost anywhere, but the membership rates here offer the convenience at a real bargain. For about $10/mo., members can exercise in a 24/7 facility that prides itself as a Judgment Free Zone. PF even allows its members to use the restrooms and locker rooms they identify with as their preferred gender. But if patrons upgrade to Black Card membership, they get exclusive access to the gym’s massage and tanning center.

Utopia Food + Fitness. Utopia offers a unique take on fitness for those always conscientious about their diet before and after workouts. Different from a typical gym, this establishment focuses on pairing personalized workouts, which last about 20 minutes, with healthy meals ordered, prepared and ready to pick up on site. Utopia keeps a chef and dietician on site that aim to create organic cuisines to supplement the short workouts. Membership of $129/mo. comes with a $40 food credit, customized 20-minute workouts, free full body measurements and body composition analysis.

— John Carder McClanahan

Meet LGBTQ-ATL gym owners taking your health to the next level – Project Q

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It’s about this time in January that people start questioning their resolutions. Well, not if these local queer flat bellies have anything to say about it.

Photographer Russ Bowen-Youngblood visited seven of Atlanta’s gay-run and queer-friendly gyms to inspire you with their imagery, then we asked them for words of wisdom to motivate you to keep at it.

The photo essay below hosts the results as this year’s Q Fitness Issue cover story. Enjoy!

ARMOURBODY

Jeremy Ryan Allen

445 Plasamour Drive NE

404-414-5300 |armourbody.com|[email protected]

What sets your gym apart?

We are a small, personalized, strength training studio. I find it important to keep things intimate. Armourbody was built by wanting to give people a private personal training experience. This allows for teaching better direction with form and provides the atmosphere for anyone at any fitness level to be comfortable, which results in faster results as well as long-lasting commitment.

What’s your favorite part of going into work every day?

I’m very lucky that I get to wake up every day and do something I love. But at the end of the day, all businesses are built because of the people. I have the most amazing staff and members — truly, it is like a family.

What role does being/serving members of the LGBTQ-ATL play in your business?

I remember what it was like walking into a gym not knowing what to do. I wanted to build a home for people that could workout in a comfortable environment and learn in the process.

If you had to boil health and fitness into one tip, what would it be?

Consistency and habits lead to long lasting results. Set goals. If you haven’t worked out in a while, start with three days a week, or something you can achieve. Then do that for a couple months, then go to four days a week. Create the habit, see the results. Remember: if it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

Gravity Fitness

Aaron Pols

Ken Penvose

David Goldstein

2201 Faulkner Road

404-486-0506 |gravgymatlanta.com|[email protected]

What got you into the fitness industry?

My personal path in the fitness industry started with my own struggle to lose weight, get in shape, and build some confidence in those awkward teen years. The years of hard work in the gym paid off, exercise and diet grew into a passion I wanted to share with others.

My love for exercise and fitness motivated me to get an exercise physiology degree, which helped me start and build a personal training business. After a few years of personal training, I knew owning a gym was a dream of mine, so when the opportunity to purchase Gravity Fitness became a possibility, I knew I needed the right team to make it work.

Three “magic ingredients” that set your business apart.

Comfortable. Working out, sweating, lifting, pushing yourself, all these things are hard enough. The place where you work out should be comfortable.

Community. Getting the motivation to go the gym is difficult, but it’s easier when your gym is filled with friendly, familiar people with a common goal of self-improvement.

Hard Work. Nothing great was ever accomplished without it, and you can see the hard work our members put in every day.

What is your favorite part of going into work every day?

The people. We are lucky to work with a fantastic group of employees, trainers and most of all, members. Working in such a positive environment motivates me every day to be better. The self-improvement is contagious.

What is the one tip most exercisers need to hear the most?

The most important part of working out is consistency, preferably with a structured plan. The best workout you’ll have is the one that you wanted to skip. Dedication = Results. Most people want to make this more complicated than it is.

What role does serving the LGBTQ community play in your approach?

The gay gyms in Atlanta have always been a great place to be social and meet people in addition to getting in shape. Over the years, the demographics in all of intown Atlanta have changed, but Gravity is still a predominantly gay gym, and as new owners we’ve been targeting our former members to come back and check out the changes we’ve been making.

Gravity’s owners, trainers and members are now a mix of LGBTQ and straight and a great place to come for workouts and making new and old friends! When the gym has some of that social aspect, you’re more likely to come and have some fun and socialize along with your workout!

Anything else you’d like to say to our readers?

We are new owners, but we have each been associated with Gravity Fitness as either a trainer or member for 8+ years. We’ve made some pretty big changes and welcome you to come check things out for yourself. We offer a free three-day pass to come check us out at the times you’d be working out — we are never “too” crowded!

The Training Room ATL

Amber Goppert

742 Ponce De Leon Place

404-333-3677 |thetrainingroomatl.com|[email protected]

What got you into the fitness industry?

I wanted a career that was incredibly rewarding and would allow continual growth. Being “well” as I call it, is absolutely life changing for someone. It impacts every aspect of their life. Being able to be a part of that is everything to me.

Three “magic ingredients” that set your business apart from others:

Integrity. We are constantly educating ourselves and evolving in order to provide the best programming and coaching for each member.

Community. The majority of reviews and compliments I received mention how wonderful our people are, both members and staff.

Empowerment. We believe in being the change. Be more, promise yourself to show up every day and do that. At TTR, we believe we are all catalysts for change, in and out of the gym.

What is your favorite part of going into work every day?

The people. At our gym, people don’t see colors, or sexuality, or wealth. They see people. We support one another and stand for something bigger than ourselves.

What role does the LGBTQ community play in your approach?

I’m a small business owner. Who happens to be a woman. Who happens to be a lesbian. There are people who would love to see me fail because of one, two, or three of these things. The fear of failure can be overwhelming, but when we harvest it for good we can channel that fear into something great.

This is why I wanted to create a space where people feel comfortable and safe being who they are and where they are in their journey. A no judgment zone, just a welcoming space for anyone of any background that wants to be a part of a positive community.

To me, being better involves giving back. Every year since the doors opened, we have held a “Fight For Pride” charity events to support local nonprofits.

What one tip would you say most exercisers need to hear the most?

We are all human. Everyone was once a beginner. We all started and likely re-started at some point. It’s OK to miss a day, to eat a brownie, and to sleep in, but don’t make it a habit, treat each day as a new day — one where you put yourself first.

My challenge to all of you is to show up, every day, with the best intentions. Get lost in helping others. Lend your voice to those who cannot find their own. Whatever you are passionate about, become an expert on the subject. Find a vice that isn’t harmful, one that pushes you to be better.

And of course, when you’re ready for the best sweat in town, drop in at TTR. You’ll be welcomed with open arms and your first class is always a gift from me to you.

BoxFit Fitness & Performance Studio

Janaya ‘Jai’ Davis

1880 Harvard Ave.,College Park

678-705-5275 | boxfitfitness.com

What did your boxing career teach you about life?

Most importantly, it taught me to never give up. In boxing, you can lose every round in the fight, but if you hang in there and throw the right punch at the right time, you can knock out your opponent and win the fight. Whenever I’m going through tough or challenging times, I just become more focused and determined.

What’s excuses do you hear from people about why they don’t work out or eat well?

The biggest excuse I hear from people is “I don’t have time.” My response is always presented in a question to provoke thinking. I ask them how many times they go out to a restaurant per week. Then I say the same time you spent dining out, going to the movies and waiting for a table adds up close to the recommended hours per week of working out to reduce your chances of having obesity-related diseases. They always agree with me after that.

What’s the key to sticking with a workout plan and healthy diet?

Consistency. You should pick set times and days in which you can commit to being there. Also being prepared to eat healthy when it’s time to eat, because if you wait until you are famished, you will more than likely grab the first thing available instead of searching for healthy options.

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

I will have multiple gyms with programs designed to assist the most challenging clients to show them that there is hope and not to give up on themselves.

Urban Body Fitness

Radford Slough

500 Amsterdam Ave. NE

404-885-1499 |UrbanBodyFitness.com |[email protected]

Three “magic ingredients” that set your gym apart.

Customer service, towel service, and change — we listen to our clients as to what new “toys” they want.

What is your favorite part of going into work every day?

Seeing and talking to our clients.

If you had to keep fitness to one tip, what would it be?

Food intake matters as much as how hard you workout.

What role does being in/serving the LGBTQ community play in your gym?

We are about 50/50 gay/straight. We pride ourselves as being open to everyone who strives to improve their health.

What else?

Come by and try our free seven-day trial. See the difference for yourself. We don’t have a salesperson, so no one is going to keep calling you. Our gym and staff sell themselves.

Fitted 4 Fitness

Ralph Barber

751 James P Brawley Drive NW

(612) 554-5731

fitted4fitness.com

What got you into the industry?

I got my B.A. in physical education and health along with a teaching license. I wanted to be a P.E. teacher and coach football, while also being an African-American male mentor toward single-parent homes. I came from a single-parent home. It was hard, but I feel with focus and determination, you still have an opportunity to be who you want to.

What motivated you to move on from managing a big box gym to opening your own gym?

One two-week pay period, I made $3,400. It was the most money I had ever made, and I was 24 years old. I also worked 120 hours for that. At that moment, I realized that if I put that much time into my own business, there’s no reason why I would fail. I quit that day and never looked back.

What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned?

What you put in is what you will get out.

What’s next for you and Fitted 4 Fitness?

I really want to establish a team while helping great entrepreneurial personal trainers succeed in their personal goals and dreams, because right now I’m living my dream running my gym.

Equilibrium Fitness

Bryan Castano

1529 Piedmont Ave. NE

404-304-4674 |EquilibriumFitnessATL.com|[email protected]

What got you into the fitness industry?

While pursuingmy own fitness goals, I noticed that I could help others along the way. I became certified and eventually became a personal trainer for the better part of 10 years.

Three adjectives that set your business apart.

Welcoming, Hospitable, Clean

What is your favorite part of going into work?

I have a fantastic team of individuals that are dedicated to our growth and success. We all come ready and dedicated to work for each and every one of our members and patrons. I enjoy knowing that we are doing our piece in the city to make it healthier and accepting for everyone.

What is your #1 Fitness Tip?

Patience is key! If you work hard, and it takes time and lots of effort, you will appreciate it more in the long term.

What role does being/serving the LGBTQ community play in your approach?

I love our LGBTQ community, and I do play an active role in it, but would I say I do things differently? No. I was raised to treat everyone the same and to treat everyone the way I would want to be treated. At Equilibrium, we are all about acceptance and learning to become better versions of ourselves. That is why our tagline is “Become A Better You.”

Anything else you’d like to say to our readers?

The gym industry can be a very intimidating place for many new people who may have never stepped into a gym. At Equilibrium, we are all about making you feel welcome. Everyone, no matter how fit or athletic they may be today, had a “First Day” in a gym at some point. Let 2020 be your “First Day” with us!

All photos by Russ Bowen-Youngblood for Q except Amber Goppoert. Those photos courtesy The Training Room.

This feature originally appeared in Q magazine. Read the full issue online here:

Pick up a new edition of Q every week at queer and LGBTQ-friendly venues around town, and find back-issues in our archives here.

Previous Gay Gym Gear – Georgia Voice

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Need comfort while still showing off your arms, chest, legs, and ass? We’ve got the perfect workout attire to get the glances from those around you!

BLITZBEATZ Shorts

$45, Blitzbeatz.com

These Nylon/Spandex shorts come in dozens of colors with more pockets than you can handle! Two diagonally zippered front pockets, dedicated cell phone pocket, exterior zippered credit card pocket, hidden zippered inside pocket, exterior accessory loop, interior shirt-securing loop, inside drawstrings, water bottle pocket, and a cell pocket cover which holds your phone in place.

JED NORTH Shorts

$26.95, JEDNorth.com

Perfect for a heavy lifting session, miles of cardio or a peaceful yoga session. These polyester and spandex shorts fit snug but still allow you to move freely. Includes two side pockets with zippers and a ribbed waistband with external drawcord.

JED NORTH Mesh Tank Top

$20.95, JEDNorth.com

Soft, stretchy, and breathable … what more could you ask for?! This tank comes in several colors and allows you to show off the right amount of skin to your gym partners. The tank is made of performance polyester and spandex with a tapered fit for a wide range of motion while lifting or running.

JJ Malibu Donut Tank Top

$22.95, JJMalibu.com

Show your biggest indulgences on the gym floor with JJ Malibu’s donut tank top! This polyester and spandex blend tank has a sexy racerback design to show off all of your back muscles to your gym crush! Comes in dozens of fun designs!

DJX Trough Socks

$17, BoyNextdoorMenswear.com

Get these sexy knee high rugby socks for the perfect circulation during your lifting or cardio workout session. Cotton, polyester and elastic blend which comes in multiple colors.

Teamm8 Shorts

$55, BoyNextdoorMenswear.com

Whether you’re working out or just relaxing, these level shorts add another level of comfort with four way stretch quick dry fabrication. You’ll find a mesh side and leg band trim which reveals the perfect amount of skin. Two side zip pockets, and full elastic waist with outside tie-cord makes sure everything is secure.

Nasty Pig Jockstrap

$29, NastyPig.com

The L33 jockstrap gives a classic vibe while standing out among the rest! When you drop your trousers in the locker room, the super-soft modal spandex will hold your junk easily. The waistband combines our iconic SNOUT logo and reminds everyone that you’re a true Nasty Pig!

QUEERY: David McMichael – Washington Blade

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When the COVID pandemic hit in the early months of 2020, there were certainly more pressing and essential worries for us to grapple with than how it would impact the next season of a TV show. Yet it’s a testament to the power of “Pose” that many among its legion of fans were at least as concerned about the show’s disruption as they were about the possibility of running out of toilet paper.

The powerhouse FX drama — which spotlights the legends, icons and ferocious house mothers of New York’s underground ball culture in the late 1980s — had already made history. Not only did it feature the largest cast of transgender actors in regular roles, it boasted the largest recurring cast of LGBTQ actors ever included in a scripted series. In its first two seasons, the show racked up accolades and honors (including a Primetime Emmy for Billy Porter as Outstanding Lead Actor in a Drama Series) while breaking new ground for the inclusion and representation of queer people — and especially transgender people of color — in television, both in front of the camera, and behind it. With the end of its second season in August 2019, fans were hungry for a third — but thanks to COVID, its future was suddenly in question.

So, when word came that the show’s third season would have its debut on May 2, it was the best news since finding out the vaccines were finally going to start rolling out. But it was bittersweet: Along with confirmation of the series’ imminent return came the sad revelation that the new season would also be the last. “Pose” would be coming to an end with a final, seven-episode arc.

As any viewer of show can attest, there were a lot of threads left hanging when last we saw its characters. That means there’s a lot of ground to cover in these last chapters in order to give everyone — characters and audience alike — the closure they deserve.

The show’s official synopsis goes like this: It’s now 1994 and ballroom feels like a distant memory for Blanca, who struggles to balance being a mother with being a present partner to her new love, as well as her latest role as a nurse’s aide. Meanwhile, as AIDS becomes the leading cause of death for Americans ages 25 to 44, Pray Tell contends with unexpected health burdens. Meanwhile, a vicious new upstart house is emerging in the ballroom world, and the members of the House of Evangelista are forced to contend their legacy.

Obviously, there are a lot of details left hidden in that broad overview, and fans are undoubtedly full of questions about what they can expect to see.

Fortunately, the bulk of the show’s main cast convened on Zoom last week (along with show co-creator and Executive Producer Steven Canals and Executive Producer Janet Mock) for a press conference to discuss their “Pose” experience, and while they didn’t exactly give away any spoilers, they definitely dropped some tantalizing hints about what’s in store for audiences in the farewell season.

In truth, most of the discussion was dominated by reminiscences and expressions of mutual appreciation, sure signs that the feeling of family we see onscreen is something that has taken hold off screen, as well. But in between the affectionate banter, the cast and creatives addressed several questions that might be most on viewers’ minds.

Perhaps the most pressing of these — why, after only three seasons, is the critic-and-audience-acclaimed show calling it quits? — was taken on by Canals, who explained:

“I always knew what the beginning and what the end of the narrative would be. And when Ryan Murphy and I first met in September of 2016, we felt really strongly that that particular narrative made sense. And so, while we certainly could have continued to create narrative around these characters and in this world, and we certainly had a conversation in the writers’ room about it … I think we all agreed that it just made sense for us to ‘land the plane,’ if you will, comfortably — as opposed to continuing to give an audience story that just simply didn’t have any real core intention or a real thrust towards specificity.”

Also of interest was the obvious subject of how the parallels between the current pandemic and the AIDS crisis that looms over the show’s narrative might be reflected in the new episodes. While he didn’t hint at any direct connections in “Pose,” Porter used the subject to underscore a theme that has always been one of the show’s most important elements:

“I think the parallels are quite profound. I know that as a Black gay man who lived through the AIDS crisis, I have been dealing with a lot of PTSD during this COVID time. It’s very reminiscent of what it was like then. The best news about that is that I survived. We got through it, and there is another side to it. We can get to the other side.

“I feel like that’s what ‘Pose’ really accomplishes this season, reminding the public that it’s when we come together and when we lead with love [that] we get to the other side.”

Mock elaborated on the theme of resilience by discussing the importance of showing the strength of House mothers like Blanca and Electra (Dominique Jackson), who hold together — and lift up — their entire community:

“It’s that matriarchal power and lineage that I think the ballroom is, and what trans women are to one another, that then feeds everyone else and enables them to shine and have all the things that they want in the world. For me, it is [about] that celebration […] of Black trans women — that they’ve created this space, that they brought everyone else in with them, and that, at the end of the day, they are often the ones most often forgotten.

“I think with this season, I want everyone across the industry, the audience, to realize that. I think it’s essential, and it’s important.”

Mock also talked about the way “Pose” focuses on the small, day-to-day lives of its characters as much as it does the larger-than-life splendor of the ballroom culture in which they participate:

“We wanted to ensure that we show the everyday, mundane moments, as well as the great, grand celebrations. The ballroom is are presentation of what it means to congregate and share testimony and to love on each other, and our show is a celebration of the everyday intimacies. So, for us, while we were plotting these big, grand moments […] we wanted to bring in traditions — weddings, matrimony, all this stuff — that our characters get to engage in. We wanted to be a part of the tradition of that, and all the moments that a family shares together. We wanted to make sure that all of those things were celebrated in this.”

When discussion turned to the unprecedented level of support and collaborative inclusion with which the show’s queer cast were bestowed by Ryan Murphy and the rest of the creative staff — from the presence of trans women like Mock and Co-producer Our Lady J in the writers’ room to the extensive reliance on the insights and talents of real-life members of the ballroom community — Jackson was quick to add that besides giving the show its ferocious authenticity, it gave her an increased recognition of her own worth:

“I will never, ever, ever walk into a space thinking that I need to impress them […] I will never walk into a space being fearful of my identity stopping me from anything. Because of this journey, when I walk into spaces now, my identity is not because I’m an abomination. My identity is a plus. My identity is my value. So, when I walk into spaces now,they need to impress me. You can be the biggest Hollywood director, producer, whatever, but you’re not going to take my story or relay stories that are reflective of my life or my existence and make them into anything you want, because of ‘Pose,’ because of Ryan, because of Steven, because of Janet and Brad [co-creator/executive producer Falchuk), because of Our Lady J, because of my cast members.

“I will never walk into spaces or live a life or an existence thinking that I need to impress anyone.”

Porter concurred, adding:

“There was never, ever a space in my brain to dream what‘Pose’ is, what Pray Tell is. I spent the first 25-plusyears of my career trying to fit into a masculinity construct that society placed on us so I could eat.‘Pose,’ and Pray Tell in particular, really taught me to dream the impossible […] the idea that the little, Black church sissy from Pittsburgh is now in a position of power in Hollywood in a way that never existed before. You can damn sure believe that I will be wielding that power and there will be a difference and a change in how things go from here on out.”

If the cast members themselves have found themselves feeling more empowered thanks to “Pose,” so too have the millions of LGBTQ people — and allies — who have tuned into it since its premiere in 2018. The show is one of those rare entries into the cultural lexicon that simply allows its queer and trans people to live authentic lives, giving long-withheld representation to countless viewers who were able to see themselves reflected back from the screen for perhaps the very first time. It’s that powerful sense of validation provided by “Pose” that keeps it standing tall in an entertainment market now providing so much LGBTQ inclusion that it’s becoming dangerously easy to take it for granted.

Whatever moments of heartbreak, joy, and celebration “Pose” brings us as it plays out its final act — and there are sure to be many — we can all be sure it will leave us with a message expressed through an oft-heard line of dialogue that Mock says she found herself writing “over and over again” during the series’ run:

“You are everything, and you deserve everything this world has to offer.” It’s that nurturing sentiment the “Pose” has been instilling in us from the beginning, like a mother to us all.

And that’s why so many of us can’t wait until the first two episodes of its final season air at 10 p.m. (both Eastern and Pacific), Sunday, May 2, on FX.

The final season of “Pose” will begin to air on FX on Sunday, May 2, at 10 p.m. ET. (Photos courtesy of FX)

About one-in-five Americans use a smart watch or fitness tracker – Pew Research Center

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As 2020 begins – and health-related New Year’s resolutions take effect – roughly one-in-five U.S. adults (21%) say they regularly wear a smart watch or wearable fitness tracker, according to a Pew Research Center survey conducted June 3-17, 2019.

21% of Americans say they use smart watches or fitness trackersAs is true with many other forms of digital technology, use of these devices varies substantially by socioeconomic factors. Around three-in-ten Americans living in households earning $75,000 or more a year (31%) say they wear a smart watch or fitness tracker on a regular basis, compared with 12% of those whose annual household income falls below $30,000. Differences by education follow a similar pattern, with college graduates adopting these devices at higher rates than those who have a high school education or less, according to the survey of 4,272 U.S. adults.

There are more modest differences by gender and race and ethnicity. Women are more likely than men to say they regularly use these devices (25% vs. 18%). Hispanic adults are more likely than whites to report regularly wearing a fitness tracker (26% vs. 20%), while black adults fall in between at 23%.

A fitness tracker can compile a variety of data about the wearer’s activities, depending on the complexity of the device. Users can monitor this data with a corresponding app, where they can manually input additional information about themselves and their lifestyle. As a result, the makers of fitness trackers amass a wealth of data on their users that can be used in many ways. Current privacy policies for many fitness tracking apps allow users’ data to be shared with others. Some researchers are already using data from these apps for health research.

For this report we surveyed 4,272 U.S. adults in June 2019. Everyone who took part is a member of Pew Research Center’s American Trends Panel (ATP), an online survey panel that is recruited through national, random sampling of residential addresses. Recruiting our panelists by phone or mail ensures that nearly all U.S. adults have a chance of selection. This gives us confidence that any sample can represent the whole population (see our Methods 101 explainer on random sampling).

To further ensure that each survey reflects a balanced cross-section of the nation, the data is weighted to match the U.S. adult population by gender, race, ethnicity, partisan affiliation, education and other categories. Read more about the ATP’s methodology and the methodology for this report.

Here is the list of questions asked for this report, along with responses.

Recently, some concerns have been raised over who can and should have access to this health data. Military analysts have also expressed concern about how third parties can use the data to find out where there is an American military presence.

About four-in-ten Americans approve of fitness tracker data being used for heart disease researchIn the Center’s survey, there’s no clear consensus among the public as to whether sharing this information with medical researchers is acceptable or not. About four-in-ten Americans (41%) say it is acceptable for makers of fitness trackers to share users’ data with medical researchers seeking to better understand the link between exercise and heart disease, while a somewhat smaller share (35%) believes this is an unacceptable practice. Another 22% are unsure if this is an acceptable practice or not.

Some groups find the use of this data more acceptable than others. White adults (39%) are more likely than those who are black (31%) or Hispanic (26%) to see sharing this data as unacceptable. At the same time, 47% of adults under the age of 50 believe that sharing this type of data with researchers is acceptable, compared with 35% of those 50 and older.

In addition, Americans who use fitness trackers are far more supportive of sharing data from these devices with health researchers than those who don’t use these devices. Roughly half of users of fitness trackers (53%) say this is acceptable, compared with 38% of those who do not use fitness trackers.

Note: Here is the list of questions asked for this report, along with responses and methodology.

Emily A. Vogels  is a research associate focusing on internet and technology at Pew Research Center.

25 Top LGBTQ Travel Destinations for 2020 – TravelPulse

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Queer travelers have their favorite vacation places—and many enjoy going back to these hangouts time after time. Other LGBTQ explorers also enjoy discovering new, exciting destinations. Here are 25 places that you should consider spending some time in during 2020.

A Nationwide Ban Is Needed for “Anti-Gay Therapy” – Scientific American

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Last summer a South Carolina man named McKrae Game, who founded a network to promote “conversion therapy” for gay people, disavowed his own work. The Hope for Wholeness group Game established tries to help individuals follow his entreaty to attain “freedom from homosexuality through Jesus Christ.” But Game, who revealed that he was gay last year, pleaded on Facebook: “I WAS WRONG! Please forgive me!”

It might be assumed from this refutation that any attempts to forcibly change a young person’s sexual orientation are about to go the way of bloodletting, frontal lobotomy and trepanation. But that supposition would be wrong: if past trends hold, 16,000 LGBTQ—lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer—teenagers in the U.S. will go through conversion therapy before they turn 18, according to the Williams Institute at the U.C.L.A. School of Law, and only 18 states have banned this harmful practice for minors.

Some conservative religious organizations still back “anti-gay therapy” and on occasion end up in court to defend it. Their chances of prevailing have been bolstered by an increasingly right-leaning judiciary fostered by the nation’s red/blue divide.

The reason no minor should be subjected to this practice has nothing to do with partisan politics or religious beliefs. The putative therapy should be discarded because it is rooted in bad science. Its origins are tied to both rejected concepts about sexuality and therapies based on those discredited notions.

Homosexuality—once explained erroneously as the result of an overbearing mother—was classified as a form of mental illness in psychiatry’s first diagnostic manual, published in 1952. In the past, treatments to “cure” it included electroshock, chemical therapies such as the forced hormone treatments infamously inflicted on British mathematician Alan M. Turing, and the hiring of prostitutes for “behavioral” interventions. But milder versions persist today in the form of aggressive counseling and, at times, the administration of measures that induce nausea or vomiting.

Trying to alter an individual’s sexual identity should be banned simply because of the irreparable harm it causes. In a 2019 survey of almost 35,000 young people, the Trevor Project, which provides crisis intervention for LGBTQ youths, found that 42 percent of a subgroup who had received conversion therapy attempted suicide.

The medical establishment, thankfully, has become a solid critic of anti-gay conversion. The American Medical Association, the American Psychological Association and other organizations characterize it as useless and injurious. The public is also opposed: a 2019 Reuters/Ipsos national poll found that 56 percent of U.S. adults think conversion therapy should be illegal.

Although medical and psychological associations have asked explicitly that Congress and state governments ban anti-gay conversion, there has been a backlash from groups such as the Liberty Counsel, which promotes “evangelical values.” Listed by the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) as an anti-LGBTQ hate group, the Liberty Counsel noted in a press release that it is fighting several existing bans on conversion therapy. Luckily, verdicts can go both ways: in a 2015 case brought by the SPLC, a New Jersey state court ruled that Jews Offering New Alternatives for Healing—tellingly abbreviated as JONAH—had engaged in consumer fraud by offering conversion therapy because homosexuality is not a mental illness.

The best way to stop this practice is through a federal resolution or through additional bans by the other 32 states—or even by local jurisdictions. Bills have been introduced to put a ban in place at the federal level, but these are still languishing in the House of Representatives.

Time may be running out. New York City had a ban but voted to undo it in September 2019: the City Council feared that a lawsuit to quash the ban, filed by another Christian advocacy group, might make its way up to an ever more conservative Supreme Court that could rule against the injunction. Whether this detestable practice continues may depend on the 2020 presidential and congressional elections—which, depending on the outcome, might provide an opening for legislation to finally put an end to a pseudoscientific technique masquerading as therapy.

Trump trend: LGBTQ mentions quietly axed from discrimination guidelines – NBC News

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With just over a year left in President Donald Trump’s first term, another late-breaking news item barely made waves: The Interior Department — which manages the majority of the federal government’s public lands — deleted “sexual orientation” from its anti-discrimination guidelines, as HuffPost first reported last week. The removal was just the latest in a nearly three-year-long effort to strip mention of LGBTQ people from the executive branch bureaucracy.

Reports of such changes began the day Trump assumed office, when LGBTQ content was deleted from the White House, State Department and Labor Department websites within “minutes” of his having been sworn into office, according to GLAAD, a national LGBTQ advocacy group.

Since then, drip by drip, other parts of the federal government have had their online content trimmed to omit mention of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people.

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In July 2017, on the day he announced the transgender military ban on Twitter, Trump’s Justice Department officially shifted course regarding its legal interpretation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act. Unlike the Obama administration, the Trump team would not interpret the decades-old law to prohibit employment discrimination based on sexual orientation.

In November 2017, the General Services Administration removed “sexual orientation” and “gender identity” from its 2015 discrimination statement. In March 2018, lesbian and bisexual resources disappeared from the website of the Department of Health and Human Services.

Indeed, the government’s own civil rights watchdog group, the Commission on Civil Rights, in November found a systematic approach to dismantling LGBTQ rights protections. Karen Narasaki, a member of the commission’s board, called it “truly unprecedented.”

But last week, the Interior Department’s public response to the change raised eyebrows. Carol Danko, a spokesperson, reportedly said the department was following the Obama-era guidance that found that federal civil rights laws protect LGBTQ people.

“Per the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, under Title VII the term ‘sex’ includes gender, gender identity, transgender status, sexual orientation and pregnancy,” Danko said, according to HuffPost.

Danko’s response highlights the central tension in the Trump administration’s LGBTQ policy: Even as Trump’s Justice Department is arguing before the Supreme Court that the Obama-era EEOC guidance is incorrect, other departments are using the guidance to swat away media inquiries about why LGBTQ mentions are being stripped from federal anti-discrimination guidance.

Compounding the confusion, LGBTQ advocates sued to see Justice Department LGBTQ policy documents and a Justice Department employee resource group complained in an open letter about discrimination in the department. Soon after, in April, Attorney General William Barr demonstrated support for the Justice Department’s many LGBTQ employees, even as he directed the effort to dismantle federal LGBTQ protections before the Supreme Court.

Barr later released an equal opportunity hiring statement that notably did include “sexual orientation” and “gender identity.”

Meanwhile, the Trump administration and the president’s re-election campaign have taken some steps to garner LGBTQ support. The administration has appointed several openly gay people to high-level positions, including Richard Grenell as ambassador to Germany and Patrick Bumatay as a judge in the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals. (However, an LGBTQ legal advocacy group recently claimed that a third of Trump’s judicial nominees have anti-LGBTQ track records.) The administration has also launched a national HIV-prevention program, and Trump’s campaign website sells Trump-branded rainbow merchandise.

GLAAD, one of the president’s most vocal critics, has launched a Trump Accountability Project, which has tracked “133 attacks on “LGBTQ people” since the president took office.

“We started this decade with tremendous hope and momentum, and are finishing it with a need to protect all we have achieved in the face of a continuous series of attacks in policy and rhetoric from the Trump administration,” GLAAD President and Chief Executive Sarah Kate Ellis said. “The fight for LGBTQ acceptance is far from over and in this new decade, we must continue to use all that we have learned throughout the history of the LGBTQ movement and push forward together in an intersectional and united way.”

While the Trump administration did not immediately respond to a request for comment about the president’s LGBTQ track record, one of the administration’s spokesmen has touted Trump’s pro-gay record in a long statement.

“As the first U.S. president in our history to favor same-sex marriage when he was sworn in, President Trump has never considered LGBT Americans second-class citizens and has opposed discrimination of any kind against them,” deputy press secretary Judd Deere told NBC News, in part, in November. “While the radical left has pushed disgusting and false accusations that LGBT Americans are threatened, the president has hired and promoted LGBT Americans to the highest levels of government, including positions at the White House, Cabinet agencies, and ambassadorships.”

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7 winter destinations in LGBTQ-friendly countries – NBC News

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As you’re planning your winter travel and scrolling through options, you might want to check on the LGBTQ-friendliness of any given country you’re considering.

As NBC Out reported last month, the Williams Institute published its latest Global Acceptance Index (GAI) last month. Crunching survey data from 174 countries, the UCLA School of Law think tank’s researchers scored countries based on public beliefs and policies regarding lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people. They published those findings, along with the latest GAI, in their November report.

Of the 174 countries analyzed:

  • 131 experienced increases in acceptance since 1981
  • 16 experienced a decline
  • and 27 had no change in attitude

While some of the top countries on the list are more than fine to visit during winter — like list-topper Iceland, which is on Oprah Magazine’s list of best winter destinations — we compiled both countries that scored highest in the GAI and those who scored high and boast warm temperatures during the American winter.

Most LGBTQ-friendly countries in the world

The three top ranked countries from the GAI are going to be cold in the winter. However, as you’ll see below, that’s not necessarily bad.

If you’re planning to travel to any of the countries below (or anywhere else), be sure to visit sites like CheapOair, TripAdvisor, Expedia and so on to compare prices of hotels, flights, and more.

1. Iceland

Iceland took the leading GAI score in 2013, when previous top scorer the Netherlands was demoted to second place. On top of progressive values, Iceland offers up rare sights like this dragon-shaped aurora borealis. And traveling there during the winter could be great — it’s one of Oprah Magazine’s best winter trips to take — what with steamy outdoor spas, geothermal pools and the sights of the Northern Lights.

20 Most Dangerous Places For Gay Travelers (And The 5 Safest) – Forbes

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Depending on where they’re headed, gay travelers can face great risks. In April 2019, the country of Brunei enacted an Islamic law making it legal to flog and stone LGBTQ people to death. And it’s not the only country to have the death penalty on the books: A few others include Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan and Iran. According to Equaldex, a range of gay activities are illegal in 71 countries.

“This is horrifying,” says journalist Lyric Fergusson, who runs a blog with her husband, Asher, that is focused on travel safety. In an attempt to help determine the worst places for gay travelers, the duo created the 2019 LGBTQ+ Danger Index, ranking the world’s most dangerous—and safest—countries for gay travelers. The couple also updated the list with the best and worst places for gay travelers in 2021, which can be viewed here.

“We have seen LGBTQ+ people dear to our hearts be discriminated against and our deepest desire for writing this article was to bring awareness to these issues and hopefully catalyze change,” says Fergusson. “As travel journalists, we wanted to help the LGBTQ+ community educate themselves on the very complex and layered world of staying safe during international travel.”

The journalists looked at the top 150 most-visited countries in the world by the number of incoming tourists, then ranked them using eight factors, including laws against gay relationships, legal protection against discrimination and more. According to the report, a few factors—such as adoption recognition and worker protections—may not affect travelers directly but are a good indication of overall attitudes within the culture.

“These issues can affect everything, from your ability to show public displays of affection to being able to share a hotel room bed to the capacity at which you can use dating apps without being caught by the local police,” reads the report.

Topping the LGBTQ+ Danger Index is Nigeria, which is considered the worst country for violence against gay travelers. There, people can be put in prison for up to 14 years just for being gay, and some states even have the death penalty under Sharia law. 

Sweden is the safest country in the world for LGBTQ travelers. Same-sex marriage has been legal there since 2009, and the country has more Pride festivals per capita than anywhere else in the world.

One shocking statistic: “A whopping 47 of the 70 countries that have illegal same-sex relationships were part of the British Empire. That is 67%!” says Fergusson. “This isn’t a coincidence. In almost all cases, the laws outlawing consensual gay sex were put into place under British rule and were left in place following independence.”

India is an example of a country that has taken many years to make some strides. “In 2018, India managed to annul Section 377, a British colonial-era law prohibiting ‘unnatural acts,’ in order to legalize consensual gay sex,” says Fergusson, who points out that ancient Indian literature such as the Mahabharata and Ramayana have many references to LGBTQ+ heroes including transgender warriors and two queens who made love in order for one queen to get pregnant with an heir for their kingdom. “Long story short, this points to the fact that it was likely the British influence that largely led to Indian homophobia in the first place,” she says.

Surprisingly, given this history, the United Kingdom is the sixth safest country in the world for LGBTQ+ travelers. “We found this to be a bit ironic as the reason for many of the harsh homophobic laws in countries throughout the world is largely leftover from laws created during British rule,” says Fergusson. “However, in modern times, the U.K. has made great progress with legalized same-sex marriage, worker protections and criminalization of homophobic violence.”

On the other hand, the United States did not do as well in the survey—coming in 24th out of 150 countries. “One reason for that is that there is a great deal of variation in gay rights depending on the state you’re in,” says Fergusson. “There are also no constitutional or broad protections for LGBTQ+ rights under federal law in the U.S. The U.S. might have come far, but it has a long way to go in terms of LGBTQ+ rights, especially for young transgender people.”

In working on the report, Fergusson says they were surprised that there are still many countries that have the death penalty, lashings or imprisonment for same-sex relationships. “These laws are not widely known amongst Western travelers, and we hope others—no matter their orientation—are shocked as well,” says Fergusson, who was also surprised by the laws and attitudes still present in many popular Caribbean vacation spots such as Jamaica. In addition to the 150 most touristed countries on the LGBTQ+ Danger Index, the report calls out five other Caribbean countries where same-sex relationships are illegal: Antigua and Barbuda, Dominica, Grenada, Saint Kitts and Nevis, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines.

“The whole research process was very eye-opening, emotional and frustrating,” says Fergusson. “Our hope is that by making this research widely known we might be able to catalyze change within some of these governments that rely heavily on tourism.”

Read on for the list of the 20 most dangerous places in the LGBTQ+ Danger Index and commentary from Fergusson, the coauthor of the study. Following this is the list of the five safest places for LGBTQ+. You can see the entire ranking of the 150 countries here and also get 37 safety tips.

The 20 Most Dangerous Places for LGBTQ+ Travelers

1. Nigeria

“Located in the heart of Africa, Nigeria ranked as the #1 most dangerous country for members of the LGBTQ+ community. It was ranked so highly largely due to the extreme penalties for simply being gay, which include up to 14 years in prison and the death penalty in states under Sharia law,” says Fergusson. “The mere discussion of LGBT rights is criminalized under the current system. Under Nigeria’s Same-Sex Marriage (Prohibition) Act of 2013, the country has seen an increase in violence and extortion against the LGBTQ+ community.”

2. Qatar

“Coming in second on our LGBTQ+ Danger Index is Qatar,” says Fergusson. “This oil-rich Middle Eastern country enforces up to three years in prison, flogging and the death penalty under Sharia law for any acts of homosexuality. Tourism to Qatar is expected to skyrocket for the 2022 World Cup—which is to take place there—and suspending anti-LGBT laws during the tournament has been discussed, though ultimately rejected by the Qatari government.”

3. Yemen

“In Yemen, the punishment for being gay for both men and women is prison time and 100 lashes, with death by stoning for married men,” says Fergusson. “This conservative Muslim country means business when it comes to rejecting homosexuality, both in its laws and general public sentiment. Refugee Legal Aid Information highlights Yemen’s hostile attitudes toward their largely underground LGBT community.”

4. Saudi Arabia

“Saudi Arabia is another of the countries on our list which implements the death penalty for consensual homosexuality under their interpretation of Sharia law,” says Fergusson. “Other punishments include 100 whips or banishment for one year ‘Men behaving as women’ or wearing women’s clothes, and vice versa, is also illegal in Saudi Arabia, making this a particularly unfriendly country for members of the trans community.”

5. Tanzania

“This East African country is renowned for its remarkable natural attractions, including Mt. Kilimanjaro and the Serengeti National Park, making Tanzania a massive hub for international tourism. Unfortunately, this country was ranked at #5 on our LGBTQ+ Danger Index, which may inspire LGBTQ+ visitors to rethink their travel plans,” says Fergusson. “In Tanzania, any homosexual acts result in 30 years to life in prison, and there has been a recent government crackdown on LGBT activity within the country.”

6. Iran

“Iran made #6 on the index, due in part to its extreme punishments for homosexuality, which include 100 lashes for homosexual intercourse or the death penalty, and 31 lashes for same-sex acts other than intercourse,” says Fergusson. “According to the International Society for Human Rights (ISHR), ‘An open and free life in a same-sex partnership is unthinkable in the Islamic Republic.’ In regards to LGBTQ+ travel to Iran, travelers will want to be cautious and avoid any public displays of affection.”

7. Sudan

“An African nation bordering the stunning Red Sea, Sudan is particularly unfriendly to the LGBTQ+ community. The first two accounts of sodomy result in 100 lashes and five years in prison, and the third offense earns either the death penalty or life in prison,” says Fergusson. “Publicly, homosexuality is a taboo topic, so LGBTQ+ travelers choosing to visit Sudan should proceed with caution and remain discreet with regards to their sexuality. It is also recommended to be extremely careful when inviting guests into your hotel room, as this can potentially spark legal complications.”

8. Barbados

“This was one of the more shocking countries to appear on our list, and in the top 10, no less,” says Fergusson. “Historically, Barbados and some other Caribbean islands have had poor anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and practices, largely left over from the British occupation which put these laws in place and reinforced anti-gay attitudes. However, recently Barbados, along with with Grenada, Saint Lucia, and some others in the Eastern Caribbean Alliance for Diversity and Equality (ECADE), have announced plans to begin to challenge the anti-LGBTQ+ laws currently in place.”

9. Malaysia

“This phenomenal Southeast Asian country is full of beautiful beaches, islands and UNESCO World Heritage Sites, making Malaysia a popular destination for international tourism. Unfortunately, imposed punishment for homosexuality is severe and the existence of gay people in Malaysia was denied by their tourism minister as recently as March 2019,” says Fergusson. “Under state interpretation of Sharia law, homosexuality in Malaysia results in up to 20 years in prison, whipping and fines.”

10. Malawi

“The punishments for homosexuality in Malawi have earned this African country spot #10 on our list,” says Fergusson. “Same-sex acts result in 14 years in prison for men and five years imprisonment for women, with or without corporal punishment. Pro-LGBTQ+ organizations are also banned by the government in Malawi and general public sentiment regards homosexuality as off-limits. Though these laws are technically in place, they are rarely enforced, particularly with tourists visiting Malawi, and discussions about changing anti-LGBT laws have begun to take place.”

11. Zambia

“Home of the magnificent Victoria Falls, renowned as the largest waterfall in the world, and incredible wildlife, Zambia is filled with plenty to explore. That said, the LGBTQ+ community is marginalized in this country and there are heavy consequences for being homosexual, which include seven years to life in prison for any same-sex act,” says Fergusson. “For LGBTQ+ and western travelers in general, it is important to be conscious of local customs and norms, which in Zambia include avoiding any forms of PDA regardless of your orientation.”

12. Saint Lucia

“One of the most beautiful islands in the Caribbean, Saint Lucia came in 12th on our LGBTQ+ Danger Index,” says Fergusson. “A popular vacation destination for tourists from around the world, Saint Lucia’s high ranking came as a bit of a surprise to us. Colonial-era anti-LGBTQ+ laws, particularly that concerning consensual ‘buggery,’ which earns 10 years in prison, are still in place though are no longer truly enforced. Saint Lucia’s prime minister has stated that anti-LGBT laws are currently under review, though the government does not have an official stance as of yet.”

13. Uganda

“One of Africa’s most populous countries, Uganda ranks #13 on our LGBTQ+ Danger Index,” says Fergusson. “Homosexual intercourse results in life in prison and pro-LGBTQ+ organizations are banned throughout the country. Unfortunately, things may soon be getting even worse for the LGBTQ+ community, as the Ugandan government has recently called to reintroduce an anti-homosexuality bill, which would include the death penalty for same-sex acts, in the midst of the recent murder of a gay Ugandan activist.”

14. Pakistan

“Same-sex relationships are considered to be taboo in Pakistan and there are strict laws governing against homosexuality. For example, homosexual intercourse can result in up to 10 years in prison with a fine or life in prison,” says Fergusson. “That said, LGBTQ+ issues are not typically at the forefront of Pakistan’s political agenda, BBC News reported that ‘Sex between men will be overlooked as long as no-one feels that tradition or religion are being challenged. At the end of it all, everyone gets married to a member of the opposite sex and nothing is spoken about.’”

15. West Bank & Gaza

“In the Palestinian territories of Gaza and the West Bank, the anti-LGBTQ+ sentiment is taken very seriously, with homosexual acts resulting in up to 10 years in prison,” says Fergusson. “Groups advocating for LGBTQ+ rights are threatened by the governing authorities in Palestine, who consider homosexuality to be ‘a blow to, and violation of, the ideals and values of Palestinian society.’”

16. Kenya

“Kenya is filled with gorgeous landscapes and unique wildlife, making this East African country a favorite destination for international travelers. Currently, Kenyan law states that same-sex intercourse between males results in 14 years in prison, while all other homosexual acts between males are punished with five years imprisonment,” says Fergusson. “However, the decriminalization of gay sex is being discussed within the government, which would likely bolster LGBTQ+ travel to the country.”

17. Maldives

“Renowned as a popular romantic vacation destination for LGBTQ+ travelers, it comes as a significant wake-up call that the Maldives bears such anti-LGBTQ+ laws,” says Fergusson. “In the Maldives, homosexual acts and intercourse, as well as same-sex marriage, earn eight years in prison or 100 lashes. Though these laws are currently enforced in the cities, they are largely ignored at the resorts. For more adventurous travelers, regardless of orientation, be wary of the local customs and avoid any public displays of affection in the Maldivian cities.”

18. Jamaica

“One of the Caribbean’s most popular vacation destinations for tourists worldwide, Jamaica was another shocking country to top our LGBTQ+ Danger Index,” says Fergusson. “Jamaica ranks as the third-worst Caribbean nation for members of the LGBTQ+ community behind Barbados and Saint Lucia. This is largely due to Jamaica’s ‘buggery law,’ which is leftover from the colonial era and allows for a sentence of up to 10 years in prison, including hard labor. In fact, Jamaica was called ‘the most homophobic place on Earth’ by Time magazine in 2006 and LGBTQ+ people are sadly still the victims of homophobic violence today.”

19. Ethiopia

“Located on the Horn of Africa, Ethiopia is a country rich with lush landscapes and cultural diversity. Ranking 19th on our index, Ethiopia outlaws same-sex relations and ‘indecent,’ or homosexual, acts result in up to 15 years in prison,” says Fergusson. “Recently, there have been death threats by Ethiopia’s Orthodox Christian community over gay tourism to the country, putting LGBTQ+ tourists at risk.”

20. Egypt

“Renowned throughout the world for its ancient pyramids and historical and religious significance, Egypt is a massive tourist destination for international travelers everywhere. Unfortunately, Egypt ranked #20 on our list due to its negative laws regarding homosexuality,” says Fergusson. “Same-sex acts result in up to three years in prison with a fine, and possession of homosexual materials results in up to two years in prison with a fine. For LGBTQ+ travelers, it is recommended not to disclose your sexuality and avoid using dating apps since the local police have been known to create fake accounts to ‘catch’ LGBTQ+ travelers looking to engage in illegal activity.”

The 5 Safest Places for LGBTQ+ Travelers

1. Sweden

“Coming in first place as the safest country for the LGBTQ+ travel is Sweden,” says Fergusson. “Scandinavia is generally known for its friendly people and liberal attitudes towards equality for all. Sweden legalized same-sex marriage in 2009 and performed well on each of our measured categories. This land of the Northern Lights has also been a regular host of Europride and has more Pride festivals per-capita than anywhere else in the world.”

2. Canada

“Canada’s friendly attitudes and positive legislation towards the LGBTQ+ community have earned it the title of the second safest country on our LGBTQ+ Danger Index,” says Fergusson. “Renowned for its kind locals, rich maple syrup and chilly winters, Canada has constitutional protections in place to guard the LGBTQ+ community against violence and discrimination, and same-sex marriage is of course legal. Prime Minister Justin Trudeau promoted inclusivity by marching in Toronto’s Pride Parade and became the country’s first Prime Minister to visit a gay bar.”

3. Norway

“Known for its unbelievable landscapes, friendly people and unique culture, it’s no surprise that this Scandinavian country ranks in the top three safest countries for LGBTQ+ travelers,” says Fergusson. “Norway legalized same-sex marriage in 2009 and has protections in place against anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination and violence. Additionally, since 1981, Norway became one of the first countries in the world to grant equal rights to everyone regardless of sexual orientation and is home to a variety of annual LGBTQ-friendly events.”

4. Portugal

“One of only three countries to get an ‘A’ on our index, Portugal comes in fourth in regards to LGBTQ+ safety,” says Fergusson. “With legalized same-sex marriage since 2010 and numerous legal protections for the LGBTQ+ community, Portugal scored just behind Norway. Cities like Lisbon and Porto have the best gay scenes in the country and Portugal is hoping to host the 2022 Europride, the world’s biggest event celebrating gay pride in Europe.”

5. Belgium

“Coming in at #5, Belgium scored highly in all eight of the researched categories. With an overall national attitude that is relaxed and accepting towards homosexuality, Belgium is known for having a vibrant gay and lesbian scene, particularly in Brussels,” says Fergusson. “One fun fact about Belgium is that same-sex sexual activity first became legal in 1795.”

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Where Europe stands on gay marriage and civil unions – Pew Research Center

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Same-sex marriage in EuropeMore than 18 years after the Netherlands became the world’s first country to legalize same-sex marriage, Northern Ireland has become the latest European jurisdiction to allow gays and lesbians to marry. Although Northern Island is a constituent of the United Kingdom, with its own parliament at Stormont, the change in its marriage laws ultimately came about due to action by the UK Parliament in London. British lawmakers justified the change (which was accompanied by the legalization of abortion) because the Northern Irish parliament was suspended in January 2017 amid a stalemate between Northern Ireland’s parties.

Northern Ireland is the 18th European jurisdiction to legalize gay marriage. This number counts England and Wales together and Scotland and Northern Ireland as separate entities, since same-sex marriage became legal in the UK due to the enactment of three different pieces of legislation: first in England and Wales in 2013, then in Scotland the following year, and now in Northern Ireland.

Same-sex marriage is now legal across the vast majority of Western Europe. One prominent exception is Italy, which has historical ties to the Roman Catholic Church. In spite of these ties, Italy began recognizing same-sex civil unions in 2016. Switzerland also offers same-sex couples the option of civil unions, but not full marriage.

Majorities of adults in all 15 countries in Western Europe surveyed by Pew Research Center in 2017 support same-sex marriage, including roughly six-in-ten Italians and three-quarters of Swiss adults. Support is even higher in Sweden (88%), Denmark (86%) and the Netherlands (86%).

By contrast, people in Central and Eastern Europe are broadly opposed to the practice. Just 5% of Russians and 9% of Ukrainians, for example, say they favor allowing same-sex marriage, according to surveys conducted in 2015 and 2016. Figures in Poland (32%) and Hungary (27%) are higher, though Poles and Hungarians who support same-sex marriage remain in the minority. The Czech Republic is the only country out of 19 surveyed in Central and Eastern Europe where a majority of adults (65%) support gay marriage.

Likewise, no country in Central or Eastern Europe – not even the Czech Republic – allows same-sex couples to legally marry. However, the Czech Republic, along with Croatia, Estonia, Hungary and several other countries in the region, does allow civil unions. Greece joined this list in late 2015 when it agreed to begin recognizing same-sex civil partnerships despite opposition from the Greek Orthodox Church. Slovenia also allows civil unions, but its voters rejected a 2015 referendum that would have legalized full same-sex marriage. (Ireland, on the other hand, became the world’s first country to approve same-sex marriage by popular vote in 2015.)

More than half of the entities around the world that allow same-sex marriage are in Europe, though Taiwan recently become the first Asian jurisdiction to join the list.

Note: This is an update of a post originally published June 9, 2015.

Michael Lipka  is an editorial manager of religion research at Pew Research Center.

David Masci  is a former senior writer/editor focusing on religion at Pew Research Center.

How Fashion Is A Powerful Form Of Affirmation For Many Queer People – HuffPost

As a young actor and LA kid growing up in the entertainment industry, Jordi knew that clothing was powerful. For Jordi, who uses they/them pronouns and only goes by their first name, dressing up onstage allowed them to try on characters and identities they didn’t feel safe to explore at home. “I was able to put on a costume, put on a mask, wear a garment and really be my most authentic self,” Jordi said.

A true theater kid, Jordi was also a big fan of Lady Gaga, and credits part of their aesthetic awakening to a particularly memorable experience attending one of her concerts. “I went with my undies and a trench coat, and then a tie and a dress shirt. I made a statement just being out there and just rocking my own style choices,” Jordi recalled.

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Once Jordi left home, their love of bold, experimental clothing only grew. “I became more explorative in how I chose to dress, or was choosing to wear certain things that stereotypically on my body were very new or very rare. That’s when I was able to be seen.” Jordi soon found a queer community who not only appreciated their binary-breaking style, but introduced them to the language of two-spirit identity.

Now a 27-year-old model, designer and consultant with Radimo, a gender-fluid clothing marketplace and inclusion consulting agency, Jordi said fashion has been integral to understanding aspects of their identity. “It was that freedom of my fashion expression that allowed the vocabulary around my own identity to catch up. But if it wasn’t for my fashion, I wouldn’t have been seen in a way that affirmed my identity.”

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“If it wasn’t for my fashion, I wouldn’t have been seen in a way that affirmed my identity,” Jordi said.

Like Jordi, many queer people find that fashion can be a powerful form of gender affirmation, a unique signifier of personal identity and a fun, creative way to be visible to other queer people.

Still, being a queer person who wears clothes can be complicated. The perfect ensemble can be a source of pride and creative expression, but sometimes, clothes can become an endless source of frustration, physical discomfort and anxiety.

“I think when I came out in high school, everybody knew, ’cause I was one of the freaky art kids,” said Sky Cubacub, who also uses they/them pronouns. “My parents are both artists, so they always let me dress however I wanted. When I was little, I basically would wear solid pink. I still do, it’s my favorite color. I just love an eye-hurting pink.”

Cubacub also lives with chronic illness, and sometimes struggles to find off-the-rack clothes that are both comfortable and gender-affirming, particularly jeans and undergarments. When Cubacub created Rebirth Garments, they wanted to make gender-affirming undergarments for trans individuals, as well as clothing for people living with physical disabilities.

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“When I was little, I basically would wear solid pink. I still do, it’s my favorite color. I just love an eye-hurting pink,” Sky Cubacub said.

Cubacub loves clothes, and loves being queer, but finding the right clothes can be tough. They feel the androgynous, “post-apocalyptic utililatarian” look that characterizes some popular queer fashion lines can be somewhat limiting—especially when it centers around white, androgynous, able-bodied consumers. Though monochrome suits and button-up shirts aren’t for everyone, these sometimes tend to dominate the queer fashion landscape, making it tough for some people to find clothing that truly fits their personal style. “Even though I just always really felt agender my whole life, people used to perceive me as very femme just because of wearing pink,” Cubacub said. “But no, anybody can wear all pink.”

While Cubacub’s fashion confidence seemed to come naturally, finding a unique personal style as a newly out queer person isn’t always easy.

“When I came out in my early 20s, masculinity was kind of the gold standard, and I wasn’t a true queer or a true lesbian if I was dressing in heels or wearing lipstick,” said Anita Dolce Vita, the owner of queer fashion line DapperQ who describes her style as “J.Crew femme.” Coming out — or even just thinking about coming out — can feel scary, and worrying about what to wear as a newly emerged queer person can be just as intimidating. “You should be able to choose what you want to wear, and what makes you feel good, and what affirms your identity,” Dolce Vita said. “If you’re a femme and you’re coming out, maybe you like your style, and coming out doesn’t at all impact the way that you want to dress.”

The great thing about coming out, Dolce Vita said, is being out. “That is such a big undertaking. That’s such a big obstacle. Now you can explore other parts of you that you could draw upon your style inspiration. You can have a deeper and more meaningful relationship with your own personal style.”

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Sky Cubacub is the creator of Rebirth Garments, a brand that makes gender-affirming undergarments for trans individuals, as well as clothing for people living with physical disabilities.

This can mean enjoying the freedom to experiment with styles, identities and sexual preferences because they feel good, even if they don’t fit in. “Draw upon inspirations from this newfound freedom and love that you have for yourself,” Dolce Vita added. “That could be inspiration from art and architecture, your favorite musicians. Maybe you’re loving Lizzo right now and loving that body positivity. You want to experiment with some glitter, add more makeup, take some makeup away. Whatever it is, now is the time to look for inspiration from the world around you. Because your eyes are now open to who you really are.”

According to Kelliann Denney, assistant merchandizing manager and product engineer at queer clothing retailer Wildfang, comfort is key to finding what works, and what doesn’t. “Find things that feel good against your skin. Find things that you can move in. Find colors that excite you, and really not worry about what everyone else is doing,” Denney told HuffPost. “If you’re not feeling good on the outside, it’s very challenging to feel good on the inside.”

Looking to others for inspiration can be helpful, but certain cuts, colors and trends won’t feel good on everyone, and that’s OK.

“One of the most violent things that we can do to ourselves is compare ourselves to other people. Whether you’re queer, trans, femme, bi,” Denney said, “don’t compare yourself to anyone.”

“You can literally wear anything if you’re queer,” Cubacub added. “It doesn’t matter what you wear, you don’t have to justify your clothing choices. Everybody has their own personal style, and I don’t believe that you have to dress a certain way to be queer.”