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Gay sex venues return – Bay Area Reporter, America’s highest circulation LGBT newspaper

Patrons showing up to take a dip in the hot tub or sweat in the saunas of Steamworks Baths in Berkeley last weekend may have seen something they haven’t witnessed in a while — long lines of men stretching out the door.

“I know for sure on Thursday [June 17] we had one for over 12 hours,” Curtis Jensen, Steamworks’ marketing and graphics coordinator, told the Bay Area Reporter June 21. “We had a really good weekend.”

Steamworks and San Francisco’s Eros are the last gay sex venues that were left to reopen when California Governor Gavin Newsom gave the all-clear last week; San Francisco’s Blow Buddies and San Jose’s the Watergarden were forced to shutter permanently due to the COVID-19 pandemic.

But something that gay bathhouses and sex clubs offer that apps like Grindr lack is the in-person experience, Jensen said, a difference that mirrors how much of society has lived for the past year and their reentry into physical interaction now.

“Apps may seem convenient, but they’re not terribly human,” Jensen said. “There’s nothing like a real human being, face-to-face.”

Jensen said he is happy that patrons haven’t permanently changed their habits during Steamworks’ temporary closure due to the lockdown.

“I’m excited that our men were excited to have us back,” Jensen said. “We were a little nervous because we’d been closed for a year and a half, but we are relieved people are coming back.”

The bathhouse will only be open Thursdays at 8 a.m. through Mondays at 8 a.m.; a lack of sufficient staff is preventing it from returning to its previous 24/7/365 schedule. Because of that, the corporate office is also working part-time, Jensen said.

Steamworks will be asking for proof of vaccination on a patron’s first visit back as a requirement for receiving a membership. The normal membership fee is being waived “for the time being,” Jensen said, assuring that the bathhouse will not be keeping a record of anyone’s vaccination information once a patron obtains the membership for which it is required.

“You can bring a card, a photo of it on the phone, or a photocopy,” Jensen said.

Other prices have not gone up: a locker is $18 until Friday night, when the price increases to $23. Similarly, a standard room is $31 until the same time, when it rises to $36.

SF sex club fully reopened too
In San Francisco, Market Street’s Eros has been open since May 20, as the B.A.R. reported earlier this month. Co-owner Ken Rowe told the B.A.R. June 21 that the restrictions that remained then — such as a mask requirement in the play space, and a 25% capacity limit — went by the wayside on June 16, one day after the great California reopening.

“We are at full capacity and no longer limit how many guests are in here,” Rowe said. “The steamroom and sauna have no limits, and one of our rooms that we closed to work on while we got up and running reopened, too.”

Eros used to allow people to use a negative COVID-19 test result within the last 72 hours to enter. Now, Rowe said it has aligned its policy with its sister business across the bay.

“If you show us your vaccination records — on your phone or digitally — we give you a free, six-month membership,” Rowe said.

Eros, too, is operating for fewer hours than it used to.

“We are just open until 9 p.m., but this weekend we’ll be open till 10 p.m.,” Rowe said, referencing Pride weekend. “We hope after the Fourth of July to be closer to our old hours.”
Rowe said that the reason for this is because “BART closes at 9 p.m. and we have to find staff in the city [of San Francisco] that can work later.”

But Eros has expanded from Wednesday-Sunday to, now, being open all seven days.

“There was also a weird period where CAL-OSHA [the state Division of Occupational Safety and Health] said staff had to wear masks even if fully vaccinated,” Rowe said. “That was rescinded Thursday [June 17].”

Rowe said that last weekend was not as busy as the one preceding it (which also immediately preceded the June 15 reopening date that allowed Steamworks to come back).

“This weekend was good, but the previous weekend was better,” Rowe said.

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Gay man brings fresh approach to perfumery – Bay Area Reporter, America’s highest circulation LGBT newspaper

A gay Black man seeks to “slash gender norms” in the perfume industry with his fragrance brand as he works to expand online sales.

Nick Yeast II founded the Nick Ricardo Collection — a gender-neutral fragrance brand that also seeks to “elevate the narrative of the POC, nonbinary, transgender, and gender-nonconforming individual,” he said.

Speaking to the Bay Area Reporter, the 28-year-old flight attendant said that, for years, he never thought he’d go into making fragrances.

“Fragrances have always been a mood-enhancer for me,” said Yeast, who has a place with his husband in San Francisco. “I’d get compliments for the fragrances that I wore in high school, and that made me feel good, but I never thought I’d get into fragrances until I went to South Korea on a solo trip.”

It was there that the budding scent maker took a fragrance-making class in October 2017.

“I fell in love with the ladies in the shop,” Yeast said. “I made my first bottle at the workshop and wore that fragrance; [and] people complimented me.”

For much of the next year, Yeast then undertook learning the art of perfumery.

“I was so new to all this,” Yeast said. “If you don’t really know, you get the right people in your circle who do know. I had no idea there was such a fragrance community out there.”

As he got into the “nitty-gritty” of developing the right scents for his brand, Yeast learned that “some people make them at home, some studied and some learned the game like I did.”

“Eventually we ended up in the lab with the experts,” Yeast said.

In 2019, the Nick Ricardo Collection was finally released to the public.

“We were in a couple boutiques. I did a launch party in New York and I was at the Taylor Jay Collection in Oakland,” Yeast said. “With the pandemic, and more and more business heading to e-commerce, it made sense to move online because we work with online retailers as well.”

Since the move to sell exclusively online, Yeast said business has not necessarily been better, “but it’s a good, steady presence we have in the fragrance community.”

There are four fragrances in the collection as of now: Onyx, Turbulent, Desire, and Mention. Each costs $64 for a 50ML/1.7oz bottle, and a $1 from every online purchase is donated to the Transgender, Gender Variant, Intersex Justice Project.

“On our website we have our Be You sample collection — a ‘try before you buy’ type thing,” Yeast said. “It comes with a 15% off discount when you get samples.”

The collection is named after his father, Nick Ricardo Yeast I, who he described as “a baby boomer parent who’s hella supportive of their kid.”

The younger Yeast said that he came out to his father as a teenager in Kentucky and was supported.

“The Yeast family in the sports world is a household name,” the younger Yeast said. “I definitely didn’t beat to that drum.”

The elder Yeast told the B.A.R. that he played college football for Eastern Kentucky University from 1979 to 1982, at the same time the team won championships. He said he shares knowledge of his son’s fragrances “everywhere I go and with everyone,” and that he wears them frequently.

“I like the Turbulent,” the elder Yeast said. “But I like every single one of them. I use all of them. I’m happy and I get good comments on all of them.”

The elder Yeast said he’s very proud of his son.

“I’m just proud of Nick,” he said. “He’s a hardworking young man. He got his goal set and now he’s doing his thing. Daddy ain’t got no complaints at all. As they say back here, I’m a happy camper.”

The younger Yeast said that he normally lives in San Francisco but, with the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, he went back to Kentucky to help take care of his parents. He said that he is going to come back “now that California is a bit more open.”

Yeast helped start his business with capital from Working Solutions, a community development financial institution, or CDFI.

Working Solutions provides financial services, such as lending and coaching to people in marginalized communities, such as the LGBTQ community, who might have a tougher time accessing the needed capital to start a business.

Sara Razavi, a lesbian who is the CEO of Working Solutions, told the B.A.R. that Yeast spoke to the team there to find out about marketing and sales.

“We’re a nonprofit financial institution serving the nine Bay Area counties — people left out of the mainstream,” Razavi said. “Nick came to us looking for some startup capital and he sits in the demographic that we seek to be serving, so it made a lot of sense for us to support Nick.”

Working Solutions hooked Yeast up with Small Business Administration funds in the amount of $6,500.

Wells Fargo Bank works with Working Solutions and made a $500,000 investment in the nonprofit.

“It’s an honor to serve business owners like Nick through our relationship with impactful organizations such as Working Solutions,” said Judith Goldkrand, a national women and Asian segments leader with Wells Fargo. “Wells Fargo has a longstanding history of supporting the LGBTQ+ community. We have always felt that we stand stronger together.”

Yeast said he hopes that having fragrances, as opposed to cologne on the one hand or perfume on the other, will help “break the barriers down with gender norms.”

“We have perfume and we have cologne, but it should all be about just being you,” Yeast said. “Our whole life we have people telling us who we are supposed to be, and then we have to find out who we are. At the end of the day, we’re definitely more of a movement than a brand.”

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‘Sesame Street’ celebrates inclusion with episode featuring 2 gay dads – yoursun.com

“Sesame Street” featured two gay dads and their daughter in a groundbreaking episode celebrating diversity and inclusion.

In an episode entitled “Family Day,” which premiered last week on HBO Max and YouTube, the beloved children’s show has a scene in which Nina (Suki Lopez) introduces her brother Dave (Chris Costa), his husband Frank (Alex Weisman), and their daughter Mia (Olivia Perez) to Elmo and his friends.

“We are here!,” the happy family says as they join the gang, in perhaps a nod to a pro-equality chant popularized in the early ’90s, “We’re here, we’re queer, get used to it!”

LGBTQ rights advocates applauded the inclusion of same-sex parents in the popular kids show, noting the significance of the moment.

“The ‘Family Day’ episode of Sesame Street sends the simple and important message that families come in all forms and that love and acceptance are always the most important ingredients in a family,” the president and CEO of GLAAD, Sarah Kate Ellis, wrote on Twitter.

“Frank and Dave, as Mia’s dads, are the latest characters in an undeniable trend of inclusion across kids & family programming, one that allows millions of proud LGBTQ parents, and our children, to finally get to see families like ours reflected on TV,” added Ellis, who’s the mother of twins.

“Happy Pride and Happy Fathers day,” tweeted Eric Rosswood, the author of “We Make It Better: The Ultimate Guide for Gay Dads,” and “Journey to Same-Sex Parenthood.”

Actor Alan Muraoka — who plays Hooper’s Store’s owner Alan — wrote in a Facebook post that he was “so honored and humbled to have co-directed this important and milestone episode.”

The show has always been a “welcoming place of diversity and inclusion,” he noted. “We are so happy to add this special family to our Sesame family,” Muraoka added.

As all the families in the episode are being introduced to one another, one character notes that “all our families are so different.”

Dave agrees: “Yes, there are all kinds of different families. But what makes us a family is that we love each other,” he said.

“I couldn’t agree more,” Alan concludes.

Health officials promote testing after CDC ranks Orlando No. 3 for new HIV cases – WKMG News 6 & ClickOrlando

ORLANDO, Fla. – Health officials are urging people to get tested for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases after the Center for Disease Control’s latest study showed Orlando as third in terms of new HIV diagnoses.

This push from officials is coming right before the National HIV Testing Day this upcoming weekend.

Health officials News 6 spoke with say while they are urging people to be regularly tested for HIV, they do want to remind people when looking at those results from the CDC study, to be mindful that there are a variety of factors that could lead to why Orlando is seeing those high numbers.

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“We don’t have like an exact reason as to why Orlando is so high, but we are a vibrant community and we have a lot of attractions here,” LGBT Plus Center of Orlando director Keyna Harris said.

Harris said there is no one answer as to why numbers of new HIV infections are so high in Central Florida.

According to the CDC, Orlando comes third behind Miami and Atlanta in new diagnoses with a rate of 25.1 per 100,000 and Florida overall having more than 4,387 new cases.

Harris said based on her own testing data she saw an increase in some HIV-reactive cases, but a large decrease in testing.

“Hopefully that means you know that individuals needing the care finally felt comfortable or understood that hey we are technically in a health crisis and I should probably take care of what I already may know is happening with my body,” Harris said.

Down the street, at Out of the Closet Thrift Store, they are urging people to get tested by offering free testing.

Dr. Daniel Odongo is the manager at AHF Pharmacy.

“I mean at the end of the day not knowing your status is not an option, you owe it to yourself to know your status,” Odongo said.

AHF pharmacy said when people don’t know their status they tend to participate in more risky behaviors and said testing can reduce any further spread.

“As the data shows when people know their status there are behavioral changes that go there, there is a level of awareness that goes there and once they go into treatment and undetectable they won’t be able to spread the virus,” Odongo said.

Health officials say the stigma of being HIV-positive has led to hesitancy on getting tested, but AHF pharmacy said with new technologies anyone living with the virus can live a normal life.

“We really have come a long way, you know we consider that a functional cure in a sense that you are undetectable and you are thriving,” Odongo said.

This Saturday, the Center of Orlando is hosting a free 24-hour test-a-thon that will provide free HIV testing and resources to everyone in the community.

No appointment is necessary, but you can visit them at 1200 Hillcrest St. Suite 102 to be a part of the event.

According to the Center, they will also be having an NYC Gay Pride watch party along with food and drinks for those who get tested.

A Place of Pride For Local Trans Youth – Mpls.St.Paul Magazine

In her TEDxMinneapolis talk from 2020, Angela Goepferd, MD, chief education officer and medical director of the Gender Health program at Children’s Minnesota, recalls an interaction she had at the workplace with a curious 3-year-old some years ago. “Are you a mommy or a daddy?” the little boy asked earnestly. Goepferd smiled and bent down to be eye-level with him. “You know, I’m not a mommy or a daddy … I’m a ‘mapa.’ A mommy and a daddy, so both.” Without skipping a beat, the boy replied, “Oh. Okay! So then, what’s your favorite dinosaur?” The retelling of that dialogue elicited smiles and chuckles from the audience, as it goes to show how children move through the world with non-judgemental innocence. But it also illuminates just how society stands to gain by accepting everyone, irrespective of gender.

Exchanges like this one, compounded with an unmet need in the community (and Goepferd’s own personal experience), laid the impetus for the Gender Health program at Children’s Minnesota, the only one of its kind in the state of Minnesota. Co-founded in 2019 by Goepferd and an endocrinologist from Children’s Minnesota (“we were treating the same patients”), their shared vision was to provide comprehensive and coordinated services for transgender and gender-diverse kids and their families.

At a Disproportionate Risk

A space that wholly welcomes, understands, and treats individuals who feel as if they were born in the wrong body is a matter of life or death for some: Newly-released data from Trevor Project shows that 42 percent of LGBTQ kids have contemplated suicide over the past year. “The suicidality rates compared to their cis-gender or straight peers is extremely high,” says Goepferd. “Three in four transgender youth experience high rates of anxiety and depression, and two in three of them––so 67 percent of trans and non-binary youth––experience symptoms of major depression.” When your very existence is on the debating room floor, Goepferd says, it’s easy to go to a dark place.

Last month, the LGBT+ advocacy group Human Rights Campaign pronounced 2021 “the worst year” for bills challenging gay and transgender rights in U.S. states. “When you’re getting messages all the time that are taking negative perspectives of who you are and your identity, and hurting you with words and physical violence, it’s no wonder these kids have higher rates of anxiety and depression and struggle with hopelessness,” she says. Additionally, curbed access to healthcare means coping with substances and high-risk sexual behavior.

“Puberty blockers are valuable medication, very well studied, and monitored closely by medical professionals––always done with the parents on board,” she says. “The treatment is completely reversible, endorsed by the American Psychological Association [among other reputable health organizations] and yet, despite all that, we have attempts to legislate this treatment away from kids.”

Goepferd says she’s assembling trivia for Pride Month and working in stats like how, for example, only 20 percent of LGBT kids got sexual health information last year that was relevant to them. This, when 15-20 percent of Generation Z identify as LGBTQ as they come into adulthood––the highest subgroup ever in the category of sexual orientation. “And still, they aren’t getting education on keeping themselves safe!”

Puberty suppression is, according to Goepferd, a fully reversible medical intervention that’s used to put a ‘pause’ button on the time in life where adolescents achieve rapid physical growth and sexual maturity. Think of it like this, she says: “If you’re assigned male at birth but you identify as female, as you approach puberty, your body is going to masculinize in ways that are largely permanent—your voice gets deeper, you grow hair on the face and body, you get an Adam’s apple. Later in life, in order to feel affirmed and comfortable in your body, you now have to go through painful and expensive medical procedures to undo the effects of puberty.” 90 percent of trans adults say they wished they had access to puberty blockers when they were younger. “For the people that didn’t, their suicide attempt rates were far higher than others.” 

A Safe, Comprehensive Community Space

“The message we were hearing from colleagues around the state, around the region, was that there wasn’t a lot of places for kids to go to,” she says. “There’s a family practice in St. Paul that offers some services for transgender teens, but they had hundreds of patients and couldn’t serve everyone effectively. The University of Minnesota has a mental health program [for transgender and gender-diverse kids] but the waiting list is something like, well over a year long.”

Getting both medical and mental health treatment meant bopping around from one place to the next, highlighting serious holes in health care for this particular population. Up until 2019, there was no local full-service provider that offered a continuum of care for transgender and gender-diverse kids. “So, we thought Children’s could step up and fill that void in the greater community,” says Goepferd. When doors opened, the annual caseload was estimated to be at 90 individuals. By year’s end, they tallied around 200 patients––about three times what was initially projected.

“A unique thing about this program is that it’s exclusively pediatric and we’re multi-specialty,” Goepferd says. “There are certainly clinicians in town who provide care to kids but with our model, we have pediatricians, physicians in adolescent health, gynecology health, endocrinology, and [within the last year] psychological and psychiatric services. We can really give comprehensive care in a compassionate setting to kids.” Plus, she adds, adults are more comfortable taking their children to a place that’s grounded in pediatric care versus something adult-based. 

Gender Affirming Care

Every family that calls to request more information receives an initial consultation, where they learn more about the program and get their burning questions answered. An intake appointment gets scheduled from there to go over components like gender identity and medical history, potentially undergo a physical exam (for puberty staging purposes), explore possible treatment options, and more.

“Some will want medical interventions, others won’t,” Geopferd says. “Some kids will be early in their journey and just unsure about their names and pronouns. Everyone’s at a different stage, so we’re getting to know each other. Some families come in just once and get their questions answered and life goes on and kids change and, well, that’s totally great! I just want to be there for every step of the journey.” Should a trans child start treatment, like hormone therapy or puberty suppressant medications, they’ll undergo follow-up care in the form of X-ray monitoring, labs, and/or psychiatric help.

“We’re also helping families learn how to talk to the school [when a child transitions], what questions to ask, how to navigate the bathroom situation,” she says. Sixty-three percent of transgender children hold in their urine for a full school day in fear of bathroom assaults.

“I had a kid drive from another state to see me so that the superintendent would allow them to use the bathroom aligned with their gender identity,” she exclaims. “Just so they could pee at school!”

Pride Month Tips on Gender-Neutral Language

In honor of Pride Month, the PRIDE employee resource group (ERG) at Children’s Minnesota provided the following examples of how to be more inclusive and gender-neutral during everyday conversations:

  • Instead of saying, “Hey guys”, or “Hello ladies” consider, “Hi folks” or “Hello friends” to be gender inclusive.
  • Instead of saying “What does your husband do?” or “You’re married! Tell me about your wife,” try using “Tell me about your spouse” or “I’d love to learn more about your partner” to be inclusive of LGBTQ relationships.
  • When asking kids about their families, instead of saying “Mom and Dad,” trying saying, “parents” or “grown-ups” to be inclusive of the multiple ways that love makes a family.
  • Introduce yourself with your name and preferred pronouns and then ask colleagues, friends and patients, “What’s your name?” and “What pronouns do you use?”
  • Everyone makes mistakes. If you mistakenly misgender someone the best advice is to apologize and move on.
  • Instead of using words such as “waiter” or “waitress,” use the gender-neutral job title of “server.” Another example would be using “flight attendant” instead of “stewardess” in the airline industry. Inclusive language avoids using gendered job titles.

Hard Numbers: Hungary vs EU over LGBT rights, Hong Kong tabloid shuttered, Arctic shipping grows, deadly Ethiopian airstrike – GZERO Media

The producer: Colombia. In the 1980s Colombia became the center of the global cocaine trade, which helped fuel the decades-long conflict between FARC guerillas, drug cartels, paramilitaries, and the Colombian government.

In 2000, Washington and Bogotá inked the multibillion-dollar Plan Colombia, in which the US trained and equipped Colombian soldiers to crush militants and quash the drug trade. To its credit, Plan Colombia helped force the FARC to negotiate a landmark peace deal in 2016 — but there has been no discernable success against drugs. Coca cultivation is near all-time highs, vastly surpassing levels seen even during the heyday of Pablo Escobar. And Colombian authorities are still making record cocaine busts.

The political problem is that the government hasn’t met pledges to help farmers replace coca crops with legal ones. Doing so would mean providing security and economic opportunity in remote regions where the FARC dissolved but narcos filled the vacuum. Instead, the state has focused on US-backed eradication programs: wrecking coca crops either with environmentally-hazardous aerial spraying or, more recently, sending troops in to tear up coca fields, plant by plant. The trouble is, it doesn’t work. Congress found in a 2020 report that eradication has produced “dismal results” — it creates tension between farmers and the state, without diminishing coca cultivation for long.

If the 2016 peace deal is to have any meaning at all, this circle still needs to be squared. In Colombia, the war on drugs is still an obstacle to peace.

The middleman: Mexico. After US feds in the 1980s busted up the Caribbean transit hubs linking Andean producers and American consumers, overland routes through Mexico took off. By one FBI estimate, some 93 percent of drug flows from South America to the US now go via Mexico. These routes are controlled by the murderous and mind-bogglingly well-armed Mexican cartels that effectively run huge swaths of northern Mexico themselves today. Despite some joint US-Mexico successes, like taking down notorious kingpin El Chapo in 2014, the cartels are as powerful as ever.

What’s more, cooperation between the DEA and Mexican officials has broken down under the administration of Mexico’s prickly nationalist President Andrés Manuel López Obrador.

All of this has contributed to Mexico’s soaring homicide rate, one of the world’s highest. And that’s a big problem for López Obrador. He was elected in 2018 partly on pledges to tackle the violence — but so far his “hugs not bullets” approach has yielded more lead than love.

In sum: the US war on drugs has failed to cut the enemy’s biggest supply chain.

The consumer: the United States. “Just say no,” former US First Lady Nancy Reagan told us. This sizzling egg is your brain on drugs, we learned. And still, decades later, rates of illegal drug use — of all kinds — remains high and rising.

Meanwhile, a raft of laws from the 1980s and 1990s — some written by then-Senator Joe Biden — heavily criminalized drug possession, causing the prison population to explode. That helped to make US incarceration rate the highest in the entire world. Black and Latino Americans have suffered disproportionately: drug convictions are more frequent and sentences harsher than for whites, though drug use rates are similar across racial groups.

But the politics are shifting. More than 80 percent of Americans — of both parties — now say the war on drugs has failed, and two-thirds believe it should end. A big majority favors decriminalization of drug offenses.

So far, more than half of US states have decriminalized small amounts of marijuana for personal consumption, and Oregon has done the same even with harder stuff. One of the thorniest debates now is how to ensure that profits from legal drugs go towards helping the communities of color ravaged for decades by drug enforcement.

And on Tuesday the Biden administration — taking a Trump-era criminal justice reform even further — endorsed an important bill that would finally eliminate disparities in sentencing between powdered cocaine, a more elite drug, and crack, whose generally-poorer (and Blacker) users have suffered harsher punishments for decades.

Still, the US pours billions into drug-oriented law enforcement annually. A drug arrest is made every 23 seconds, activists say. And overdose deaths have more than tripled in the past twenty years amid a raging opioid crisis kickstarted not by distant cartels, but by American drug companies, including those owned by the now-disgraced Sackler family.

The last line (so to speak): After 50 years, the war on drugs has not, by any reasonable standard, been won. Is there a better way? Let us know here

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Rainbow Flags Blossom Outside Munich Soccer Arena After Sport Rejects LGBT Protest Of Hungarian Law – Forbes

Updated Jun 23, 2021, 05:16pm EDT

Topline

Supporters of LGBT rights flocked to the Allianz Arena in Munich ahead of Germany’s Euro 2020 clash with Hungary on Wednesday, flooding the pregame festivities in rainbow-colored flags after European soccer officials banned the stadium itself from displaying a rainbow flag as a form of protest against an anti-gay law recently approved in Hungary.

Key Facts

Rainbow flags outnumbered German flags outside of the stadium on Wednesday, according to the Associated Press.

Officials with UEFA—European soccer’s governing body—ruled Tuesday that a rainbow display in the stadium itself would not be allowed, since UEFA is a “politically and religiously neutral organisation.”

A political message is exactly what Munich Mayor Dieter Reiter intended to send by lighting up the stadium in rainbow colors, to protest a Hungarian law passed last week.

The new law bans the distribution in schools of any content viewed as “promoting” homosexuality, and it enjoys the strong support of the country’s right-wing nationalist Prime Minister Viktor Orban, who’s up for reelection next year.

After UEFA’s Munich rejection, clubs in at least seven other German cities announced they would light their stadia in rainbow colors on Wednesday night in support of the Munich mayor.

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EU Condemns Hungary’s LGBT Bill Banning ‘Display of Homosexuality’ to Minors – Greek Reporter

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Greece joined the EU in condemning Hungary’s new bill. Credit: Camerawalker /Wikimedia Commons/CC BY-SA 4.0

Greece, alongside 14 other European Union nations, signed a declaration on Wednesday condemning Hungary’s recent anti-LGBT+ bill which bans the “display and promotion of homosexuality” to those who are under 18 years old.

Greece was joined by Belgium, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Ireland, Latvia, Lithuania, Luxembourg, the Netherlands, Spain and Sweden in signing the act.

Greece condemns Hungary’s anti-LGBT+ bill

Hungary’s new legislation bans the teaching or portrayal of homosexuality and transgender issues in school education material and television programs addressed to people under 18 years of age.

The bill has caused domestic and international outrage, which has only been intensified due to the fact that it was passed during Pride month, which is meant to be a time of celebration and liberation for the LGBT+ community.

The EU condemnation was led by Benelux, the politico-economic union between Belgium, Luxembourg and the Netherlands. Ministers from the three countries discussed the controversial bill before consulting other like-minded countries to gain their support.

The Belgian Deputy Prime Minister issued a tweet on the issue as well.

Italy did not add its show of support until the end of the meeting, and Greece and Austria both signed the EU initiative the next day.

“(The law) represents a flagrant form of discrimination based on sexual orientation, gender identity and expression and hence deserves to be condemned. Inclusion, human dignity and equality are core values of our European Union, and we cannot compromise on these principles,” the EU countries said in a statement.

“Stigmatizing LGBTIQ persons constitutes a clear breach of their fundamental right to dignity, as provided for in the EU Charter and international law.”

Miltiadis Varvitsiotis, Greece’s Alternate Minister of Foreign Affairs, also spoke on the country’s move to condemn Hungary’s anti-LGBT+ law.

Cheers for Carl Nassib Show a Changing Football Culture – The New York Times

With a mix of delight and awe, Kopay watched it all unfold from his apartment in Palm Springs, Calif.

“Looking at all of this, seeing the reaction to Carl’s announcement, it gives me a surge of contentment,” he said. “But I have to say, I thought this would happen 40 years ago.”

He noted the clutch of retired N.F.L. players who have recently made their sexual identity publicly known, and the large numbers in women’s sports like basketball and tennis. But an active player coming out in the N.F.L., a league still basking in a soup of toxic masculinity and macho posturing? For Kopay, a seeker of true change in sports, that has always been the holy grail.

“I thought that when I came out it would not be long before players in the league followed me,” he said. “But I had to wait. Oh, did I have to wait.”

Kopay, who was a running back, recalled the 1960s and ’70s, when he lined up for a series of teams in an N.F.L. career that stretched nearly a decade. He didn’t hide his sexuality. Most of his teammates and coaches knew. He remembers that Vince Lombardi, who coached Kopay in Washington, was particularly supportive.

But going public? Not a chance.

Years later, Sam tried to break that mold. When he told his truth after his final season at Missouri, a profound societal shift was underway. A little over a year later, the Supreme Court would finally make gay marriage legal in the United States.

Still, the football world was not ready. On draft night, TV cameras zoomed in as Sam kissed his boyfriend on national television. Cue the bleating anger from some fans, the weak-kneed squeamishness from some retrograde corners of the league.

Hungary’s anti-gay law is about Orban’s next election – The Irish Times

“If you want to understand the Orban regime, it’s very important to note that, throughout his governance, and particularly in every election period, there is always one enemy,” says MEP Katalin Cseh on the phone from a taxi as she dashes between meetings in Brussels.

“It’s usually a group of people in a minority who are weak, who do not have the same opportunities as the majority and they are singled out. Before this it was the migrants. Now it appears that the LGBTI community is part of the new enemy group.”

Cseh is one of two young women who won seats in the European Parliament for Hungary’s newly-founded liberal, pro-EU Momentum party in 2019, a year of political upsets for the hard-right regime of Viktor Orban that saw the opposition advance in local elections and take the mayoralty of capital Budapest.

Now with national elections approaching in 2022, opinion polls indicate the united opposition is running neck and neck with Orban’s Fidesz party, and Cseh believes the government’s strategy is to stoke fears about gay people in a bid to shore up its political support.

This is the context to a a new law that bans the portrayal of gay people in any content that is deemed to be for people aged under 18. 

Introduced as an amendment to a law on child abuse, the legislation has provoked uproar across western Europe where member states, already exasperated by Orban’s persistent vetoing of European Union statements on international human-rights issues, have rounded on Budapest for what they say is a deliberate move to rouse societal hostility towards LGBT minorities by equating homosexuality with paedophilia.

Ireland has called for the European Commission to take Hungary to court for violating EU norms, and joined 15 member states in condemning the law in a statement that revealed a stark divide between western and eastern Europe on the issue, as a cluster of states around Hungary chose to stay silent.

A showdown is expected as national leaders meet in Brussels this week and the row has even spilled over into the Euro 2020 soccer tournament, as local authorities around Europe declared they would display the rainbow flag in protest at Uefa’s refusal to allow Munich’s stadium to be lit up with the Pride colours for Wednesday night’s Germany-Hungary match.

“For the Hungarian LGBTI communities, it really gives hope to see so much international support in this difficult time,” Cseh says.

In 2020 Hungary was downgraded to no longer be rated as a democracy but rather a “hybrid regime” by the NGO Freedom House, which cited a raft of legal changes that allowed the Orban government to consolidate its control over the country’s independent institutions and suppress the freedom of the media.

EU cash

Orban’s ability to do this, according to Cseh, has been smoothed by EU cash, which she says he has used to enrich a coterie of cronies that in turn support Fidesz. She points to the case of Lorinc Meszaros, a school friend of Orban and a former gas fitter who was awarded a raft of state and EU-funded contracts and now ranks as Hungary’s richest man.

“It’s how Orban maintains his power,” Cseh says.

The MEP points to a laggardly response from other EU states and from the European Commission in the years when Orban began to take his authoritarian turn, and worries that inaction now could encourage his allies in other member states under populist rule.

“This enables I think, other people who feel that the free press is just a nuisance for their government, or believe that they could be better off with more loyal judges,” Cseh says. “This is why we have to be very, very strong in confirming that we are a community, we are not a cash machine.”

She has called on the commission to come down hard on Hungary through infringement procedures, which were initiated in 2018 along with proceedings against Poland for stacking the judiciary, but have stalled since. In addition, she wants the EU to use a new conditionality clause attached to funding, which is designed to withhold cash for countries that infringe the rule of law.

Orban’s strategy is to get what he can from the EU, while limiting the bloc’s power, Cseh believes.

“I think he wants to weaken the EU significantly. He wants to turn back to the idea of pure nation states, and limited economic co-operation between them,” Cseh says.

“I think what he doesn’t understand [is] that a weak EU is bad. Bad for everybody, but particularly for small countries with open economies such as Hungary. Hungary would never be able to influence anything in the global sphere if it wasn’t part of a community 450 million strong.”

ENSPIRA Earns Certification as LGBT Business Enterprise® from National LGBT Chamber of Commerce – PRNewswire

LOS ANGELES, June 23, 2021 /PRNewswire/ — Enspira, an innovative human resources (HR) consultancy and technology firm, today announced receiving certification as a Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) Business Enterprise® (Certified LGBTBE®) through the National LGBT Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) Supplier Diversity Initiative. The NGLCC is the business voice of the LGBT community and serves as the nation’s exclusive certifying body for LGBT-owned and operated businesses.

“As a member of the LGBTQ community and Founder and CEO of Enspira, I am proud to see our firm become a Certified LGBTBE through the NGLCC, the largest LGBT economic advocacy and business development organization in the world,” said Kurt Landon. “I have spent much of my career advocating for marginalized communities, and at Enspira, we are committed to making lasting change and work every day with our clients to instill diversity, equity, inclusion and belonging (DEIB) in all aspects of the workplace. Whether providing guidance on DEIB or assisting organizations with their talent and culture needs, as a certified LGBTBE, Enspira is here to help.”

Companies and organizations can engage Enspira for DEIB and other custom HR solutions. With the LGBTBE certification, Enspira can also be the consultancy of choice to help them meet their growing supplier diversity goals and requirements. Over one-third of Fortune 500 companies recognize this certification and partner with NGLCC to create fully LGBT-inclusive supply chains. Enspira brings deep expertise and commitment to DEIB and can serve for-profit and nonprofit organizations of all sizes and industries.

“We are so pleased to welcome Enspira to the ever-expanding network of NGLCC Certified LGBT Business Enterprises and the hundreds of corporations and government agencies eager to put them to work,” said NGLCC Co-Founder and President Justin Nelson and Co-Founder and CEO Chance Mitchell. “According to NGLCC’s groundbreaking America’s LGBT Economy report, America’s estimated 1.4 million LGBT business owners, many of them NGLCC certified, add over $1.7 trillion to the GDP and create tens of thousands of new jobs. We are proud to count Enspira among those who prove every day that LGBT businesses are the future of the American economy.”

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Enspira started with the simple philosophy in mind: deliver fit-for-purpose, client-focused HR solutions that help people be inspired, grow and thrive, so their organization does too. Founded in 2018 by Kurt Landon, Enspira is an innovative and LGBTQ-owned HR consultancy and technology firm headquartered in Southern California, helping clients with their people needs and consistently delivering the most practical and pragmatic ways to implement them within their organizations. Through the combination of its Startup Studio and Innovation Lab, Consulting Services and Technology Solutions business units, Enspira’s winning team of HR experts collectively bring hundreds of years of diverse, cross-industry and global experience. Learn more at enspirahr.com and follow @enspirahr.

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The Best Restaurants and Bars in Downtown Knoxville, Tennessee – Eater Nashville

Rounding that final curve before a first glimpse of that towering golden ball known as the Sunsphere on I-40 East, it’s quite possible the tune from Rocky Top worms its way into your ears. Home of the Tennessee Volunteers, Knoxville paid no mind to the Wall Street Journal calling it a “scruffy little city” back in the ‘80s when Knoxville won the bid for the 1982 World’s Fair. Far from scruffy, there are now more than 90 restaurants, most locally-owned, within a square mile of downtown Knoxville and nearly 25 breweries throughout the city. You can learn why Knox really rocks, starting with these downtown restaurants and bars.

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Note: Restaurants on this map are listed geographically.

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Conservation Work Done On Gay Liberation Monument In Christopher Park – CBS New York

NEW YORK (CBSNewYork) – Work was being done Wednesday morning to preserve a gay liberation monument.

The sculptural group by George Segal is located in Christopher Park in Greenwich Village. It commemorates the Stonewall Riots.

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Wednesday, NYC Parks staff cleaned the figures and applied a special lacquer to protect it.

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Park officials say the special wax preserves the aesthetic of the pieces while ensuring they are kept safe and standing in good condition.

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Miley Cyrus Gave a Look at the Over-the-Top Fashion in Her Pride Special – Yahoo Lifestyle

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Mom tells sister her 4-year-old rainbow baby ‘isn’t special’

A parent told her sister that her “spoiled” rainbow baby, a child born after the death or miscarriage of a previous child. wasn’t special and that his behavior was inappropriate. The frustrated mother shared her story with Reddit’s Am I The A******* page . The poster shared some context, explaining that she had a set of 6-year-old twins, . and that her sister had lost her first baby to SIDS, which was devastating for the whole family. Luckily, the poster’s sister was able to conceive again, and now has a 4-year-old son named Conner. She goes on to explain that at her twins’ 6th birthday party, Conner complained the whole time, threw multiple tantrums, and then as the final straw, . Connor ripped open almost all his cousins’ gifts before they had a chance to see them. The twins’ mother finally lost her temper and told her sister that Conner was a brat and ruined the party for her children. She believes his behavior is a direct result of his parents’ lack of discipline and constant praise. Most Reddit users agreed that the poster was in the right, and that Conner can’t be coddled for his whole life. One user commented, “Can you imagine him trying to use the excuse ‘but I am a rainbow baby’ for everything in school?”